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| My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by Goo0dHardDick(op): 7:04am |
“My father married my mom out of pity, and he regretted it. He wants me to understand seriously that I should never get married to a woman out of pity. At first, my father started hi.tt. ing my mom when he found that she purposely rem0ved a child for him. Fast forward to 2013 when my father left for China but due to some circumstances, he was locked up in jail for 12 years. He returned to Nigeria earlier this year, while in prison, he told my mom to only sell the car he have so she can be able to pay our new terms school fees. But my mom sold every property he had and went to live in a cheaper house. Of course, the house we were living in was extremely expensive; my father was rich. When she told my father, he didn't complain that much. Each time my father called from prison, sometimes she didn't answer. On the day she did answer, my father asked her where she was, and she said she was at the market. My father told her it was noisy, and as they were discussing something else, my mother told my father that he should not be in China commanding her on what to do in Nigeria. She then ended the call. On another day, he called her. She picked up the call and was complaining that our house rent would expire soon, so my father provided the house rent from prison. After she took that money from him, she stopped receiving my father's calls to this day. In 2017, she slept with another man and got pregnant. My grandfather died then. She came for the burial and that's when my uncle's wife discovered that she was pregnant. She ran away and later @b0rted the child. Now my father is back. Do you know I have been telling her to call my father, but she didn't call him? She's saying it's my father who is supposed to call her. Even their family is saying the same thing. Well, I have stopped talking to her. I'm pained, and I don't even know how hurt my father will be. I'm a man, and I know how I feel. That means I don't think my dad will ever forgive her. Now my father is thinking of div0rcing her. I think I'm in support of it and I'll never take care of my mother till she leaves this Life. I'm the first child. I have 3 siblings: 2 boys and 1 girl. If they think they can take care of her, they should go ahead; I won't stop them. But as for me, bro, I'll never ever do it. And if she dies I won't accept to bury her in my father's compound if my father is dead by then. (I'm not wishing de@th for them) But that's reality of life.…” - A 21-year-old Nigerian man has sparked reactions online after vowing never to take care of his mother, as he recounted the events that led to the breakdown of his parents' marriage. https://www.facebook.com/100067538267625/posts/1364893775771885/?app=fbl |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by okomile(f): 7:14am |
You are young Pls think of your life Your parents have lived their life, let them sort themselves Don't meddle in what you know but not in depth of it all All the best |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by Goo0dHardDick(op): 7:20am |
okomile:I can bet my balls you didn't read the post. Lemme summarize it for you. The boy's dad was locked away in prison in China and his mother went to sleep with another man who got her pregnant. Upon returning to the village they discovered she was pregnant, she went and aborted the pregnancy. Moral lesson: men should take care of themselves because if anything happens to them their beloved wife will forcked another man and will gladly take in for him 2 Likes |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by Bahamas95(m): 7:27am |
I just hope the story is true. okomile:Do you still need a prophet or babalawo to tell you the woman is assistant devil? 1 Like
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| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by MaziObinnaokija: 7:51am |
The young man should forgive his mother/pray for her forgiveness/reunion back home to her family. |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by zoghys: 8:02am |
Goo0dHardDick:If the case were reversed and the woman was the one locked up continent away, do you expect the man to stay celibate. Let not justify BS, like the above comment let the guy leave his parent to settle their differences and face his life. |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by Goo0dHardDick(op): 8:11am |
zoghys:Where has a woman ever been locked away? Let's start from there first |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by zoghys: 8:19am |
Goo0dHardDick:Are you making this about women or reacting to the topic, because so may women are incarcerated in different part of the world for different reasons. 1 Like |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by floss(m): 8:43am |
To solve this problem is very easy... The husband should invite people and go to the wife's village or parents house, so that the bride price be returned... Then everyone will be happy, bloodbath will be avoided. The husband started carrying drugs or was found with one, man must survive. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by 1Alex: 8:58am |
okomile:he is not a minor. He is an adult. He has a say. Whatever decision he takes is his'. |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by 1Alex: 9:00am |
