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Man laments as lady he met on Facebook disappears after sending her money to come cook for him

A Nigerian man identified as Chiukwudi Sunday has shared his experience after meeting a woman on Facebook whom he initially believed could become a romantic partner.

According to Chukwudi, the pair had been communicating for about a week before the woman contacted him on Friday, August 7, claiming that she was suffering from stomach ulcer and had not eaten since morning.

He said he sent her ₦2,000 to get food and later transferred another ₦3,000 after she said she needed money to purchase ulcer medication.

Woman reportedly promises to visit and cook for him

Chukwudi said the woman subsequently praised him for being kind and told him she wanted to visit him, cook for him and spend time together so they could get to know each other better.

According to him, he agreed and later sent her money to purchase ingredients for the proposed visit.

However, he claimed that after receiving the money, the woman began giving explanations about problems with her phone and eventually became unreachable.

Man says he was more hurt by the experience than the money

Chukwudi said the money itself was not his major concern, explaining that he had developed genuine feelings for the woman and was hoping the relationship would progress.

He expressed disappointment over what he described as her attitude, alleging that her actions made him suspect that she might have used similar tactics on other people.

The account remains the man’s allegation, and there is no independent confirmation of the woman’s identity or whether the incident amounted to fraud.

His post read …

“Is obvious that some girls this day’s are very useless. This girl you are seeing here I met her on Facebook thinking that I am chatting with wife material not knowing that I am talking to a low class hungry bicth

We have been talking for about a week now till on Friday 7th of August she called and told me that she is having stomach ulcer and she have not eaten since morning I feel pity and sent her 2k to get something

After that, she called me again that she wants to get her ulcer medicine I sent her another 3k for that

After that, she was like you a man with good heart. That she will like to visit me and cook for me then spend time together with me and get to know each other more

I was like who am I. Me that is single and searching I don’t even have a girl friend talk more of wife.

She said I should send her money so that on her way coming she buy something that she will cook.

I said okay and sent her the money
After I sent the she began to talk story that her phone is easy buy that the have locked her phone.

That she can’t access her phone again
That was how this bicth ended up fooling herself.

The money is not my problem is that I love this girl so much and I am willing to be with her but her attitude, is like she has been doing this to people. But this is the iend.

He said he sent her ₦2,000 to get food and later transferred another ₦3,000 after she said she needed money to purchase ulcer medication.

The next thing she will say their dog swallowed shovel or their last born licked cement.

What else do I know than to let those with similar experience comment

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Developed feelings for someone with probably a bigger and more hairy balls.


Very funny the mu² even sent money for ingredients for soup and akpu when the person supposed to cook it hadn't even showed up yet.


He even though he was chatting with a wife material after less than a week in Facebook. Either this guy is lying or he is just another zonefree.




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brain54:
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Developed feelings for someone with probably a bigger and more hairy balls.


Very funny the mu² even sent money for ingredients for soup and akpu when the person supposed to cook it hadn't even showed up yet.


He even though he was chatting with a wife material after less than a week in Facebook. Either this guy is lying or he is just another zonefree.




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It is time you have your head examined.
You mustn't comment, if you don't have reasonable things to share.

I love this, the story dey give me a nonstop orgasm!!!
Until men go learn to dey brutal with the other gender in terms of choice, una go dey always see shege. Will a woman date a man who can't afford food? Will she date you if you ca't provide basic medication for yourself? Yet my fellow men go dey mumu dey date babes wey no fit chop, buy pad or transport themselves. If a woman just get toto, she's "dateable" and "marriageable" according to my fellow men. But you see these women demanding for rich, tall, hrdworking and wealthy men as partners. I dislike men wey no get standard . Once again, I love this


What do I even know sef!!!

Zonefree:
It is time you have your head examined.
You mustn't comment, if you don't have reasonable things to share.

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What are you saying. Are you not a Moscow or I'm I lying?


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My gees,any banny born of a woman who demands money for transport before she can visit you is a Ghana-must-go bag full of red flags .

Just yesterday,I had a date with one. This banny came to my location and I was sitting where I sat , just observing if she'd pay the bike man that brought her. She paid him. After the bike man left,I asked her how much she paid,she said 1k. I gave her the money,but guess what,this banny rejected the money,Na once I use style put my money back for my back pocket . Na then I realize say true true not all naija bannies be scallywag like I dey normally dey reason Dem to be .

There's still hope for una wey be single guys cuz as it stands now,I don leave una bachelorship for una

brain54:
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What are you saying. Are you not a Moscow or I'm I lying?


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Quit that smoke now!



*This one above me thinks because a Nigerian girl rejected his N1000, she's the best thing after sliced bread. He will learn sha.

Zonefree:
Quit that smoke now!

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You quit already?


So if it's not about rejecting the 1k what is it about? I want to confirm if you have truly stopped.

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Simps everywhere

Who still dey fall for dis kind 9ja girls format?

I fall twice B4 I wise

Sending money to someone is not the issue but expecting something in return is a no no.

