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EdiskyHarry:
Yes, there's one okoko in anambra state waiting for them

I agree with you 💯🔐

They wouldn't mind training her in school too

essentialone:
If you carry 1 night stand reach house, abeg how una take dey start? Who makes the first move? Because we just dey press phone since ooo.

with this kind of bed you supposed to be working on how to better your life instead of carrying Olosho, meanwhile this one you carried na real chain smoker ,see as her fingers dirty and black.

ARISHEM:
They do marry better men. It depends on the taste of such men. Many of these bad girls are cheap and go straight to the point and don't dribble though I have heard of how bad girls use juju to marry better men as well.
Few years ago, A young pastor vocal against sexual immorality once said on live TV that after he got married he don't how to go about his wife in the other room when they were doing honeymoon but was grateful that the wife was exposed and far knowledgeable in the other room as she showed and taught him exploratory skills on how to navigate sensitive parts using various sexual positions that he cannot decipher and she almost knocked him down with excitement. He is foolishly telling his viewers that he married a bad gurl

what's your definition of a better man? A rich man I suppose?

free2ryhme:
You don too watch Nollywood

E sure me die say u no read the post

Goo0dHardDick:
E sure me die say u no read the post

You wey don read am you think life responds to emotions

Goo0dHardDick:
what's your definition of a better man? A rich man I suppose?

That is not my definition

free2ryhme:
You wey don read am you think life responds to emotions

Get well soon okay. My prayers are with you

If it is Bonnie Blue kinda of girl that makes you happy go for her. Damaged girls are not difficult to notice it is just that some are blinded by lust so they can't see

90% of men will marry bad girls (repented/refurbished one). nothing you can do about it

essentialone:
If you carry 1 night stand reach house, abeg how una take dey start? Who makes the first move? Because we just dey press phone since ooo.

Nah ur real leg be dat abi u rob chako?

TheStoriesOfMan:
"In conclusion, avoid damaged girls, wether bad or those religious ones. For your own sanity, go for whoever makes you happy"

You contradicted yourself here. You say make I avoid bad gyals, you still come say make I do wetin go make me happy, abi?

What if na bad gyals dey make me happy? How I wan take talk am, eh?

I saw d contraction but I never know how I go attack am .

Goo0dHardDick:
Bad girls are generally seen as damaged girls with massive body counts. If they're the type that makes you happy then go for them. I'll keep you in my prayers

Hmm. You made a lotta points though. Bad gyals na for enjoyment.

essentialone:
If you carry 1 night stand reach house, abeg how una take dey start? Who makes the first move? Because we just dey press phone since ooo.

..you just off the light and enter bed and the thing don start immediately..no story

DickenClarq:
Whatever you plant so shall you harvest.

I know life is not balance

But I can't live a decent life and avoid numerous vices from my adolescent year till date, but at the end find myself with a man that won't cherish, love and treat me with respect.

If you are a lady please live your life anyhow while hoping grace or luck will link you up with a good man.

As for me I will be a good girl, a good wife and I will have the best husband in the world.

May God help us

I like that idealogy, keep it up

I agree with some of the points, especially that money can influence who some women choose. But the post contradicts itself by calling religious girls pretentious while making sweeping assumptions about “bad girls.” Not every woman fits these labels. At the end of the day, character, values, honesty and compatibility matter more than whether someone is called “good” or “bad.”

Ok

Op dey talk nyananyama there, u think say if I see girl wey dey give me all the fetish and fantasy I want Inside da oza room I no quickly marry am?

The low quality of the write-up no gree me contribute. Seun, continue chasing away members. Soon your forum will suffer what Reddit has turned itself to.

essentialone:
If you carry 1 night stand reach house, abeg how una take dey start? Who makes the first move? Because we just dey press phone since ooo.

She don make move already na
So
Abi you no see the way she position, that one go like spooning sha

manmade:
with this kind of bed you supposed to be working on how to better your life instead of carrying Olosho, meanwhile this one you carried na real chain smoker ,see as her fingers dirty and black.

And you ended up not answering his question but judging his financial status. Mr. successful holier-than-thou, post your bedroom pic first make we see.

Goo0dHardDick:
Bad girls do not marry better men. That's false narrative!

By Nigeria's definition of better men, it simply means a rich notorious Simp who's over ready to lavish heavily and funds her lifestyle! Since bad girls are well exposed already and eager looking out for rich magas who can outspend on her before she'll decide the one with the enough cash to accept his marriage proposal.

Since good girls (which are predominantly those religious church girls) are highly pretentious, always hiding and acting l innocent and holy like Mary amaka, bad girls are directly the opposite, they engaged alot in kaymata (love charms) to attract rich men.

In conclusion, avoid damaged girls, wether bad or those religious ones. For your own sanity, go for whoever makes you happy

The better men you reference are not really better men. They are simp[ly rich men.

