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Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... - Romance (2) - Nairaland

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Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Gotocourt: 9:41pm On Jul 05
Sorry ehhh, me see no dey feel fine angry
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by folake4u: 9:42pm On Jul 05
meobizy:
Everybody na professional for woman affairs for Nairaland. Who then are the men simping for women in the real world?
Very good question.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by tiswell(m): 9:43pm On Jul 05
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed

I Sabi their code na. Once I ask banny say--"How are you?". She come get mind reply -"Not fine" angry. Omoh,that's the end of discussion angry. I won't even bother to waste my precious time on chatting you anymore,cuz from that minute,I go just realize say na bandit you be angry. And it's very obvious say you dey after my pocket and also after my life angry

Na why my Blocklist on Whatsapp no dey smile these days be that angry
Stop chasing women only to block them on your list sad
Chase more money instead,and position yourself in a frame they'll chase after.

From your position above,you are still struggling baba(no offense)
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Checkwell: 9:43pm On Jul 05
Nonsense post.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Gbadugbakun(m): 9:49pm On Jul 05
Zonefree:
If she's not fine, advice her to see a doctor.
She'll tell you no money for doctor.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by 3kay945(m): 9:50pm On Jul 05
meobizy:
Everybody na professional for woman affairs for Nairaland. Who then are the men simping for women in the real world?
You forget say we are too plenty in this country o..

200millions plus be no moimoi o..

So, millions of mugus still dey offline.

Anyway, as for me, when I asked that question. I do give little if it is someone I like.

I see it as alms giving ... cool
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Zonefree(m): 9:50pm On Jul 05
Gbadugbakun:
She'll tell you no money for doctor.
Then I'll send her N500 to get Baba Osun herbal cleanser.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by boomcity009(m): 9:50pm On Jul 05
How do u do it guy, I want to learn ASAP

Goo0dHardDick:
women know and understand the scope now that men are wiser than before.

Do you know there are more single and lonely girls crying for lack of men to s€x them than men are? I met 7 girls in 2 weeks and they all told me the same stories that they've been lonely and bored.

Do you know that majority of girls don't get guys toasting them on the road? This is why I volunteered myself to be warming the holes between their legs.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by maasoap(m): 9:51pm On Jul 05
nlfpmod:
Dr Joe Abah, OON writes:

Source

Is this true?
There is this person whenever I called her to check on her, she must call me back or give me a flash call the following day to tell her me that she's not "fine". Every f time.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Emeskhalifa(m): 9:52pm On Jul 05
Stephen0mozzy:
Oh no no. Girls actually know the kind of guys they "bill" senselessly. For one, if you have hungry girls in your CL, then the problem is you - you need to find girls wey get class - just that girls with class they make some guys fear.

That's why many of them dey date rubbish, and generalize that all girls are bad.

Find a girl that can stimulate, engage and even initiate brain-wracking conversations.

It's okay to ask a person why they're not fine. If you care for someone you'd want to know.

Unless you're her husband or father, you don't have the responsibility of giving her a solution - unless you want to.
Most of una wey dey talk this thing never date high class babe na why una dey talk this thing.

High class babe don't bill frequently but their bill is heavy (telling you this from experience) their billings start from hundreds and above, not all the time like these hungry ones but they bill once in a while too.

The advantage of dating them, is they can come through for you during your financial difficulties if you sef dey come through for then unlike the low, local ones who even if you spend including your blood for them, they will never help you. Their mindset and mentality is terrible.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Godsonkemz(m): 9:53pm On Jul 05
It depends on who you add as friend
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Omoawoke(m): 9:54pm On Jul 05
99% is all about money

The other 1% is about money
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by maasoap(m): 9:55pm On Jul 05
Goo0dHardDick:
women know and understand the scope now that men are wiser than before.

Do you know there are more single and lonely girls crying for lack of men to s€x them than men are? I met 7 girls in 2 weeks and they all told me the same stories that they've been lonely and bored.

Do you know that majority of girls don't get guys toasting them on the road? This is why I volunteered myself to be warming the holes between their legs.
Not a nice way to put it. We all have females in our lives be it mother, sisters or daughters
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by emmyN(m): 9:56pm On Jul 05
Be intentional. Do not ask people how they are if you do not really care.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Walai(m): 9:59pm On Jul 05
Not true, in this time and age, Internet noise have proven to result in real life action. Obidient's Internet noise resulted in real life action in 2023 election,fact. VDM internet noise have resulted in real life actions as seen in his real life protests, Pastor Jerry Eze internet noise have seen real life actions, he built a multinational church just with the Internet , gehgeh Internet noise is really changing many guys mentality, unless you don't want to accept the reality of modern age .



