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Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by GenFunction: 7:09am On Aug 18
Oboy people get style o
Dont worry she no need her eye.
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by Famous606(m): 7:12am On Aug 18
most domestic violence start with one slap then another slap with a blow then blow that become punch before you know somebody die during this incident,to me that is not the first time neither the second time she is being beaten like this ,so she is trying to say that for every of her mistake is the husband right to beat her my fellow Nigerian the lady is sick with low self esteem or rather still she has no where to go if she leave the house
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by GenFunction: 7:13am On Aug 18
EmmyMaestro:
Maybe na Shrek slap her
lol
Or Iron Man
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by We4all: 7:15am On Aug 18
MightySparrow:
You can't see why she has the courage to post such on social media begging her husband. Some wife will allow pride to ruin her marriage knowing full well they provoked the ugly action the may may not want to take.

As you promised, please live in peace with your husband.
A wifebeater spotted! So when an adult provokes a situation, she deserves to be beaten? My question is, why does the beating starts and ends at home? Why can't a man extend the same treatment to his boss or neighbour who is always provoking him?
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by CJStarz: 7:17am On Aug 18
She needs to have her mental state evaluated
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by Reference(m): 7:18am On Aug 18
Even in the most cultured of societies the law will not intervene if you are HEARD by your own admission hiding domestic violence.

But when the evidence is 'SEEN', madam the case is out of your hands. It doesn't matter what you say, the EVIDENCE speaks louder.
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by Josywhyte: 7:20am On Aug 18
The left eye swallowed the other eye lash. Your husband gave you what we "brutality" in Mortal Kombat. You should be lucky he didn't add "fatality" you for no kukuma see road dey talk all these ones
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by ManknowThyself(m): 7:20am On Aug 18
Make her husband run o !!!!!!!

This is reverse psychology, she’s finishing that man with immediate alacrity but slow and steady.

I know her type they can never forgive and that’s why she’s telling the world who cares to listen see what he did to me.

Make the husband nor eat for house again till next year after enough due diligence.

I can never beat a woman but don't raise your hand on me no matter what. Why will you beat someone that's is your friend, only sister and mother of your children like a man.

When a woman cheats, she goes to her father's house with immediate alacrity.
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by We4all: 7:20am On Aug 18
lailo:
A lady told me yesterday that she would deliberately do whatever her "big god" (the man who sponsors her bogus lifestyle) asked her not to do repeatedly just to get his reaction. She said as long as the man continue to tolerate her, she will continue to test him until the man react violently. She said she just prefers the violent reaction other than the continued warning. The man don reach his breaking point and abandoned her and she is asking for how to appease him just for two things:
1. So that the man can continue the "odogwu spending" funding of her lifestyle AND
2. She can see someone to continue her "witchcraft" attitude on. She said she cant do without giving someone problem, that it is just "women" thing.
Omo shocked na that her second reason why she want the man back shock me oooo huh huh huh huh JEEEEZUSSS
Just to continue to torment another woman son....Ha
She said she doesnt know wether village people are on top her matter, that bcs whenever she jam good suitor for marriage, na so so bad character she go use pursue them that it is after they have gone that her eyes will now open. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
The lady said she dey jam better people but she lacks the capacity to retain them and that her mother is crying for Grand child and she don dey near 30 years. Pls how should I advise her grin
Marry her.
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by razzydoo(m): 7:23am On Aug 18
Correction but not to this extent of damage.
You can't beat my sister like this as a brother in law. I will fund your fracture and treatment at the same time. grin angry
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by We4all: 7:24am On Aug 18
Emeskhalifa:
I am not saying when he pummels her and reconstruct her face, just a couple of slaps to bring her back on track, should she file for divorce coz of that?
Just tell us you are one of those men that beat their partners.
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by Bwilliam(m): 7:26am On Aug 18
The werey-nta actually wore only one butterfly wing, to make the video.

If you understand women, you won't be able to love them.
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by Emeskhalifa(m): 7:26am On Aug 18
We4all:
Just tell us you are one of those men that beat their partners.
You have the right to assume whatever you like but still answer the question
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by MightySparrow: 7:28am On Aug 18
We4all:
A wifebeater spotted! So when an adult provokes a situation, she deserves to be beaten? My question is, why does the beating starts and ends at home? Why can't a man extend the same treatment to his boss or neighbour who is always provoking him?
The wife is not complaining or asked you to judge the husband. She knew what she did. I am not a wife beater but if my wife slaps my mum.....

I know you are not a wife beater and can tolerate your wife beating your mother.
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by PigTormentor: 7:29am On Aug 18
WatchYourSix:
I heard this talk from a Muslim lady in my office…thats what she called it as well…. correction….


