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A boy raised by a single mom

Freeyourminds:
Denounce these things and make Jesus your Lord and savior.

Hell is not a joke and there will be no excuses.

I think you are the joke here.

Samantha125:
A family that doesn't believe in tradition, because I'm from a strong traditional background and last thing I've ever wanted was for the other family to be judging my family by assuming that they're diabolical for being traditionalists.

Because many people associate African spirituality with evil, which is not always the case... In every religious denomination, there'll always good and evil people... And African spirituality raised and shaped me into the person I am today, no matter how much some people might demonize it, I'll forever be grateful of it even if I become a full blown Christian... So if my partner and his family weren't going to accept my background for the way it is, there was no way we'd have worked out.

And those forming modern religion are the most corrupt, intolerant and worst bunch of hypocrites on earth. All those "touch not my anointed" crooners.

They will not question what their god of men does, even if banging their wife or daughter. They will pretend.

you can marry from poor family but dont marry from family that are poor yet they want to live large and those with entitlement mentality

Aliko Dangote

Femi Otedola

Ibrahim Babangida

Pastor Enoch Adeboye

Igbinedon

Iwuanyanwu

Odumeku Ojukwu

Bola Tinubu

Gbajabiamila

Nyesom Wike

saintopus:
Poor family!

Never ever marry from a Poor lady's family.

Am talking from experience

Especially if you yourself is from a boy family and just getting on your feet!

A family where the mother/father is not faithful, run.
Like mother, like . . .?
Like father, Like . . .?

The family where the mother talks down and disrespect the father of the girl

Sirchiboy:
Mention the type of family you will never marry from

see how people from poor homes and are poverty stricken display high level classism in comment section 😭😭😭😭😭


Yet they're willing to marry a foreigner regardless of the circumstances and are prepared to compromise their standards as long as there's something to gain personally.

Samantha125:
A family that doesn't believe in tradition, because I'm from a strong traditional background and last thing I've ever wanted was for the other family to be judging my family by assuming that they're diabolical for being traditionalists.

Because many people associate African spirituality with evil, which is not always the case... In every religious denomination, there'll always good and evil people... And African spirituality raised and shaped me into the person I am today, no matter how much some people might demonize it, I'll forever be grateful of it even if I become a full blown Christian... So if my partner and his family weren't going to accept my background for the way it is, there was no way we'd have worked out.

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I don't think anyone asked you for this pitch presentation, and by the way, I would never advise anyone to marry from a xenophobic family. 🫩😒

That's good.

omooba969:
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I don't think anyone asked you for this pitch presentation, and by the way[b], I would never advise anyone to marry from a xenophobic family. 🫩😒

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Samantha125:
And he just had to call me a "Bros" and "sir"...😭😭😭

No, I'm not from Anambra... Many of those Africans claiming to be Christians are just traditionalists in disguise... They're Christians to the public, but traditionalists in private because they're ashamed of embracing their African spirituality publicity due to the fear of being marginalised from the society and it's quite sad when you think about it.

Never mind all that, are you sure you're NOT from Anambra?

obiekunie01:
The fact that 98% of those with (f) identification on their moniker are male. Hence why i see us all as male. My apologies.

How about the Amambra part? That's the one I'm most interested in

Yes, I'm sure.

QuinQQ:
Never mind all that, are you sure you're NOT from Anambra?

Nonsense people … oga marry any woman that is good and love you and leave those nonsense mentality you have

Samantha125:
Trying to use fear to impose your colonial belief on me won't work... What you're doing is no different from what those your Boko Haram and Fulani brothers of yours are doing to you guys in Northern Nigeria.

I was once a full blown Christian and the more I got involved in the church, the more I started seeing things for what they really were... I saw hell on earth, if members didn't do enough evangelism throughout the month, they'd get whipped with a belt by our senior pastor, we'd each be allocated the amount of offering that we're expected to give as members depending on our family backgrounds, and almost everyone was fornicating in that church because apparently "the founding pastor didn't mind"... So I did give Christianity a chance, but I unfortunately ended up in deep depression and became suicidal, it took the work of a therapist to get me back into my senses... And this is one of the biggest churches in Africa.