meobizy:
Internet noise doesn’t result in real life action. See voting results and planned protests for example. Online noise starts and ends on the internet. The same guys “awakening” online are simping for females in their neighbourhood. They only come online to form Bruce Lee.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Wotowotoman: 10:00pm On Jul 05
boomcity009:
How do u do it guy, I want to learn ASAP
You dey ask that guy wey soapy don peel him preek finish? Na wa for you o grin
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by johnhickson: 10:01pm On Jul 05
Yóu give her a good kick and refill the meds
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Chiemeka1: 10:04pm On Jul 05
Avoid her, she is a malfactor, a recalcitrant and a red flag. Don't say I never told you.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Wotowotoman: 10:05pm On Jul 05
The ones for Kalulu44 igboro no dey even bother to bill the guy. Once he ask them how dem dey, they just japa 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️. Na wa o grin grin
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Dshocker(m): 10:06pm On Jul 05
HelenaWills:
You only attract your type.
Shikena.
Man dey buy me car as birthday gift, na "I'm not fine" e go run from?
You buy, you no buy, I buy times 10 of it.
C'est fini.
Really, wonders shall never end.

Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by cdm4live: 10:07pm On Jul 05
meobizy:
Everybody na professional for woman affairs for Nairaland. Who then are the men simping for women in the real world?
Imagine.

Me, I normally ask o. Weytin happen.
She: I dey hungry.
Me: Go find food chop
She: I no get money
Me: Big girl like you, you no dey shame?

But honestly, most of these billings are on men wey no Sabi play with woman to get connected. E dey affect me too.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Goo0dHardDick: 10:09pm On Jul 05
Diamond098454:
A beautiful girl don't have a guy (s) in her life including admirers? Hmmmmm the way you guys talk in this forum hmmmmm
98% beautiful girls are lonely and lack men for sex. Quote me any day.

Dey play. Alot of guys avoid beautiful girls on the road for the fear of being rejected. Others are afraid thinking she's in a relationship. U probably won't understand what I'm saying.

So many beautiful girls don't have or hardly get toasters let alone guys asking for their numbers. We all saw on the thread where a lady was insulting a guy on black senator outfit because the guy refused to toast her in the keke where they sat together. That guy might be afraid of rejection or might think she's in a relationship etc.

Madam or oga, so many beautiful girls don't have guys approaching them. Guys can admire you by staring at you without approaching or talking to you.

Some beautiful girls are extremely rude too. It makes guys to avoid them completely
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by tunjijones(m): 10:10pm On Jul 05
Me: how are you,
The girl: I am not fine
Me: what's wrong with you
The girl: bla blabla bla bla
Me: sorry ooo.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Imindmybusiness: 10:11pm On Jul 05
Times have changed. Many men no longer have time for nonsense
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Goo0dHardDick:
boomcity009:
How do u do it guy, I want to learn ASAP
It's all about building your confidence.

Also have an apartment of your own.
Most importantly, be confident and Walk up to any girl and talk to her. I don't know how Best to explain it. Talk to her collect her number and call later for meet up. Like tell her when and time. If she gives excuses etc, delete her number and move on.

I have explained everything on all my posts. Read them up carefully.

A serious girl will reach out to you after canceling plans. Don't text any girl on WhatsApp, it's a waste of time! Call her instead, it's a sign of seriousness
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Threedoorsdown: 10:19pm On Jul 05
meobizy:
Everybody na professional for woman affairs for Nairaland. Who then are the men simping for women in the real world?
Does it even matter. People need to be bold

If you tell me i go tell ask you why....if i am in a position to help i woul, if i no get i go tell you

You no fit shame me or beat me
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Kalulu44: 10:28pm On Jul 05
Wotowotoman:
The ones for Kalulu44 igboro no dey even bother to bill the guy. Once he ask them how dem dey, they just japa 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️. Na wa o grin grin
Hahaha, you go run tire o.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by correctguy101(m): 10:31pm On Jul 05
Good heavens, you no even know how to handle women. I no dey like small girls but Dem no even born my women well to use I'm not fine to bill me. I go yabis am tire.

If you need financial assistance, go direct, I prefer that better.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Okechinwadike: 10:33pm On Jul 05
Yawo Yawo ladies here and there
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by meobizy(m): 10:34pm On Jul 05
Has internet noise ceased real life corruption? Has internet noise led to changes or the creation of new laws? Make I fold arms look you. Abeg, show me one initiative from the Nairaland politics section which the government picked up and worked with.

Walai:
Not true, in this time and age, Internet noise have proven to result in real life action. Obidient's Internet noise resulted in real life action in 2023 election,fact. VDM internet noise have resulted in real life actions as seen in his real life protests, Pastor Jerry Eze internet noise have seen real life actions, he built a multinational church just with the Internet , gehgeh Internet noise is really changing many guys mentality, unless you don't want to accept the reality of modern age .
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by aestake: 10:36pm On Jul 05
Stephen0mozzy:
I'm so sorry bro. It's so sad that you've only been able to attract bad eggs. But you know what they say. Like terms attract.
If 70 to 80% is bad eggs, baba what're ur chances?
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