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She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by ngodus: 9:21pm On Mar 07, 2011
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by Nobody: 10:04pm On Mar 07, 2011
I saw this in the news today. 11 and 12 year olds having babies. . . . babies themselves
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by mamagee3(f): 11:02pm On Mar 07, 2011
I can't laugh! grin grin
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by Blazay(m): 12:33pm On Mar 08, 2011
So?
Freeeeeeeeeeee world! kiss
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by MaiSuya(m): 2:43pm On Mar 08, 2011
nonsense!
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by sayso: 1:05pm On Mar 09, 2011
Guinness book where are thou?
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by Akuviv: 1:13pm On Mar 09, 2011
A gypsy wife has become the world's youngest grandmother - aged just 23.

Rifca Stanescu, from the village of Investi, Romania, told how she gave birth to her daughter, Maria, while only 13.

Despite her mother's pleas to stay in school, Maria gave birth to son Ion at the age of 11.


Happy family: Rifca Stanescu, left, now 25, gave birth to daughter maria aged just 12. Maria then bore Ion, now two, right, at the age of 11

Rifca, now 25, told the Sun: 'I am happy to be a grandmother but I wished something else for Maria - and something else for me.

'Ion is a good boy - and he is already engaged to a girl aged 8. Boys are always good to have - they don't have to suffer as much girls I think.'

Born in 1985, Rifca defied her family's wishes and ran away with jewellery seller Ionel Stanescu when she was 11 and he was 13.

A year after they were married, Rifca fell pregnant with Maria.

She said: 'I wanted to marry him, so I agreed, and of course after we had spent the night together then there was no way anyone could separate us. I had been promised to another boy's family since I was two years old but I didn't want that.'

In gypsy culture virginity is greatly prized and women are married young so that new husband's can be sure their new wives are virgins who affect a good dowry from the families of prospective husbands. Loss of virginity means a deal is cancelled.


Close knit: Rifca with husband Ionel and grandson Ion

She added: 'Before that there was a lot of fighting - once my father had even attacked my husband with a knife. He wanted him to pay 500,000 lei in compensation. My family even took me home but after three days I ran away again to be with him.'

After Maria's birth, Ionel's family paid Rifca's father a dowry and all was settled.

Maria's birth made Rifca's mother a grandmother aged 40.

Rifca said she begged daughter Maria to stay in school and finish her education.

Maria decided to follow in her footsteps and marry herself. Within six months she too had fallen pregnant with Ion.

She told how in Romanian gypsy community it is common for couples to marry young.

Rifca added: 'I did not try to stop my daughter getting married because this is the tradition, it's what happens.'

The youngest British grandmother was an unnamed 26-year-old from Rotheram, Yorkshire whose 12-year-old daughter gave birth in 1999.

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Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by Akuviv: 1:15pm On Mar 09, 2011
If this were to be a Nigerian Story, the world would scream foul angry angry I pity those baby mothers, what a culture! shocked shocked

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Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by tosinaded(m): 1:18pm On Mar 09, 2011
how do u fukk a 12 yr old girl?
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by Omolola1(f): 1:23pm On Mar 09, 2011
I guess it runs in their blood
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by OvieE: 2:11pm On Mar 09, 2011
tosinaded@:

how do u fukk a 12 yr old girl?


spread the leg > open wild and squeeze ur snake in. Simple as that. Good luck if you want to FUKK 12 yr old girl too.
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by scopusng(m): 2:23pm On Mar 09, 2011
Nonsense. The world is coming to an end.
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by gbagudara: 2:26pm On Mar 09, 2011
Please lighten up on vulgarity and explicits
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by gbagudara: 2:30pm On Mar 09, 2011
For the sake of decency, please lighten up on vulgar expressions regarding intimacy issues. This is a public forum.
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by vislabraye(m): 2:37pm On Mar 09, 2011
Na lie
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by Olumogun: 2:43pm On Mar 09, 2011
Where are those politicized NGO for children, youth, and women.
This is something they should react to very fast before some crazy people begin to use it as yard-stick for some moral and religious "crimes".
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by 3kay945(m): 2:49pm On Mar 09, 2011
na dem sabi, dem chop belle full
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by Odunnu: 2:51pm On Mar 09, 2011
I'm sure this cant happen in Nigeria!
We are well brought up around ths parts
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by shhsub: 2:55pm On Mar 09, 2011
wonders shall neva end.it cnt happn in niger at all.grand kini?
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by eridah2007(m): 3:01pm On Mar 09, 2011
scopusng:

Nonsense. The world is coming to an end.
End for where. Dis just d begining grin
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by gwas(m): 3:15pm On Mar 09, 2011
chineke!
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by Raymonbell(m): 3:18pm On Mar 09, 2011
Record breaker ;-)
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by nanidee(f): 3:23pm On Mar 09, 2011
Excuse me,

The WOMAN seating there is 25?, i beg to differ.

On second thoughts, i just might be 14 years old then. smh
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by ceeplus(m): 3:28pm On Mar 09, 2011
It is just part of history
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by Cuteobi(f): 3:32pm On Mar 09, 2011
This is indeed frightening.Can someone remind me d name of that Nigerian gonernor dat married a teenager and evryone was cryin FOUL.his teenage wife is older than this grandmother.i bet both grandmother and mother would hav VVF.come to think of it at 23,i was still enjoying spinsterhood
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by duduspace(m): 3:52pm On Mar 09, 2011
DAMN, I've gotta ask myself have I wasted my life? I should be an effin great granddad. WTF. 
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by dayokanu(m): 4:27pm On Mar 09, 2011
See as all these Naija girls dey waste dem time.

Most of dem shoulda been grandmothers by now
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by AHMAD143: 5:05pm On Mar 09, 2011
Abomination kiss
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by batiatus(m): 5:28pm On Mar 09, 2011
wetin cum be our bussines, na 2day. Are they complaining? They are doing great. Even d couple elope. Lol. Na 2 of dem agree 2 born pikin so wetin come be our own. Ok make dem just dey do am make dem no born abi.
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by sexyryda: 6:21pm On Mar 09, 2011
its unbelievable
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by ritapearl(f): 6:34pm On Mar 09, 2011
That means she will be a great great great grandmother at age 50.

Not bad at all.
Re: She's A Grandmother -- At Age 23! by Yemmyc(f): 6:53pm On Mar 09, 2011
strange culture,infact gurls sef!,coz i stil find it hard 2 blieve d fact dat 12 year old gurls survives child Labour.datz way 2 strraannggee!

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