Goo0dHardDick:the man even provided house rent from prison to the disloyal wife. |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by Goo0dHardDick(op): 9:10am |
1Alex:When we say that women are only interested in what they're milking from men, they'll call us names here and say we hate women. We'll continue exposing women's psychology 1 Like |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by okomile(f): 9:11am |
I am illiterate and blind  Goo0dHardDick: 1 Like |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by okomile(f): 9:11am |
I am illiterate and blind Goo0dHardDick: |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by Goo0dHardDick(op): 9:12am |
floss:He probably did that to get money to take care of the woman and give her better life. When things went south, the same wife is knacking numerous men around until she got pregnant. We have said it several times, a man's sacrifices means absolutely nothing to a woman |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by Goo0dHardDick(op): 9:14am |
zoghys:A man's sacrifices means absolutely nothing to a woman. Despite that man's effort and he sent money from prison, the beloved wife was busy mounting different rods back to back. Please Take care of yourself as a man. Don't ever try to please a woman nor give a better life. That's not your duty 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by Cleties(m): 9:42am |
The case isin the same page here with me,"mine" Is that my dad got my mother pregnant out of no plans for both as they were at their way to own each other in love,❤️😍it happen where my lost his work by then while we still in Enugu though I'm only son child with my step sister from another lady,my dad were just managing his little income that he earned from his aside business that was been control by my mum cause my doing her work as usually in hospital where she got employed as an supplier and errands surveyor so the whole situation get started now my dad isn't longer working he seems to cool with how things was but In an dilemma he changed saying he regretted marrying and when ever he started my mother sees me as her way out she would render all sorts of words on me telling me that I'm her regret in life she would went ahead asking me the her as a mother all cause of how is is giving her some altitude snout the the good woman for him instead she only care her self and parents however when this occurs I always be centered of topics I'm scared ot both of them right now I'm confused beyond my doubts why shouldn't see something else rather than pointing and directing it all on what is offence..................... |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by Premiumbuy(m): 9:53am |
Goo0dHardDick:Premium peace Be Unto You Just to add, there's also the part where the wife disrespected and disobeyed the husband. 1 Like |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by Cleties(m): 9:54am |
Cleties:why are they seeing me as their a way out when they start disagreement on certain things im emotionally going through tough times in our house to be honest I totally runs of thought ,,I felt like something strange is between all of this at some point my imagination goes a distance of making any act that leads to spend a little of their savings I tried going back to village to stay a month but they insist I should keep stay with them |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by zoghys: 10:01am |
Goo0dHardDick:Well, I agree with you to a reasonable extent. And probably that's the mistake the man committed in the first place by going extra mile to please the unpleasant. All in all, don't blame the woman for riding another d***CK, the man gave way for that to happen. |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by voortrekker966: 10:15am |
zoghys:I agree that the woman must have felt lonely and needed sex. But for the sake of her marriage and children and the fact that her husband was in prison, she should have been discreet about it. She obviously did it in the open and even got pregnant. Let me tell you something about women; they hardly hide who they are sleeping with. 99% of the time women are caught cheating they let the cat out of the bag themselves because their main reason of cheating is revenge which will never be complete until they let their husbands know they are cheating. They are of course women who are in marriage that their husbands cannot perform maybe due to prolonged illness or prolonged distance. In this case, where there is no other dispute, the woman can catch fun from time to time. But discretion is the key here. This woman obviously behaved as she wished in front of her children and relatives. |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by Goo0dHardDick(op): 12:44pm |
zoghys:A cheat is a cheat. Whether the man was away or not. Those times the man was in China and hasn't been imprisoned, who knows if the woman was piping another rod back to back. It's just that this one only became known because she got pregnant. |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by Goo0dHardDick(op): 12:45pm |
Premiumbuy:Yes, that's because she was already getting d"ckmatized by another man. Women tend to disrespect a man once they have another rod piping them and once they have seen his replacement |
| Re: My Father Married My Mother Out Of Pity - 21yrs Old Man Says by Goo0dHardDick(op): 12:48pm |
Cleties:Live your life and pursue your dreams |
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