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If marriage brought blessings to you please tell us?

Are you seeing prosperity since you got married?

ebubeson:
➜If marriage brought blessings to you please tell us? Are you seeing prosperity since you got married?

Who told you lot that marriage brings prosperity? Have you not seen the impoverished Almajiri families up north with multiple wives, all begging for their part in the marriage? How many of them are prosperous? 😒

U wen post this one u don marry Abi u wan use others measurement take measure ur own?? Me i no see financial prosperity but am grateful to God i have children, i know financial prosperity go come soon

Don't let them deceive you
People just like deceiving themselves.

Well it is the positive that it brings that might make you prosperos

Thinks like stability, focus, etc
When you settle down, time that would have been spent on worthless pursuits could be channeled into productive ventures.

I was already prosperous and blessed when I got married... My life was sorted.

Like Samantha said get your life sorted first

Don't listen to any bulshit talk

Because in the final analysis in the end you will surely be left alone to carry it. That one is surebanker, no one will carry it for you

ebubeson:
If marriage brought blessings to you please tell us?

Are you seeing prosperity since you got married?

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Yes, two are better than one. We got married while still in sku..
Took a loan of 500k, start biz and double the money.
We had our wedding..... A baby girl.... Build our own house [though we ve stopped working on the building coz we are still in sku] but we are done with school things just waiting for our induction into MLS .. Above all, we ve been able to gather #30m from our joint efforts.
Indeed our coming together was a great blessing.

Not yet.
To be honest, since I got married it's been a constant struggle.

Women will see this thread , and join the comment readers association of NL

To me, yes or maybe it was coincidence.
I'd never witness such progress in my life.

ebubeson:
If marriage brought blessings to you please tell us?

Are you seeing prosperity since you got married?

That question is subjective because you will have to define what prosperity and blessings means to you. To some having children is blessings and prosperity, to others it could be having money means blessings and prosperity and to some it could mean moving from one status to another status and so they can all be correct.

Prosperity is a function of good decisions, foresight and luck

The Bible says "he that finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord"

However, how you manage that favor is important in maintaining prosperity

Marriage should be able to make people prioritize and make good decisions seeing that your decision doesn't just have impact on you but on others

Capital no.

All fallacy....if you were lucky to experience prosperity after marriage then it's either your time to prosper or coincidence

Marriage requires a lot of patience, planning and work for it to be finally successful without all these even if it was blessed with unexpected sudden funtunes it can still end up disastrously.

Marriage brought incredible prosperity, favour and blessings into my life. God helped me find her, and we did it well, don’t be deceived, what the bible said is true. Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing and receives favour from God.

One will chase 1000, but 2 10,000. Do things God’s way and it will always work out for good and blessings

KingRabota:
Women will see this thread , and join the comment readers association of NL

Except women to answer is a big joke taken too far. Women on nl are weird

I thought having kids is a sign of prosperity. Or is the jury still out on that?

It will bring prosperity if both plan well .

I don't know, but some became a billionaire through divorce

Children of today with bad behaviour and evil mentality can't see anything good in marriage as God has placed it in every culture. You can't eat your cake and have it. You can't lead an evil life and expect institutions and practices that are not defined by your uncurtailed freedom and lack of moral discipline to work for you.

Marriage doesn't and will never Bring Good Luck.

Don't let Religious Fools whine you.


Don't let them trick you oooo

My advice for anyone here is, never rush into marriage untill you are able to atleast feed 3-4 people daily conveniently., Nigeria today is not that same Nigeria of yesterday. If you are a man don't marry all these girls dancing on tiktok with no foresight otherwise your marriage will be suicidal.

Well, I was doing pretty fine before marriage but ever since I got married. It has been constant struggle. I feel like the marriage tied me down in all aspects of my life. The only thing that even makes me happy in the marriage is just seeing my two children.

ebubeson:
If marriage brought blessings to you please tell us?

Are you seeing prosperity since you got married?

No
Hardwork n smart word did

There is no correlation between prosperity n marriage

Infact, if you are not careful, it will bring poverty to your doorstep cos you now have more mouths to feed

My opinion will be unpopular, but it's my experience, so I stand by it. However, don't use my experience as a yardstick for yours.

I'm a salary earner.

I married a businesswoman.

I stayed in a single room till marriage, then moved into a 3-bedroom flat, provided by my then employer, so no rent paid for almost the first year of marriage.

Well.......we moved into our own rented flat six months into marriage. Got around va korope and okada for the first 3 years, then bought our first car.

Almost 18 years in at this point. We've built our home, have a nice car (by modest standards), and are moving on in life.

When a man and his wife decide to work together, great things happen.

Cooperation and sacrifice will.move you forward. If you need to get better training to move up in your career, or invest in a business, it's by mutual agreement and sacrifice.

It's also important to note that family interference is bad for marrri age on so many levels. I imagine that if I had to pay my wife's family's bills, we won't be close to where we are today, but her family are all business people, doing well, while my family is made up of educated professionals, doing well in our fields.

This greatly helps.

Anyway, I know my case is very different from the average. So many people marry and start paying school fees, hospital bills, rent......they get strangled by the load that came with the marriage.

I have a lot to say about this topic, but time won't permit

Most definitely Yes. It brought focus, a sense of higher responsibility, Drive and accountability. These helped to birth much greater success for me in my business. This is only possible when both husband and wife are intentional about it working. It is never automatic

Yes, marriage really brought prosperity to my life.

Financially am doing well more than my what I expected.

The joy of also seeing my children growing with me is another prosperity I cherished.

It is a very good thing to choose the right partner in a marriage.

Marriage only bring financial prosperity only if

1. married someone you are physically and spiritually compatible with
2. Married someone from the right family
3. Either or both have good financial literacy
4. Focused and futuristic
5. Astute , understands early liabilities and asset

Number 1 most important!

Yes ooo it has brought most amazing blessings (Children) from supreme being to my life..

opera1:
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Yes, two are better than one. We got married while still in sku..
Took a loan of 500k, start biz and double the money.
We had our wedding..... A baby girl.... Build our own house [though we ve stopped working on the building coz we are still in sku] but we are done with school things just waiting for our induction into MLS .. Above all, we ve been able to gather #30m from our joint efforts.
Indeed our coming together was a great blessing.

You're lucky to have a gem
Hold her tight.

Some ppl got married and fall into poverty. Some got married and became something else.

Marriage is another world of it's own

Greystone:
Not yet.
To be honest, since I got married it's been a constant struggle.

Some marriage brings blessings while some comes with pains, agony and constant life struggles. Some marriage are not supposed to be, but we humans always want to have our ways and force things that not ought to be to be.

Some people marry other people's wife and husbands.
Until you marry your own as design by nature you will never experience peace or prosperity.