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Guys my girlfriend is 22 years old, though we started dating when she was 19 and I was 36.
There's this weird thing she does that I don't fucking know if it's d norms cos I feel uncomfortable sometimes whenever she does it.

My girl has a 14 year old sis that's she's close with. They are inseparable!
The fucking problem is my girlfriend fucking talks about sex and intimacy in the presence of her 14 year sister. Sometimes I find it funny but most of the times I think it's inappropriate. I've told her to stop but she says she's the best person to teach her sister about intimacy, romance and men.
I don't know, maybe I am fucking over reacting or is this normal guys?

40yroldman:
Guys my girlfriend is 22 years old, though we started dating when she was 19 and I was 36.
There's this weird thing she does that I don't fucking know if it's d norms cos I feel uncomfortable sometimes whenever she does it.

My girl has a 14 year old sis that's she's close with. They are inseparable!
The fucking problem is my girlfriend fucking talks about sex and intimacy in the presence of her 14 year sister. Sometimes I find it funny but most of the times I think it's inappropriate. I've told her to stop but she says she's the best person to teach her sister about intimacy, romance and men.
I don't know, maybe I am fucking over reacting or is this normal guys?

What does this tell you about the mentality of this Op?

Look at his or her other Topics.

Looking at *40yroldman*’s Nairaland posts, here’s the pattern and what it suggests about his or her mentality:

*1. Relationship-Centered and Emotionally Heavy Topics*
All 5 threads are in *Romance* or *Family*. The titles focus on conflict, distress, and intimacy issues:
- *"My Girlfriend Talks About Sex With Her 14 Year Old Sister"*
- *"My Girlfriend Has Just Months To Live"* - 3538 views, 24 posts
- *"My Girlfriend Prefers Her Father"* - 2939 views, 49 posts
- *"This Behavior by Girls Is Annoying"*
- *"How To Reduce High Libido"*

This shows a mentality focused on personal relationship problems, often with high emotional stakes. He’s using the forum as an outlet/advice space.

*2. Seeking Validation, Advice, or Venting*
The high reply counts on 3 threads suggest he engages in the discussion.
Topics like "Has Just Months To Live" and "Prefers Her Father" are heavy, personal, and invite sympathy/advice.
"How To Reduce High Libido" and "This Behavior by Girls Is Annoying" are more about frustration and seeking solutions.
Mentally, this reads as someone processing relationship stress publicly instead of privately.

*3. Generalizations About Women*
"This Behavior by Girls Is Annoying" points to frustration and a tendency to generalize personal experiences to "girls" as a group. That’s common in venting posts where someone is hurt/confused and broadens it.

*4. Red Flag: Content Involving a Minor*
The post *"My Girlfriend Talks About Sex With Her 14 Year Old Sister"* involves a minor and sexual content.
If this describes real abuse or grooming, that’s a serious safeguarding issue and should be reported to appropriate authorities.
If it’s fictional/trolling for shock value, it still reflects a mentality that uses extreme/taboo topics for attention.

*5. Overall Persona*
- *Age in username "40yroldman"*: Signals he wants to be seen as mature/experienced, yet the topics are very relationship-drama focused.
- *Pattern*: Heavy on romance drama, distress, and sexual topics. Low post count per thread except when it gets traction.
- *Motivation*: Likely seeking community input, sympathy, and advice on messy relationship situations. Also possibly using shock/controversy to get views.

*Summary*
40yroldman’s mentality comes across as *troubled, relationship-focused, and seeking external input*. He posts about personal crises, frustrations with women, and sexual topics. The tone is more "help me/validate me" than "inform others."

The thread about a minor is the most concerning and crosses into territory that platforms and authorities take seriously.

If you came across the post about the 14-year-old and believe a child may be at risk, the safest step is to report it to Nairaland moderators and/or relevant child protection authorities.

essentialone:
Looking at *40yroldman*’s Nairaland posts, here’s the pattern and what it suggests about his or her mentality:

*1. Relationship-Centered and Emotionally Heavy Topics*
All 5 threads are in *Romance* or *Family*. The titles focus on conflict, distress, and intimacy issues:
- *"My Girlfriend Talks About Sex With Her 14 Year Old Sister"*
- *"My Girlfriend Has Just Months To Live"* - 3538 views, 24 posts
- *"My Girlfriend Prefers Her Father"* - 2939 views, 49 posts
- *"This Behavior by Girls Is Annoying"*
- *"How To Reduce High Libido"*

This shows a mentality focused on personal relationship problems, often with high emotional stakes. He’s using the forum as an outlet/advice space.

