I am an engineer working in Port Harcourt while my wife is a public health worker working in Abuja. May 2023 will make us two years in marriage. We are expecting out First child soonest.
Sometimes i just feel frustrated at the whole thing but then We still have to make ends meet. We have applied for jobs in each others location all to no avail. I am becoming tired of the whole situation especially with the coming of our child. I need meaningful advice on what to do.p

Okosin:
I am an engineer working in Port Harcourt while my wife is a public health worker working in Abuja. May 2023 will make us two years in marriage. We are expecting out First child soonest.
Sometimes i just feel frustrated at the whole thing but then We still have to make ends meet. We have applied for jobs in each others location all to no avail. I am becoming tired of the whole situation especially with the coming of our child. I need meaningful advice on what to do.p

Its the sweetest type of relationship if u both can navigate it well and build discipline... sex doesnt get boring easily and u miss each other which will make cherish every moment when u see....
....sadly it can also be an adultery infested relationship with a couple of doses of paternity fraud if u are not sexualy disciplined

advanceDNA:

..it can also be an adultery infested relationship with a couple of doses of paternity fraud if u are not sexually disciplined

In Bold Letters = Very important task for both parties.

Okosin:
I am an engineer working in Port Harcourt while my wife is a public health worker working in Abuja. May 2023 will make us two years in marriage..

You're still v.young in the lifelong learning institution.

For you, How much do you love n respect your wife?

Cos, ask yourself, if the opportunity comes for flirting, partying/clubbing, your hot ex, direct request for sex from a v.hot lady in your private apartment far away from home, what's gonna happen?

For her, How much do you know and trust your wife?

Cos, ask yourself, if the opportunity comes for flirting, girls chat, her ex, indirect request for sex comes from a hot guy or rich client in her workplace, what's gonna happen?

V.True

advanceDNA:

Its the sweetest type of relationship if u both can navigate it well and build discipline... sex doesnt get boring easily and u miss each other which will make cherish every moment when u see

As in, the visits r always v.v.cherished.
That feeling like you're bout getting married but this time as a married person.

Una go talk lyk say you've only gtn this v.hour to hold hands, cuddle, chat, look into each other eyes, feel, go out together.. the banging too na 🔥

Not seeing my husband a whole day is hard not to talk of living apart…. I don’t think I can deal 😴😴

Cant deal with this shït.

Lamanii22:
Not seeing my husband a whole day is hard not to talk of living apart…. I don’t think I can deal 😴😴

But seeing everyday becomes an eyesore.
You could however be 1 of the 100,000 wives who wouldn't. But how bout him - is he among the 1 or the 100,000?

In the first 2-4weeks of marriage, many love to have their partners around them always (honeymoon mode activated)

First 6months, many want to have their partners around the house but love to add little spices by creating moments that'll mk them be wanted (trying to conceive mode activated)

First 2yrs, most would prefer going through normal day to day activities without seeing each other till evening (family mode activated)

First 10yrs, most would prefer not seeing each other for at least 2days or more so as to rekindle the quest to be loved/wanted by their partners..


The reality remains: seeing everyday become an eyesore

LoudlyMouthed:

But seeing everyday becomes an eyesore.
You could however be 1 of the 100,000 wives who wouldn't. But how bout him - is he among the 1 or the 100,000?

In the first 2-4weeks of marriage, many love to have their partners around them always (honeymoon mode activated)

First 6months, many want to have their partners around the house but love to add little spices by creating moments that'll mk them be wanted (trying to conceive mode activated)

First 2yrs, most would prefer going through normal day to day activities without seeing each other till evening (family mode activated)

First 10yrs, most would prefer not seeing each other for at least 2days or more so as to rekindle the quest to be loved/wanted by their partners..


The reality remains: seeing everyday become an eyesore

I don’t agree with you… not like you’re both glued at home or something, you’d both go to work and back I think that’s enough space instead of not seeing each other a whole week or months… except you don’t really love each other… my husband and I don’t get tired of seeing each other…

Young Couples are meant to be closer to each other.

Lamanii22:

I don’t agree with you…

You're almost re-writing everything I've written here. Yet claim you don't agree.

Lol
You disagree on which pls?

FatherCHRISTMAS:
Young Couples are meant to be closer to each other.

Yeah, even the holy books agree with you.
Esp when he's a public office holder, in the military, traveller..

But suggest she gets pregnant ASAP so she could get some company frm the child(ren) while he's away.

LoudlyMouthed:

You're almost re-writing everything I've written here. Yet claim you don't agree.

Lol
You disagree on which pls?

The part where you said seeing each other can be an eyesore

Lamanii22:



The part where you said seeing each other can be an eyesore

And how many decades of anniversary have you celebrated?

Here to read comments as I'll soon become a husband

I no fit cope

It doesn’t end well most times.

As long as you update my account with money, I ll cope. Who needs to see face to face when seeing your man too much ll lead to monitoring. You can be hustling for our future in Lagos or Aba while I chill in Abuja.
I ll wait for your love. Just do the needful stated above.

Cope....as a man, you cope by always using a condom

Do you want me to tell you. I'm sure you are not ready to hear it so forget it let's focus on how to survive the next 8 years

If Peter Obi doesn't win, we will take Tinubu's matter to the courts!!!

Choi, it has not been easy, but money must be made genuinely....

I work in Lagos and live in one of my family house on the island, while wify works in abeokuta, so I go home every weekend or sometimes twice a week...

She originally don't like Lagos, because the over population and noise from every angle....

I must say we are used to it, because when we courted for like 17years before we got married, it was also a long distance.....

Phone seggz... perhaps

Let those in long distance marriage come and answer

The man will still be a Batchelor

stevebond007:
Phone seggz... perhaps

If you need Sugar Boy, reach out

;De

Abeg, carry your marriage matter go. Na election we are talking about