Many of us are helping people we don't even know or seen before , it's not a gender thing

Ordinary 2k hmmmm sometimes it's hard to believe , 2k or 200k at least you order food for yourself hmmmm hmmmm

Most Nigerian girls see Nigeria guys as client Na yahoo dem dey play who lossgard for them. Format no dey finish

That's very good from the girl, he might even been telling his family and friends that need help of #1k or #2k everywhere is red

Congratulations you just met a transport eating monster
It's OK to send come over money but if she doesn't come, forgive her. Maybe she really needs the money for survival and has been praying all day for a helper.

You may not know how the money you sent her has helped her to survive moment. You are her God sent, Forgive her and move on

Serves him right... na this kind people dey cause problems for real brotherhoods

You fell for the cheap trick

Konji na bastard

However, he claimed that after receiving the money, the woman began giving explanations about problems with her phone and eventually became unreachable

Good. He learned a lesson.

Men can be so stupid at times

I'm sure he's not crying about his lost funds

Most likely, He's crying about the pussy_ he didn't get

Man laments as lady he met on Facebook disappears after sending her money to come cook for

I don't know people can still be sending money to unseen girl guy inside the air ooo.

Anyway, maga will never end until the end of the world.

Good for him!!!! Dumb Men everywhere.

When u refuse to swallow the Red pill, u will get swallowed by women monstrosity

Sue her in court for damages and stealing with tactics,then get your money refunded.

It's no longer business as usual for ladies to ghost men after agreement 🤝.

jeff1993:
Good for him!!!! Dumb Men everywhere.

When u refuse to swallow the Red pill, u will get swallowed by women monstrosity

What's different between the guy and red pillers? The common thing is that, Both lack common sense.

I just feel like slapping this man

EmmyMaestro:
Man laments as lady he met on Facebook disappears after sending her money to come cook for him

A Nigerian man identified as Chiukwudi Sunday has shared his experience after meeting a woman on Facebook whom he initially believed could become a romantic partner.

According to Chukwudi, the pair had been communicating for about a week before the woman contacted him on Friday, August 7, claiming that she was suffering from stomach ulcer and had not eaten since morning.

He said he sent her ₦2,000 to get food and later transferred another ₦3,000 after she said she needed money to purchase ulcer medication.

Woman reportedly promises to visit and cook for him

Chukwudi said the woman subsequently praised him for being kind and told him she wanted to visit him, cook for him and spend time together so they could get to know each other better.

According to him, he agreed and later sent her money to purchase ingredients for the proposed visit.

However, he claimed that after receiving the money, the woman began giving explanations about problems with her phone and eventually became unreachable.

Man says he was more hurt by the experience than the money

Chukwudi said the money itself was not his major concern, explaining that he had developed genuine feelings for the woman and was hoping the relationship would progress.

He expressed disappointment over what he described as her attitude, alleging that her actions made him suspect that she might have used similar tactics on other people.

The account remains the man’s allegation, and there is no independent confirmation of the woman’s identity or whether the incident amounted to fraud.

His post read …

“Is obvious that some girls this day’s are very useless. This girl you are seeing here I met her on Facebook thinking that I am chatting with wife material not knowing that I am talking to a low class hungry bicth

We have been talking for about a week now till on Friday 7th of August she called and told me that she is having stomach ulcer and she have not eaten since morning I feel pity and sent her 2k to get something

After that, she called me again that she wants to get her ulcer medicine I sent her another 3k for that

After that, she was like you a man with good heart. That she will like to visit me and cook for me then spend time together with me and get to know each other more

I was like who am I. Me that is single and searching I don’t even have a girl friend talk more of wife.

She said I should send her money so that on her way coming she buy something that she will cook.

I said okay and sent her the money
After I sent the she began to talk story that her phone is easy buy that the have locked her phone.

That she can’t access her phone again
That was how this bicth ended up fooling herself.

The money is not my problem is that I love this girl so much and I am willing to be with her but her attitude, is like she has been doing this to people. But this is the iend.

But this nigga for rough handle the babe look him face .

Honestly it's attitude like this that makes some men to deal mercilessly with Women.
If you are not going dont ask for tp its fraud

Fiscus105:
What's different between the guy and red pillers? The common thing is that, Both lack common sense.

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No .... A red oiller would never fall for this shuttle scam

Guys wise up and stop thinking with your balls rather with your brain.

Nigerian men have done it again ooooooooooo



If he had succeeded he would have gone online to brag how his an Alpha male, Dea+h to SIMPs, MGTW for Life, Red Pill drunkard etc.
He will remind his fellow men how Nigerian women are so cheap like TomTom and very usel*ss. But here he is wailing like someone who just lost his meeting yearly contributions in a Bet shop.

As a Nigeria woman we see this kind of unfortunate man or men daily both online and offline, but THE FEAR OF GOD IS THE BEGINNING OF WISDOM.

This king of man would have guzzled different kind of herbal mixtures and drugs while waiting for the lady to come, If you think I am lieing take a look at his picture again

I hope he had finally learnt his lesson (Shaa.. They will never learn)

As for the lady that did this to this man she should seek for God mercy, this is stealing and it is a crime.


May God help us

Jmichael1:
Who still dey fall for dis kind 9ja girls format?

I fall twice B4 I wise

you no see the man face.

but bad from the girl