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Merry100:
The best decision is not to marry at all; or, if you do, choose wisely.

One of the worst decisions you can make is marrying someone solely because they are beautiful, handsome, influential, or possess any other attractive quality.

Don't marry someone who could conspire with your enemies to harm or even kill you.

Marry someone who seems to have a good conscience. Such a person is far less likely to betray you and is more likely to be your protective shield. Even if the relationship is no longer working, they would rather choose separation than betrayal.

I can't help but wonder how some human beings can act so viciously toward another human being. A recent incident reminded me that character is still one of the most underrated qualities to look for in a spouse.

The thing is, it is very difficult to know someone's true character until AFTER you have been married to them for some time

Women have accepted they are to be invested in. Why can't they become the investors?

Well, the person who made them this way did them a bad thing. From women, obey your husband. Women, respect this....respect that. And some of them felt the way to break the chain is becoming feminists. Lol. They want to be feminists, but not financially independent. Infact, some of them are proud of manipulating men to enjoy their money. Lol. The truth is that they are learning the wrong skill. They are learning how to steal from men. Meaning the power is still with men. They have shown me that the real power is money. But they dont want to make their money themselves. Rather, they want to manipulate men to make their money.

The person who put them under men centuries ago actually locked them well. And goodluck to them.

Oh. Maybe their heads might start working in the right direction if they know what to really do. Become financially independent not through manipulating men, but the same way men are. Self made. YES, Go through what men face to be rich. But its ok. If you want to still be inferior, keep manipulating men to make money.

Goodluck to women reading this.

bobogogo:
It is a simp that live for a woman.
You should only care for them.
A man without purpose, works for a woman.
Powerful men see women as entertainment and not a job.

Is the entertainment for free?
Can you do without them? If you answer is no, then you are just lying to yourself.
Powerful men that take them on holidays to Bahamas, Monaco, Florida, Dubai with expensive private jets, yachts. Stay in expensive hotels and cribs.
Guy no let me talk. Make all the money you like in this world, without women it will be boring for you.
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And I want you guys to know, I didn't say all the money you're working for is for women. I said "majorly" for women. Underline that word "majorly"

DiarisGodoo:
The thing is, it is very difficult to know someone's true character until AFTER you have been married to them for some time

The safest choice is not to get married. So, if you are unable to find someone whose character is well established, it is better to remain unmarried.

epainos:
Women have accepted they are to be invested in. With can't they become the investors?

Well, the person who made them this way did them a bad thing. From women, obey your husband. Women, respect this....respect that. And some of them felt the way to break the chain is becoming feminists. Lol. They want to be feminists, but not financially independent. Infact, some of them are proud of manipulating men to enjoy their money. Lol. The truth is that they are learning the wrong skill. They are learning how to steal from men. Meaning the power if still with men. They have shown me that the real power is money. But they dont want to make their money themselves. Rather, they want to manipulate men to make their money.

The person who put them under men centuries ago actually locked them well. And goodluck to them.

Oh. Maybe their heads might start working in the right direction if they know what to really do. Become financially independent not through manipulating men, but the same way men are. Self made. YES, Go through what men face to be rich. But its ok. If you want to still be inferior, keep manipulating men to make money.

Goodluck to women reading this.

On point

Kalulu44:
I keep telling my fellow men, all the money we are working for are majorly for women.
But they keep calling me sissy

It's only you and your likes who are working to make enough money to spend on women 🤮

shortgun:
The problem is many men don't understand women psychology. If she gave you the pussy, even just once she has repaid you whatever you spent on her.

We need more of this truth so that many men will know.

Kalulu44:
I keep telling my fellow men, all the money we are working for are majorly for women.
But they keep calling me sissy

Another truth. Whether as a wife, side chic or the children she birthed, men's earnings go to their cherished women. The men who call you sissy WOULD DO WAY WORSE by either spending enormously on their numerous girlfriends or changing their wives wardrobe, cars and lives.