*2. Seeking Validation, Advice, or Venting*
The high reply counts on 3 threads suggest he engages in the discussion.
Topics like "Has Just Months To Live" and "Prefers Her Father" are heavy, personal, and invite sympathy/advice.
"How To Reduce High Libido" and "This Behavior by Girls Is Annoying" are more about frustration and seeking solutions.
Mentally, this reads as someone processing relationship stress publicly instead of privately.

*3. Generalizations About Women*
"This Behavior by Girls Is Annoying" points to frustration and a tendency to generalize personal experiences to "girls" as a group. That’s common in venting posts where someone is hurt/confused and broadens it.

*4. Red Flag: Content Involving a Minor*
The post *"My Girlfriend Talks About Sex With Her 14 Year Old Sister"* involves a minor and sexual content.
If this describes real abuse or grooming, that’s a serious safeguarding issue and should be reported to appropriate authorities.
If it’s fictional/trolling for shock value, it still reflects a mentality that uses extreme/taboo topics for attention.

*5. Overall Persona*
- *Age in username "40yroldman"*: Signals he wants to be seen as mature/experienced, yet the topics are very relationship-drama focused.
- *Pattern*: Heavy on romance drama, distress, and sexual topics. Low post count per thread except when it gets traction.
- *Motivation*: Likely seeking community input, sympathy, and advice on messy relationship situations. Also possibly using shock/controversy to get views.

*Summary*
40yroldman’s mentality comes across as *troubled, relationship-focused, and seeking external input*. He posts about personal crises, frustrations with women, and sexual topics. The tone is more "help me/validate me" than "inform others."

The thread about a minor is the most concerning and crosses into territory that platforms and authorities take seriously.

If you came across the post about the 14-year-old and believe a child may be at risk, the safest step is to report it to Nairaland moderators and/or relevant child protection authorities.

the best you could fucking do is to fucking copy my posts to your dumb chat Ai.
what a shame. Can't you think for yourself?

40yroldman:
the best you could fucking do is to fucking copy my posts to your dumb chat Ai.
what a shame. Can't you think for yourself?

If I think for myself, I may end up thinking like you and that will be so unfortunate.

essentialone:
If I think for myself, I may end up thinking like you and that will be so unfortunate.

you should be fucking ashamed of yourself if only you know how fuckining inaccurate Ai can be all the time. Ai was never intended to replace your ability to think for yourself

40yroldman:
you should be fucking ashamed of yourself if only you know how fuckining inaccurate Ai can be all the time. Ai was never intended to replace your ability to think for yourself

Smiles

This reminds me of one poster who always created sex topics featuring the big three ethnicities. I wonder where that weirdo is today. Maybe he is OP.

essentialone:
What does this tell you about the mentality of this Op?

Look at his or her other Topics.

Don't believe everything on social media bro. The guy seems like just a troll creating fake stories that never happened.

It might be a teenager who's behind this account 😹

meobizy:
This reminds me of one poster who always created sex topics featuring the big three ethnicities. I wonder where that weirdo is today. Maybe he is OP.

I am not whoever you think I am. All my posts are my real life experiences. I am a 40 yr old man dating a 22 year old lady. I plan to marry her someday in the future but I'll make sure she ticks all the boxes before committing for life with her

cyberbro:
Don't believe everything on social media bro. The guy seems like just a troll creating fake stories that never happened.

It might be a teenager who's behind this account 😹

I am not a teenager bro, I was in secondary school when the news of abacha's death was made public

40yroldman:
I am not a teenager bro, I was in secondary school when the news of abacha's death was made public

Taah, comot here.

cyberbro:
Taah, comot here.

Don't be a doubting Thomas.
I remember mamman vatsa, abdulsalami abubakar,oladikpo diya, Jeremiah usani and also major hamza al-Mustapha.

