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QuinQQ:
Am I right or am I just so right?

I guess you didn't write that with clear eyes 👀. Say no to colos please.

QuinQ:
Thanks. Couldn't have said it better

You are simply right - if one stops going by instinct like an animal! We are not lower animals. We are humans!. God gave us brains and we ought use it to override base instincts!

Here's what I further wrote the guy:

Seriously, learn to THINK. It will free you from living by instinct like an animal. For example it will free you from the irrational obsession with DNA. Thinking will let you see that what makes a person your son and you their father is NOT sperm!

And this:

Can't you see that some of your forefathers might not have been your biological forefathers? All through history there has never been DNA. Sometimes, unbeknownst to the father, the most successful of his children is not even his biological child, but he gets all the accolade as his father and the child carries his name and proudly references him as his father.
Can't you see that matters way more than sperm??

This person is evil

QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!

if sperm dose not determine father allow ur wife to be having kids for from another sperm donnor.

deavicky:
if sperm dose not determine father allow ur wife to be having kids for from another sperm donnor.

.Couples where the husband can't impregnate do exactly this. Then there are those who pay millions to basically buy a child!

QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!

Thats in a perfect world

In addition, adultery is a sin. I can still divorce my wife but still have some love for the child.

CanadaOrBust:
You are simply right - if one stops going by instinct like an animal! We are not lower animals. We are humans!. God gave us brains and we ought use it to override base instincts!

Here's what I further wrote the guy:

Seriously, learn to THINK. It will free you from living by instinct like an animal. For example it will free you from the irrational obsession with DNA. Thinking will let you see that what makes a person your son and you their father is NOT sperm!

And this:

Can't you see that some of your forefathers might not have been your biological forefathers? All through history there has never been DNA. Sometimes, unbeknownst to the father, the most successful of his children is not even his biological child, but he gets all the accolade as his father and the child carries his name and proudly references him as his father.
Can't you see that matters way more than sperm??

I like this your post too much. I hope you don't mind me tagging people on it starting with these ones below.
Nature gave we animals an extremely strong instinct to have our genes survive and most of our actions are dictated by that instinct. But as humans with brains why must we be exactly like lower animals?? We ought USE OUR BRAINS to see that survival of our particular genes benefits us NOTHING! What is important is that we live a fulfilled, satisfying life that includes as much of life as possible, including fatherhood!

Mcslize:
I guess you didn't write that with clear eyes 👀. Say no to colos please.
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SMT042:
When the Marijuana u smoke clear from ur eyes , come back come read dz shit again.

Hezmatosky210:
But jokes apart, there's elements of truth here o. Because after the love and bond with my children from pregnancy to infancy to adolescent to adult, many times we've shared love, sufferings, laughter, pains and joy together then one idiot from nowhere wants to drag me to go and do DNA, as how naw? The fact is that, I will never ever want to think whether the children are mine or not. Children wey i nurture from pregnancy till now

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grandstar:
Thats in a perfect world

In addition, adultery is a sin. I can still divorce my wife but still have some love for the child.

But we're not talking of adultery. We're talking of going on a fishing expedition of DNA test

Ashirioluwa:
The child will not know you as his father if you do dna test at early stage.

You need to erase this crazy talk from your head.

How do you know you father is your biological father or your forefathers were your biological forefathers?
DID THEY DO DNA??

GenFunction:
Are you scared of accountability?
“ Going back to how it used to be” as how nau

Throughout human history there was no DNA test. That's how it used to be!

Ashirioluwa:
I believe and support the idea that paternity testing should be required for a father to be listed on a child's birth certificate.

I am not here to raise someone’s child. After the child’s birth, if the DNA test proves otherwise and the man decides to assume parental responsibility, that is acceptable.

YourGFsnatcher:
What kind of weed are you smoking

Yet people pay millions to buy children in black market that are clearly not their DNA, and people fight tooth and nail to gain custody of children.
And how is it "someone’s child"??
A child that knows only you as father yet you want DNA fishing expedition.
Simple: any child your wife has is your child - enforced by govt by banning DNA of children!

QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!

What kind of weed are you smoking

faceland:
You have the right to know if it's your blood or not.

If government ban it, it would just go underground with quacks and even more dangerous implication.