Wateva makes yall sleep well at night is fine by me
A Muslim lady? If she's a Christian, will you have said ' a Christian lady'?
Religious and tribal bigotry everywhere.
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by Anaukwu: 7:32am On Aug 18
If only she knew the length at which such would go on to mess with her children's mental health.
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by socoharley: 7:34am On Aug 18
dollytino4real:
Dis is the saddest thing i ve heard dis year, my goodness my goodness!!! I no fit with stand slap come to talk of blow
slaps are ok but never a punch...I can never punch a woman as an amateur boxer i am,the damage would be too much.
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by Kukutente23: 7:40am On Aug 18
dollytino4real:
Dis is the saddest thing i ve heard dis year, my goodness my goodness!!! I no fit with stand slap come to talk of blow
Then don't do bad thing
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by Kukutente23: 7:41am On Aug 18
DrAda:
She an outlier and that's not strange since we can't all be the same. Let's learn to identify outliers please and while we are at it, my top diagnosis here is Stockholm syndrome which is very abnormal. She needs help asap before she becomes a statistic.
It's obvious you can't recognise a skit when you see one
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by Kukutente23: 7:42am On Aug 18
manuelkel:
Aswear 😂, make them cut her legs off e no concern us. I believe say na poverty dey cause am. If she had source of income she for get sense a bit. Look at the clothes she's putting on, from her looks and speeches you can easily tell she's a wretched and a poor parasite to the man.
Consequences of being dependent as a woman. Them full Lagos, lazy girls.
It has nothing to do with poverty
The Qur'an commands men to beat their wives
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by jaksmillioniar: 7:43am On Aug 18
She know what she wants. U home breaker dat are shouting up and down if she divorce d guy will u take care of her?
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by seunayantokun(m): 7:46am On Aug 18
From civilisation back to stone age bestiality. The essence of religion?
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by BalogunIdowu(m): 7:50am On Aug 18
WatchYourSix:
I heard this talk from a Muslim lady in my office…thats what she called it as well…. correction….


Wateva makes yall sleep well at night is fine by me
Lady in your office is enough info for us. I hope you're not pushing any narrative with the prefix "Muslim"
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by Hezmatosky210: 7:50am On Aug 18
But funny enough eh, everyone expects you to beat your abusive wife like this. Even her mother and siblings, to your own mother and siblings too together with her friends and your friends, neighbours, police, onlookers and so on. All expects you to design your wife like this if she misbehave. That's to show that our society does not support divorce. But where it's bad na when you beat her and she died. You'll regret coming to this world.
Yours faithfully kiss
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by DrAda(f): 7:51am On Aug 18
Kukutente23:
It's obvious you can't recognise a skit when you see one
Perhaps but I have encountered a few persons with the above mindset. My job is to educate and offer probable modalities of management
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by larryUG(m): 7:54am On Aug 18
My problem is someone who is a masochist and who gets intense sexual and sensual pleasure from beating wont see anything wrong with beating, so much that they see nothing wrong in it for the broader society, which should not be the case. it is wrong on all levels, but if that is what gives you sexual pleasure, keep it to yourself and do not impose it on the general population of women that there is nothing wrong in a man beating his wife
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by ejieddy: 7:56am On Aug 18
How you come resemble Zuko Fire Lord pikin?
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by SlavaUkraini: 8:01am On Aug 18
Hmmmmm... Get him Arrested for facial deformity
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by Wannabenz: 8:03am On Aug 18
E be like the woman don already know say she too stubborn grin
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by Kukutente23: 8:12am On Aug 18
DrAda:
Perhaps but I have encountered a few persons with the above mindset. My job is to educate and offer probable modalities of management
People with such mindset are hard to convince otherwise
It may be due to upbringing or sociocultural ideology
For example, how do you convince a Muslim lady that her husband shouldn't have a right to hit her when her religious text says he does. Are you looking for trouble?
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by DrAda(f): 8:17am On Aug 18
Kukutente23:
People with such mindset are hard to convince otherwise
It may be due to upbringing or sociocultural ideology
For example, how do you convince a Muslim lady that her husband shouldn't have a right to hit her when her religious text says he does. Are you looking for trouble?
Hence the word "outliers"....
Re: "There's Nothing Bad About It" — Lady Says It's Okay For Husband To Beat Her by We4all: 8:18am On Aug 18
MightySparrow:
The wife is not complaining or asked you to judge the husband. She knew what she did. I am not a wife beater but if my wife slaps my mum.....

I know you are not a wife beater and can tolerate your wife beating your mother
.
If your wife hits your mom, then blame yourself for marrying an agbero wife. That shows you have a very poor taste in women.
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