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"There's nothing bad about it" — Lady says it's okay for husband to beat her

A Nigerian lady has defended being corrected by her husband after admitting that she offended him, saying she has accepted the correction and would not repeat the behaviour.

The woman made the remark while reflecting on the incident and the lesson she learnt from her husband’s reaction.

According to her, the correction was not something she considered negative, as she recognised that her actions had offended her husband.

Lady explains why she accepted her husband’s correction
The woman said she had taken responsibility for her actions and was willing to ensure that the incident did not happen again.

She said, “There’s nothing bad about it. I offended my husband and he corrected me. I won’t do that again.”

She further stated, “It’s okay to be corrected.”

Her comments have drawn attention to the different ways couples handle disagreements and correction within marriage.

Her comments spark discussion about marriage
The lady’s perspective has prompted discussions about the importance of accountability and communication between married couples.

While some people may view correction differently depending on the circumstances, her comments centred on acknowledging when one has done something wrong and being willing to learn from it.

The incident has also highlighted the role of personal responsibility in relationships, particularly when disagreements arise between partners.

For the woman, accepting her husband’s correction was simply part of recognising her mistake and deciding not to repeat it.

“There is nothing bad about it, if my husband corrected me when I offended him. I have learnt my lessons” — Lady says pic.twitter.com/SiCEg0iwqa

— Instablog9ja (@instablog9ja) August 17, 2026

Dis is the saddest thing i ve heard dis year, my goodness my goodness!!! I no fit with stand slap come to talk of blow

Whatever slaps her face...

I heard this talk from a Muslim lady in my office…thats what she called it as well…. correction….


Wateva makes yall sleep well at night is fine by me

Maybe na Shrek slap her

It's a pity many women are struggling with low self esteem. In the meantime, let me just assume she's catching cruise and trying to drive traffic to her page.

Turn the other eyes to your horseband to turn to lady bug color.


Lowself esteem is that you?


Some of the abusive horse bands here would go home and use her as pick me model to their wives why they deserved to be pummeled.

She an outlier and that's not strange since we can't all be the same. Let's learn to identify outliers please and while we are at it, my top diagnosis here is Stockholm syndrome which is very abnormal. She needs help asap before she becomes a statistic.

A lady told me yesterday that she would deliberately do whatever her "big god" (the man who sponsors her bogus lifestyle) asked her not to do repeatedly just to get his reaction. She said as long as the man continue to tolerate her, she will continue to test him until the man react violently. She said she just prefers the violent reaction other than the continued warning. The man don reach his breaking point and abandoned her and she is asking for how to appease him just for two things:
1. So that the man can continue the "odogwu spending" funding of her lifestyle AND
2. She can see someone to continue her "witchcraft" attitude on. She said she cant do without giving someone problem, that it is just "women" thing.
Omo na that her second reason why she want the man back shock me oooo JEEEEZUSSS
Just to continue to torment another woman son....Ha
She said she doesnt know wether village people are on top her matter, that bcs whenever she jam good suitor for marriage, na so so bad character she go use pursue them that it is after they have gone that her eyes will now open.
The lady said she dey jam better people but she lacks the capacity to retain them and that her mother is crying for Grand child and she don dey near 30 years. Pls how should I advise her

Everything g is bad about it .
Once again madam everything g is bad about it

dollytino4real:
Dis is the saddest thing i ve heard dis year, my goodness my goodness!!! I no fit with stand slap come to talk of blow

So if your husband gives you a correctional slap, what will you do? Slap him back? Or divorce him?

WatchYourSix:
I heard this talk from a Muslim lady in my office…thats what she called it as well…. correction….


Wateva makes yall sleep well at night is fine by me

Aswear 😂, make them cut her legs off e no concern us. I believe say na poverty dey cause am. If she had source of income she for get sense a bit. Look at the clothes she's putting on, from her looks and speeches you can easily tell she's a wretched and a poor parasite to the man.
Consequences of being dependent as a woman. Them full Lagos, lazy girls.

I can never beat my wifee

dollytino4real:
Dis is the saddest thing i ve heard dis year, my goodness my goodness!!! I no fit with stand slap come to talk of blow

Did you also think that Stockholm Syndrome sufferers were limited to the masses and politicians relationship



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Emeskhalifa:
So if your husband gives you a correctional slap, what will you do? Slap him back? Or divorce him?

What is correctional slap when you are not his child?

Divorce is the option if he is a violent criminal.

She is a MASOCHIST. Rubbish

May be she is promiscuous.
This one deep oo

I personally know a lady who said she doesn't feel good if her husband doesn't beat👌💯🙌.



Stockholm Syndrome- BATISTS.

Abuse is abuse, stop camouflaging it.

In foreign climes, the abuser would have been arrested.

She is mentally messed up.

This one is under the influence of Ogboni Confra husband

judewrites:
Abuse is abuse, stop camouflaging it.

In foreign climes, the abuser would have been arrested.

If she reports and press charge.

We4all:
It's a pity many women are struggling with low self esteem. In the meantime, let me just assume she's catching cruise and trying to drive traffic to her page.

She is not catching cruise, that is her present conviction.

atobs4real:
May be she is promiscuous.
This one deep oo

Even if she is promiscuous, why not end the marriage.

YES,

BUT NOT THE TYPE THAT WILL INFLICT INJURIES.
OR PAI THE PERSON.

JUST SPANK HER S*XILY.., THE WAY I DO WITH MY WIFE WHEN SHE MISBEHAVE.

We4all:
It's a pity many women are struggling with low self esteem. In the meantime, let me just assume she's catching cruise and trying to drive traffic to her page.

You can't see why she has the courage to post such on social media begging her husband. Some wife will allow pride to ruin her marriage knowing full well they provoked the ugly action the man may not want to take.

As you promised, please live in peace with your husband.

anonimi:
What is correctional slap when you are not his child?

Divorce is the option if he is a violent criminal.

I am not saying when he pummels her and reconstruct her face, just a couple of slaps to bring her back on track, should she file for divorce coz of that?

This is what is called BDSM a.k.a Sadomasochism

Don't you guys hear the woman saying she is getting pleasure and discipline (correction) from the act?

The Govt and law enforcement better step in.

In addition they should also consult a psychologist

Rubbish and ingredients.

Absolutely!
Even if he kills you in the process of beating you it's not bad.
Some women with fish brain.

Well maybe this is for her to trend Sha.


Aunty you have been noticed...
Nexxxxt!

Certainly this comment is out of fear or something but sorry lady your husband offense of violence and brutality is not against you but against the state , by law it’s your husband Vesus the State at the court of law

Let the State also discipline him to nothing is bad in it , since it not bad for him to discipline you by inflicting harm, it’s also not bad for the State to discipline him by prison sentence