That a high class runs girl marries a wealthy Yahoo, Drug guy, Ritualist, Scammer, Fake drinks and medicine producer etc whouldnt be equated to marrying a 'better man'. Local and illiterate, but wealthy people typically want to marry a pretty girl by all means as a trophy wife. So they go for some of these girls, knowing that their ways are not really pure. The don't care as much because they themselves know they will cheat anyway.

The women too don't mind because what they want is comfort.

However, there are cases where a baddie will form like a good girl to marry a genuine better man, but thats few and far between. if you have any sense as a man, you should observe your girl enough to know that this girls has a dodgy past life.

From the way she speaks, dresses, attitude, manerism, how she converses on the phone with her friends, who her friends even are, you should be able to paint a decent picture of her as wife material.

COMPAQ:
The better men you reference are not really better men. They are simp[ly rich men.

That a high class runs girl marries a wealthy Yahoo, Drug guy, Ritualist, Scammer, Fake drinks and medicine producer etc whouldnt be equated to marrying a 'better man'. Local and illiterate, but wealthy people typically want to marry a pretty girl by all means as a trophy wife. So they go for some of these girls, knowing that their ways are not really pure. The don't care as much because they themselves know they will cheat anyway.

The women too don't mind because what they want is comfort.

However, there are cases where a baddie will form like a good girl to marry a genuine better man, but thats few and far between. if you have any sense as a man, you should observe your girl enough to know that this girls has a dodgy past life.

From the way she speaks, dresses, attitude, manerism, how she converses on the phone with her friends, who her friends even are, you should be able to paint a decent picture of her as wife material.

Exactly my point

Amen.. Wow I love this response. Stay modest and fabulous always

DickenClarq:
Whatever you plant so shall you harvest. I know life is not balance[/b]

But I can't live a decent life and avoid numerous vices from my adolescent year till date, but at the end find myself with a man that won't cherish, love and treat me with respect.

If you are a lady please live your life anyhow while hoping grace or luck will link you up with a good man.

As for me I will be a good girl, a good wife and I will have the best husband in the world.

May God help us

ednut1:
90% of men will marry bad girls (repented/refurbished one). nothing you can do about it

Which is not a bad deal.
It is unfair to these "good girls" that men like the OP are the ones aiming to marry them.

No woman is good or bad, good or bad girl is in the eyes of the man (beholder) one man's rubbish is another man's treasure.

I like all women starting from the so called bad ones. After all i am not intending to marry them. If you no like am you are free to turn gae!

We wey call ourselves Men are not saints either

So called bad girls have zero standards most times so anything goes and the marrying better men is wealth na not minding how the money is gotten but a normal girl would go for values

Bad guys who have wilfully damaged good women, there's a place in hell where special torment is kept waiting. To destroy yourself is one thing, but to destroy another person is a whole other degree.
Destroy a woman and you destroy a container-portal for an everlasting soul to manifest in this universe. God(s) don't play with the body of a woman because of its significance to existence.

@Goo0dHardDick

The good men in Nigeria context when it comes to marrying bad girls are the reserved men who worked hard while they were young to build themselves and later settle for girls that have been used, reused and dumped by their then spec of men (like Yahoo boys, sugar daddies and co).

Initially these kind of men were found in churches until the format casted and men no longer look for wives in the church because most 30+ ladies in churches are there to look for innocent men after being damaged by numerous men.

Now to the question, the reason good men marry bad girls back then is simply because the bad girls are really good at the manipulative game. They know how to spot a good and intentional man who's ready the settle down. They know how to grab a man four places with two hands.

The bad girls can play and act like a Saint, prayer warrior, a good chef and best wife material to hook a man. While the so-called pretentious good girl on the other side is looking for a man that chase her for 3 months, talking stage 3 months with series a rules. This is where the bad girls win but men are now sensible to detect the bad girls.

bentenny:
Nope.
Bad girls marry simps.

Meaning SIIMP are the good men right? If you say so. Because SIMP are the wealthy men and the men who cares about the feelings of their spouse, then yeah. If you will like to have your sisters, daughters to marry the so called simps. Why people like you claim to be red pillar. and red pillars are broke men, with ego and no feelings for their spouse. so yeah bad girls will always choose the simp even you yourself if you be woman you go still choose simps.

helinues:
Like i said on previous thread, Good men are somehow mumu. Only bad girls sabi press their mumu button

The good girls are just had to see as they hardly go out and hardly approachable

And them end single and alone without husband. the irony of life. Who told you they are good. what is your definition of good. you actually a cage local fowl is what qualifies them as good. They will eventually end up with the so called red pillar bad men who will cheat on them still beat them on top, with ego and no single money in their bank account. So you see how men reward bad behaviours?