Men are generally generous to women they love. I think the uprising is the ideology feminazism has birthed.

IamHonourable1:
It's only you and your likes who are working to make enough money to spend on women 🤮

Don't come here and quotes only this my comments. Go to the other ones I gave many reasons why it's so you hear.

epainos:
Women have accepted they are to be invested in. With can't they become the investors?

Well, the person who made them this way did them a bad thing. From women, obey your husband. Women, respect this....respect that. And some of them felt the way to break the chain is becoming feminists. Lol. They want to be feminists, but not financially independent. Infact, some of them are proud of manipulating men to enjoy their money. Lol. The truth is that they are learning the wrong skill. They are learning how to steal from men. Meaning the power if still with men. They have shown me that the real power is money. But they dont want to make their money themselves. Rather, they want to manipulate men to make their money.

Oh. Maybe their heads might start working in the right direction if they know what to really do. Become financially independent not through manipulating men, but the same way men are. Self made. YES, Go through what men face to be rich. But its ok. If you want to still be inferior, keep manipulating men to make money.

Goodluck to women reading this.

Actually, they are financially independent women, mostly in the rich world. But these women, or a significant proportion of them aren't interested in men or don't see in large numbers the kind of men they desire alongside their new financial status.

Hence, the low marriage cum low birth rate in the rich world, and amongst educated women.

Modern day economics vs nature/biology.

Not all men are greatfull or will remember you for what you did for them rather they will see it as weakness or foolishness. The only thing here is that in terms of numbers, we have it more in women.

Gerrard59:
Another truth. Whether as a wife, side chic or the children she birthed, men's earnings go to their cherished women. The men who call you sissy WOULD DO WAY WORSE by either spending enormously on their numerous girlfriends or changing their wives wardrobe, cars and lives.

Men are generally generous to women they love. I think the uprising is the ideology feminazism has birthed.

Thank you bro for saying the truth. I didn't even say all the money we are working for is them totally. I said it's "majorly" for them.
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Just like women will sob, cry and ask themselves questions if they go one or two days without a man talking to them, so will a rich dude asked himself questions if women do not flock around him.
I know of many dude who are not rich yet but dreaming of spending holidays in Bahamas, Monaco, Dubai with their girlfriends or wives or side chics.
Majority of our guys won't admit it but it's the truth.

Gospel or ibo people mentality

Hmmmm hmmmm
Spoiled brat

anigold:
They spend on women cos of sex and child bearing ..
May be on the female blood relatives.
No sane man spends on a woman as an investment...
If I send money to my babe is not an investment is to make her be happy to open her legs wjen I wan pussy...

You are absolutely right 💯

Kalulu44:
I told one the other day. Except you don't want to do anything with women which is impossible is where you're not working for them.
If you want to have s*x, you need them and you must spend. You want to have a companion, you need them and you must spend. You want to start a family and have children, you need them and must spend money.
For you to keep her and your children happy, you must continue to work hard and spend.
You can see all what we're working for is for them women.
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You know the funniest part. Just like a woman that cries and asked herself question if she goes a day or two without a man whispering to her. So a rich dude also react when he has all the money in the world and no women looks his way.
See, I am a realist and not all these men claiming alpha male or whatever.
I have once been asked, will I stop having s*x or have anything to do with women if giving #1b. I decline immediately.
What's life without s*x and women.
When that money comes, that's when the temptation of women flocking around you will start. Any resistance bcus of the condition you have been given, will lead to a boring and secluded life which is even worse and can lead to depression and suicide.
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So my fellow guys are just deceiving themselves if they say they're not working for women.

You always make sense👌
Always on point🔛👌

Gerrard59:
Another truth. Whether as a wife, side chic or the children she birthed, men's earnings go to their cherished women. The men who call you sissy WOULD DO WAY WORSE by either spending enormously on their numerous girlfriends or changing their wives wardrobe, cars and lives.