Sorry for your experience but that’s not a church rather you were in a cult. Google Charles Manson you’d see similarities between him and your former cult leader

saintopus:
Never ever marry from a Poor lady's family.

Am talking from experience

There are exemptions to this:
1) If the guy is a rich guy, and/or from a rich family background, and the lady (in question) is a humble, respectful and submissive person, he can go ahead.

Sometimes, God can bring such a man to be a blessing in the life of the lady. 😎

Treat people as individual. No one wants to repeat family mistakes.

Broken home. If she's from broken home

Samantha125:
Yes, I'm sure.

Hmmm, I have my suspicions

Promiscuous and ill-mannered family.

Run away from ekiti girls they are dangerous I wan you, you will leave to regret it, lifetime experience

Unfortunately, your suspicions are wrong...

QuinQQ:
Hmmm, I have my suspicions

obiekunie01:
This is superb!

Bros are you from Anambra?

We are still many that follow tradition in my hometown. Though some still go to church for to be a part of a society.

Tradition keeps you clean and pure - because it is built on one simple principle: Anything you know tht if somebody do you it will pain you, dont do it to another person. If you follow this simple rule, you will have a clean heart and a clean soul.

Thumps up sir. Don't allow them to bully you into their imported rubbish religions.

A true traditional worshipper will never call other religion rubbish.

A family where the father is treated like shittt

A family where the kids hate the father

A family where the daughters side with the mum to fight the father

A feminist family

LUAN1:
you can marry from poor family but dont marry from family that are poor yet they want to live large and does with entitlement mentality

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You're contradicting yasef oga, bcoz there's no way you would pick a girl or boy from a poor background and their family wouldn't have expectations.
This expectations, when not met, turns to resentment, and they’re more likely to mount pressure on their own to let the resources trickle-down.

You gerrit. 🙂

bro calm down wetin Ekiti girls do you, them thief your umbrella inside rain ni





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Breaker001:
There are exemptions to this:
1) If the guy is a rich guy, and/or from a rich family background, and the lady (in question) is a humble, respectful and submissive person, he can go ahead.

Sometimes, God can bring such a man to be a blessing in the life of the lady. 😎

The big flaw in your submission is that no "humble, respectful and submissive person" from a poor family stays that way once they touch a little bit of money or power. Their main objective would be to show off, pride, etc.
Best advice: don't marry from a poor family unless that's the best that's available to you (it is still better than a BAD rich family)

spencekat:
Evil supporting, quick to anger and greedy type of family.

People think they are not greedy until money matter pops up. You may not even know until opportunity presents itself. That your saint Obi only needs time to activate.

IyaTola:
A boy raised by a single mom

Hasty generalisation causes diarrhoea, you know.

Samantha125:
And he just had to call me a "Bros" and "sir"...😭😭😭

No, I'm not from Anambra... Many of those Africans claiming to be Christians are just traditionalists in disguise... They're Christians to the public, but traditionalists in private because they're ashamed of embracing their African spirituality publicity due to the fear of being marginalised from the society and it's quite sad when you think about it.

I give you 100% for this write up.

You must be a sweetheart 💋.

Samantha125:
A family that doesn't believe in tradition, because I'm from a strong traditional background and last thing I've ever wanted was for the other family to be judging my family by assuming that they're diabolical for being traditionalists.

Because many people associate African spirituality with evil, which is not always the case... In every religious denomination, there'll always good and evil people... And African spirituality raised and shaped me into the person I am today, no matter how much some people might demonize it, I'll forever be grateful of it even if I become a full blown Christian... So if my partner and his family weren't going to accept my background for the way it is, there was no way we'd have worked out.

Let’s marry. I’m a full blown African traditionalist.

Already off the market...

Elzazzi:
Let’s marry. I’m a full blown African traditionalist.