40yroldman:
Don't be a doubting Thomas.
I remember mamman vatsa, abdulsalami abubakar,oladikpo diya, Jeremiah usani and also major hamza al-Mustapha.

You sure say you no dey there when Nebuchadnezzar come back from forest?

40 years and thinking this way. I pity the children that will come out from this union.
Again, he can't make sentence without adding "fucking"

Seun see wetin dey turn your forum into

essentialone:
If I think for myself, I may end up thinking like you and that will be so unfortunate.

You just shade yourself and you don't even know

Op you and this your imaginary girlfriend

40yroldman:
I am not whoever you think I am. All my posts are my real life experiences. I am a 40 yr old man dating a 22 year old lady. I plan to marry her someday in the future but I'll make sure she ticks all the boxes before committing for life with her

In 2024 you said she had months to live
This is 2026 she didn't die again?

40yroldman:
Guys my girlfriend is 22 years old, though we started dating when she was 19 and I was 36.
There's this weird thing she does that I don't fucking know if it's d norms cos I feel uncomfortable sometimes whenever she does it.

My girl has a 14 year old sis that's she's close with. They are inseparable!
The fucking problem is my girlfriend fucking talks about sex and intimacy in the presence of her 14 year sister. Sometimes I find it funny but most of the times I think it's inappropriate. I've told her to stop but she says she's the best person to teach her sister about intimacy, romance and men.
I don't know, maybe I am fucking over reacting or is this normal guys?

So I would give you some feedbacks that you must take importantly.
1. Your girl friend got introduced into sex at a very young age, so she does not see anything wrong in a 14 year old knowing so much xplicit details about sex.

2. Her 14 year old system, may have already been introducted into sex. So she already see her as an adult.

3. That 14 year old probably already has a boy friend.

It actually in appropraite, reason why we have not applied for children below 18. It written on alot of adult content.

I would like you so observe their mother, is she sexually loose. if yes then you want to pay close attension to more red flags in your gf. This would let you know if you comes from a family were the females are sexually loose. It would also let you konw if you can wife her and if she makes a good loyal wife.

The say charity begins at home. Pay attension to the sexual mindset of the females in your gf family, starting from her mother.

Definitely a great way to show off a bit of sparkle!

Samueltemi337:
You just shade yourself and you you don't even know

Then you never learnt Comprehension in school. Read those words again in between lines, and just maybe you will learn some wit.

He sounds like a fool at 40.

essentialone:
Then you never learnt Comprehension in school. Read those words again in between lines, and just maybe you will learn some wit.

Wonder what you are still explaining

quote...
b4 I get to that part even, so many things in the write-up are messed from the beginning.
Before getting to the ending part that showed the person typing is fully craco.
And how is he able to write out a c. word fully and no edit blur or censorship or ban?

terrezo2002:
40 years and thinking this way. I pity the children that will come out from this union.
Again, he can't make sentence without adding "fucking"

I already have grown kids bro and they are fucking doing well. One already graduated from the university.I fucking became a father at 18. What are you fucking gonna do about it now?

Samueltemi337:
In 2024 you said she had months to live
This is 2026 she didn't die again?

She survived that episode miraculously and she's doing much better now. We fucking agreed not to have kids together due to her condition. We will be fucking fine

skliz:
So I would give you some feedbacks that you must take importantly.
1. Your girl friend got introduced into sex at a very young age, so she does not see anything wrong in a 14 year old knowing so much xplicit details about sex.

2. Her 14 year old system, may have already been introducted into sex. So she already see her as an adult.

3. That 14 year old probably already has a boy friend.

It actually in appropraite, reason why we have not applied for children below 18. It written on alot of adult content.

I would like you so observe their mother, is she sexually loose. if yes then you want to pay close attension to more red flags in your gf. This would let you know if you comes from a family were the females are sexually loose. It would also let you konw if you can wife her and if she makes a good loyal wife.

The say charity begins at home. Pay attension to the sexual mindset of the females in your gf family, starting from her mother.

Nah, them talking about sex doesn't fucking mean they are loose. My girl is from a very fucking good home. She's the only the only fucking girl I've that I can fucking beat my chest and say she doesn't fucking see another guy. It's has a lot to do with her fucking condition, she fucking doesn't even the fucking strength for sex with me whenever I want it let alone for another fucking side nigger anywhere.