Men are generally generous to women they love. I think the uprising is the ideology feminazism has birthed.

Lots of ignorant comments

Gerrard59:
Actually, they are financially independent women, mostly in the rich world.

I agree with you. My view is about reaching the percentage one will say "Women are self independent financially". What percentage of women that are independent should be accepted as the standard? Right now, I think over 99.9% men accepted they must be self independent financially. Perhaps, 20% men arent, and they are ashamed of it. Maybe less than 0.000000001% of men would be bold to say that he isna gold digger digging his woman. And Indont even think a man will accept to tell other men to be submissive to eat. Lol. This is my point.

But these women, or a significant proportion of them aren't interested in men or don't see in large numbers the kind of men they desire alongside their new financial status.

Hence, the low marriage cum low birth rate in the rich world, and amongst educated women.

Modern day economics vs nature/biology.

You have said it all here. These extremely few women arent interested in men. Some of them are, but they will rather buy men to service them to their satisfaction without any commitment or strings attached. And they are enjoying it to the maximum and doing excellently well. Do I support it? Not the subject of discussion here. Cos werey person reading this post will just jump at this and curse himself and not me. Lol.

Nature Vs Biology is a topic we aren't ready to face now. It is well.

Nice input from you sir. Blessings!

Gerrard59:
Actually, they are financially independent women, mostly in the rich world. But these women, or a significant proportion of them aren't interested in men or don't see in large numbers the kind of men they desire alongside their new financial status.

Hence, the low marriage cum low birth rate in the rich world, and amongst educated women.

Modern day economics vs nature/biology.

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Abeg go and sleep. This is how you people use mouth to cause issues. Someone would think there are no women investing in men and even their fellow women.

With how wise many of you claim to be in dealing with the opposite gender, you are still restless and unhappy.

JoeEeL:
You will sacrifice your comfort to help a woman. She will thank you once or twice, that's it.

But she will go to her whatsapp status to thank God for meeting her at the point of her needs. On her status she will say something like, always trust God. He will always use someone to bless her. And if that someone (you) is not available, God will use another person.

In other words, you are just a "tool" for her blessings. You are simply a vessel; she doesn't sit down to picture that sacrifice you made.

You are too correct for my liking.

Mariangeles:
If it is not written in the Word, it is the doctrine of man.

Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.

Ye shall know them by their fruits.

Well the word of God did not say you should go to the university and bag a degree, it did not say you should join nairaland and make posts, any man that ignores that counsel will someday lick his wounds.

Mariangeles:
If it is not written in the Word, it is the doctrine of man.

Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.

Ye shall know them by their fruits.

God bless you for this

Merry100:
The safest choice is not to get married. So, if you are unable to find someone whose character is well established, it is better to remain unmarried.

Same thing St Paul said - though he said it in a different sense. Not everyone can handle not being married. Remember everyone will be pressuring you and your mates will be talking about their families. What will you be talking about?

Wrong.


Next please...

Mariangeles:
If it is not written in the Word, it is the doctrine of man.

Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.

Ye shall know them by their fruits.

My son, do not give your strength to women...Proverbs 31:3

Hahaha hahaha hahaha
I can't stop laughing
Hmmm nawa.....

shortgun:
The problem is many men don't understand women psychology. If she gave you the pussy, even just once she has repaid you whatever you spent on her.

Mariangeles:
If it is not written in the Word, it is the doctrine of man.

Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.

Ye shall know them by their fruits.

It is just a fact

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=140199707]Why you must not invest in a woman — Evangelist Ebuka Obi reveals

A viral video of popular cleric Evangelist Ebuka Obi has stirred widespread reactions on social media after he shared his views on the difference between investing in men and women.