You are one of few that actually try to make a point instead of insulting.
Well DNA is not cheap. Banning will make it even more expensive. And I suspect most men simply want to raise their children in peace, satisfied they're all his biological children

Ashirioluwa:
This is your own personal opinion which I believe the real men outside there will totally ignore.

It also makes a lot of sense

Abas01:
Nice thread, but I see two major reasons as to why you (a female) is writing this..

1: you are pregnant for someone but would prefer another innocent man to be the father of the child.

2: you have been a in a situation where a DNA was conducted and it affected your childhood and upbringing..

Either ways even though I don’t see sense in banning DNA, I understand your pain

You are totally wrong. I am.male. NOT banning DNA but Banning DNA for minors!

QuinQ:
Throughout human history there was no DNA test. That's how it used to be!

So there shouldn’t be room for improvement?
Since there were no cars in the olden days why u no dey trek?
Why use cars?
In a bid to sound woke y’all appear the opposite.

LZAA:
Obviously this thread is ragebait
But "OP" the reason DNA testing exists apart from identification is to also
*save lives
*catch and absolve crime/criminals
And finally to trace origins
If the world was to follow your ragebait suggestion the chaos would be unimaginable
There is more to the world than flimsy flings and reckless reproduction ya know

This is why I put MINORS in capitals but mod changed it. NOT ban DNA, just DNA of MINORS!

AkuBrz:
Gbam you have said it all

I'm not pregnant at all. I'm a man, men don't get pregnant!

Do you know how it used to be?
It used to involve idols who eat up illegitimate children. Thank God for Christianity where the lives of the children matters.

QuinQQ:
But you can skip all that by simply going back to how it used to be - if you have a child from infancy you're his father and you have an obligation to raise him. And that can be accomplished by simply banning DNA testing of MINORS!

Change4dbeta:
What of at old age, the woman tells the children you are not their father and the children leave you together with mother to meet their true father.



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Children never behave like that. Dad is dad not some stranger they don't know who they are told donated sperm.
Besides, children leave their BIOLOGICAL fathers all the time

omooba969:
You're not making sense.

You were asked HOW?

QuinQ:
Simple: any child your wife has is your child - enforced by govt by banning DNA of children!

Yes, I agree if DNA doesn’t prove otherwise.

GenFunction:
So there shouldn’t be room for improvement?
Since there were no cars in the olden days why u no dey trek?
Why use cars?
In a bid to sound woke y’all appear the opposite.

DNA testing of children is NOT an improvement. It is just an unnecessary fishing expedition that doesn't benefit the child, the man, or society!

QuinQ:
How do you know you father is your biological father or your forefathers were your biological forefathers?
DID THEY DO DNA??

Because DNA doesn’t available then.

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The anti bastard machine is here. I hate bastards especially if they're thrust upon me. I don't mind adopting but that's a personal choice. Paternity testing shouldn't be mandatory because punishment for sex outside of marriage or with a married person must be illegal first. Look at the math, sex outside of marriage and within adultery is already out of hand. No way a Paternity testing law can catch up.

All I can say is that don’t give someone else child to your husband.

@QuinQQ

WatchYourSix:
lol…..Why in the flying fvck would i be sure u are male and say u are female ??
Only women expect men to joyfully accept paternity fraud….There is no man that thinks like that… men are not wired that way…

Even women cant accept it…when it involves their sons and brothers .

I once asked a lady an hypothetical question if a nurse in the hospital she gave birth confessed she swapped her child for client who paid because she was desperate for a male child….after 3 years …..will she just forget about it……..
she said all hell will break lose… so all u are writing up there is truckload of used tissue paper

We are NOT talking of parternity fraud, or adultery, or swapping of babies, we are talking of DNA fishing expedition of a child that's already yours, and you've been raising from infancy, with no disputation anywhere that he's your child!

QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!

Dumbest thing I ever heard,, and yes even dumber than watching APC supporters here on nairaland

QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!

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Federalofficia:
lalami day come for you he go too beat nonsence Comot for your body, person they spread liberation all this while with energy and finance and you want spoil everything

I already tagged Lalami3232. He mindlessly keep spreading the gospel that men should upend their lives and families by doing DNA tests, but doesn't say what they should do afterwards!