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RebirthPhoenix:
Dumbest thing I ever heard,, and yes even dumber than watching APC supporters here on nairaland

Ashirioluwa:
All I can say is that don’t give someone else child to your husband.

@QuinQQ

QuinQ:
✓ It is absolutely true. I don't know how you people don't know these things. See below

Olayemudia:
Do you know how it used to be?
It used to involve idols who eat up illegitimate children. Thank God for Christianity where the lives of the children matters.

YourGFsnatcher:
What kind of weed are you smoking

Kobojunkie:
Again, this is absolute nonsense and you know this. 🥱

socoharley:
Only a "half man" will accept another man's child knowingly and stay dumb.
Do you know the amount of sacrifices, effort and finance we men put into raising a child? And then you happily raise a child that's not your own because your "unfaithful wife" brought home her sins?
Guy abeg die this matter and wake up!

QuinQ:
Only a man who relies on instinct like an animal instead of using his God-given brains will not realize that sperm is not what makes you father to a child. Will not know that some stranger who donated sperm 30 years ago will never be dad to a child that the only father he's known from infancy us his dad!

joseph1832:
This is exactly what you're doing, playing the devil's advocate and trying to make deception legit
DNA has been in existence since the dawn of time. Human beings just didn't know how to access it. Just like human didn't know how to use machines to fly, until sometime during thee last century. And the survival of humanity doesn't depend on DNA, it depend on the truth, and the truth, is what DNA testing gives and proves, never try to claim or take what isn't yours.

How can government put a stop to a man wanting to know the truth? Or it's people trying to know the truth. Surely, for the very fact a man decides to conduct a DNA test for his kids, it shows he doesn't trust the woman who bore him those kids, so how can the government put a stop to a man wanting to know what's his, and what isn't his?

A family can never be settled when there is suspicion, lies and deceit around. This is what you should know, instead of playing devil's advocate here.

QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!

QuinQQ:
I said OF MINORS. So there'd be no question of whose obligation it is to raise the child!

QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!

QuinQ:
Come on, you know DNA is short for DNA testing.

What is the "truth". Am I true.? How do you know I don't exist entirely in your head? How do you know dreams are not true? How do you know this is not a dream that you're having?

Either way you slice it children are wealth. Do you know what it even takes to bring a child into the world? Someone gives you that and all you're worried about is youll spend money. How much does a child really eat? A child that can bring lots of blessings and can be anything tomorrow.

Your ancestors might not be yiur biological ancestors because no DNA. What difference has it made??

QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!

QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!

QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!

QuinQQ:
But you can skip all that by simply going back to how it used to be - if you have a child from infancy you're his father and you have an obligation to raise him. And that can be accomplished by simply banning DNA testing of MINORS!

Dbrave2:
No need wasting time here. A woman pass through the stress to give birth to a baby for you... Stop this nonsense trash. Is the baby not yours? Na woman get
Pikin oh. Women benefit more from their children. You are in that box so your oy choice is to push this evil agenda. No worries your son will raise another man's children thinking it's his. In the olden days the gods was running the DNA testing so the woman back then behaved but now you women are loosed.

QuinQQ:
Can you please kindly point out which parts of it are dumb?

socoharley:
may such befall you....Amen!

QuinQ:
But how is it "another guy's kid" when you're the only father he's known and will ever know, carries forward your name, and references you as source of anything he becomes?
But this is not even about that. This is about upending a family's settled life by going on unnecessary fishing expeditions!

socoharley:
Only a "half man" will accept another man's child knowingly and stay dumb.
Do you know the amount of sacrifices, effort and finance we men put into raising a child? And then you happily raise a child that's not your own because your "unfaithful wife" brought home her sins?
Guy abeg die this matter and wake up!

WhiteIverson:
No use this sense cross road

QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!

Ashirioluwa:
Because DNA doesn’t available then.