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Samantha125:
Unfortunately, your suspicions are wrong...

Well, it's a faceless forum. You have a right to claim you're not from Anambra, and I have a right to retain my suspicions!

Well, I don't know about that...😅😅😅

Wizardslayer:
I give you 100% for this write up.

You must be a sweetheart 💋.

Freeyourminds:
You're 100% right. These things are real. Infact they have the power to grant you your wishes on earth. The danger is at death. When you die it will be you versus Jesus.

If you don't have Him you'll never get another chance. It will be eternally too late and I don't think I'll deny that I'm trying to scare you. You should be genuinely scared. This is not a joke. You know the Bible already.

Samantha125:
African spirituality is real as well and I'm happy and at peace with it, so let's respect each other's beliefs and stop derailing someone's thread.

How about all those ancestors who died before coming of Christianity? What's your take? I genuinely want to learn

Sirchiboy:
Mention the type of family you will never marry from

Family where the first born assume the responsibility of their parent

Traditionalists are everywhere across the African continent and not only in Anambra...😊😊😊

QuinQQ:
Well, it's a faceless forum. You have a right to claim you're not from Anambra, and I have a right to retain my suspicions!

Family with mental illness history

If I see any Apc member in that family, then it means my children may have no brain? So no.

QuinQQ:
The big flaw in your submission is that no "humble, respectful and submissive person" from a poor family stays that way once they touch a little bit of money or power

I sincerely understand your sentiment on this. However, everyone is not the same. I know of people who have not allowed wealth or status to enter their head. I personally know someone who was married by her husband as a "poor girl" from a very poor family background but now she is 1000× richer than the husband. Yet, she adores the husband like a demigod. She honours the man like her life depends on it. She will always say: "I am who I am because of my husband". I'm telling you this from a direct experience

QuinQQ:
[/b] don't marry from a poor family unless that's the best that's available to you (it is still better than a bad rich family)

😂😂😂😂😂
If you take this rigid stand, what will be the fate of these girls?
Should they stay unmarried because they were "unfortunate" to be born in a "poor family"? 😂

My submission is simple: there are still good girls who happen to be born in poor families 😎

Samantha125:
Traditionalists are everywhere across the African continent and not only in Anambra...😊😊😊

It is not just one thing, it is general comportment and orientation

Majority of my family lineage were never Christians, so I don't know hey.

QuinQQ:
How about all those ancestors who died before coming of Christianity? What's your take? I genuinely want to learn

obiekunie01:
This is superb!

Bros are you from Anambra?

We are still many that follow tradition in my hometown. Though some still go to church for to be a part of a society.

Tradition keeps you clean and pure - because it is built on one simple principle: Anything you know tht if somebody do you it will pain you, dont do it to another person. If you follow this simple rule, you will have a clean heart and a clean soul.

Thumps up sir. Don't allow them to bully you into their imported rubbish religions.

the awareness we Yorubas are starting to create about tradition, the igbos uphold it strongly and practice it widely

Family where mother is control of the home and father has no voice or his words means nothing.
Daughters from such home naturally believe that's the way home is running.

Hope you are rich too or you are from a rich family, cos rich girls do not want to marry tona poor family too.

saintopus:
Poor family!

Never ever marry from a Poor lady's family.

Am talking from experience

A family that don't love God because how can you love me if you don't love God.
A family where they are not intelligent,i love brainy genes.

Samantha125:
A family that doesn't believe in tradition, because I'm from a strong traditional background and last thing I've ever wanted was for the other family to be judging my family by assuming that they're diabolical for being traditionalists.

Because many people associate African spirituality with evil, which is not always the case... In every religious denomination, there'll always good and evil people... And African spirituality raised and shaped me into the person I am today, no matter how much some people might demonize it, I'll forever be grateful of it even if I become a full blown Christian... So if my partner and his family weren't going to accept my background for the way it is, there was no way we'd have worked out.

Simply marry from a traditional, diabolical family like yours to avoid wahala

obiekunie01:
This is superb!

Bros are you from Anambra?

We are still many that follow tradition in my hometown. Though some still go to church for to be a part of a society.

Tradition keeps you clean and pure - because it is built on one simple principle: Anything you know tht if somebody do you it will pain you, dont do it to another person. If you follow this simple rule, you will have a clean heart and a clean soul.

Thumps up sir. Don't allow them to bully you into their imported rubbish religions.

She is not a man…na South African woman be dat

Freeyourminds:
Denounce these things and make Jesus your Lord and savior.

Hell is not a joke and there will be no excuses.

It looks like your fear of hell makes you follow Jesus.

NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER MAKE THE MISTAKE OF MARRYING A GIRL THAT GREW UP UNDER THE LEADERSHIP OF A WOMAN, ESPECIALLY A SINGLE MUM. Unless her parents divorce happened when she was already an adult. But if she was a child when her mother divorced her dad and she grew up under the mother, my brother, no matter how good she may appear, she will never see you as the leader of the family. She will drag leadership position with you, want to be the one with the final say or you have to consult her before you take even the slightest decision. Simply pipe and swipe, they will sooner or later still divorce you to gain the freedom they feel their mother enjoyed without a man giving her instructions.

My best asvise to any man irrespective of the kind of family that you wont marry from.
Please and please, dont marry a lady that hate,disrespect and will not forgive her father, it will hunt your marriage in the future no matter how much love you can give her and no matter the efforts that you put into the marriage in order to make it work,it will all boil down to that hatred and disrespect for her dad.
No matter what you do, she will disrespectf you any mistake you might make no matter how little,she won't forgive you.

Omoawoke:
A family where the father is treated like shittt

A family where the kids hate the father

A family where the daughters side with the mum to fight the father

A feminist family

Sirchiboy:
Mention the type of family you will never marry from

Family that believe POLYGAMY ia a way of life[color=#006600][/color]

Omoawoke:
A family where the father is treated like shittt

A family where the kids hate the father

A family where the daughters side with the mum to fight the father

A feminist family

Nairaland men, save his post. Very important.

There's nothing diabolical about being a traditionalist.

DonnChine:
Simply marry from a traditional, diabolical family like yours to avoid wahala

Druss:
Family with mental illness history

This one too. Nairaland men, this comment is important. Save it.

carnal:
My best asvise to any man irrespective of the kind of family that you wont marry from.
Please and please, dont marry a lady that hate,disrespect and will not forgive her father, it will hunt your marriage in the future no matter how much love you can give her and no matter the efforts that you put into the marriage in order to make it work,it will all boil down to that hatred and disrespect for her dad.

Well said sir!

A poor, wretched family. Just like marrying from the family of a BATified

Samantha125:
A family that doesn't believe in tradition, because I'm from a strong traditional background and last thing I've ever wanted was for the other family to be judging my family by assuming that they're diabolical for being traditionalists.

Because many people associate African spirituality with evil, which is not always the case... In every religious denomination, there'll always good and evil people... And African spirituality raised and shaped me into the person I am today, no matter how much some people might demonize it, I'll forever be grateful of it even if I become a full blown Christian... So if my partner and his family weren't going to accept my background for the way it is, there was no way we'd have worked out.

long story

Any tribalist family are my enemy.

Any ritualist known family its no go zone

Any family with no good reputation is no go ,one cus I don't want to produce offspring who will take their demonic gene to trouble my life

I had a wonderful female friend in university. The only reason I refused to propose to her was because she's from a polygamous home.
I couldn't keep up with that feeling given my past experience with some polygamous offsprings.
Each of us is happily married to our respective spouses now though

I will never marry urhobo people.

Then why not skip it?

Eagleways:
long story