In the video, the evangelist claimed that men are more likely to remember people who supported them during difficult times, while women often move on after entering new relationships.Video Sharing

Evangelist shares controversial opinion

Speaking in the viral clip, Ebuka Obi said: “Invest in a fellow man there is possibility that he will remember. But when you invest in a woman, when she will remember you is when she’s in need again.

Men hardly forget. One day they will remember that this man helped them when they were in secondary school.

But women, if they meet another relationship, they have moved on. If she even see you in a vehicle, she will do like this (waving).

When a woman move, when a woman meets another man, she forgets everything you have done for her. But a fellow man cannot even forget easily.”

The comments quickly gained attention online, with many users expressing differing opinions on whether the cleric’s statement reflected reality or unfairly generalised women.

Social media users react

The video triggered mixed reactions, with some agreeing with the evangelist’s observations, while others argued that gratitude depends on an individual’s character rather than gender.

Reacting to the video, Ugoo wrote: “We might call this generalisation, but this is commonly true. Do something for a man today, it could be a favour or a gift, instantly, the man feels like he is indebted to you. Everything going on in his head is how he can better repay you, but I can’t say the same for women.”

Chinemeluma commented: “I believe he’s coming from the angle of people investing on their girlfriends, female friends and male friends. Because there’s nothing wrong investing on your daughter or sisters.”

Another user, Eby’s Lady, disagreed with the cleric’s position, writing: “It’s not true man of God. Investing in a woman it’s not only in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. Women don’t forget who invested in their lives no matter where she finds herself period!”

Mazi Okwuoma also challenged the statement, saying: “This isn’t a gender issue, it’s a character issue. There are plenty of ungrateful men who eat your money and act like they don’t know you, and plenty of loyal women. People just need to stop investing in the wrong individuals.”

EM added: “A man will remember who stood by him when he had nothing even 10 years later. Loyalty isn’t forgotten easily.”

“When You Invest in a Man, He Doesn’t Forget It Easily. When You Invest in a Woman, She Forgets Everything Once She Moves On With Another Man.” ~ Evangelist Ebuka Obi Reacts pic.twitter.com/DeKu2iN3kC

— Somto Okonkwo (@General_Somto) July 31, 2026

in ur sister is the best ever on earth

True talk, women can never love. Na only simp ni..as go dey mumu

Kalulu44:
I told one the other day. Except you don't want to do anything with women which is impossible is where you're not working for them.
If you want to have s*x, you need them and you must spend. You want to have a companion, you need them and you must spend. You want to start a family and have children, you need them and must spend money.
For you to keep her and your children happy, you must continue to work hard and spend.
You can see all what we're working for is for them women.
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You know the funniest part. Just like a woman that cries and asked herself question if she goes a day or two without a man whispering to her. So a rich dude also react when he has all the money in the world and no women looks his way.
See, I am a realist and not all these men claiming alpha male or whatever.
I have once been asked, will I stop having s*x or have anything to do with women if giving #1b. I decline immediately.
What's life without s*x and women.
When that money comes, that's when the temptation of women flocking around you will start. Any resistance bcus of the condition you have been given, will lead to a boring and secluded life which is even worse and can lead to depression and suicide.
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So my fellow guys are just deceiving themselves if they say they're not working for women.

Is life not more than sex and your purpose on earth more than bonding with women ?

WantsandMore:
Is life not more than sex and your purpose on earth more than bonding with women ?

Even priest that pretends not to have anything to do with women, still do it secretly.
And is it only sex you read about. What about having children and family, is it not part of life? Or you think you fell from the sky.
I have said it and will say it again. I will only believe you guys saying you're not working for women if only you truly don't have anything to do with them.
But can you truly do without them.
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Let me give you a quote from a gangster movie (Shottas) I watched.
Two of the notorious guys in the movie always says: Money Over Bitches. But every now and then they run to the same women for love, affection and sex.
At the end one of them drop this quote.
"WOMEN: CAN'T DO WITH THEM, CAN'T DO WITHOUT THEM"