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Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by EntPublisher001(op): 11:37pm On Sep 07
On 7 September 2026, the X account @GloriousGod01 posted the story of a close friend and the tragic events that followed the birth of his first child.

The couple, both under 28 and described as young and beautiful, had been married for four years without children. The previous year the wife finally became pregnant. She made one firm request for a push gift: her own car.

She delivered a baby girl by caesarean section last month after a long and tense labour that cost her husband a large sum of money. Three days later, while still in hospital, she demanded the car. When he said he could not afford it immediately, she refused to feed the newborn. Nurses had to beg her to care for the infant.

Once home the neglect continued. The husband often returned from work to find the baby left crying alone. The wife stopped breastfeeding unless he pleaded with her and used the child’s care as leverage.

She later left for two days and stayed with her mother while the baby grew seriously ill. He begged her to return, but she refused until he agreed to buy the car. She came back only after that promise.

A few days later the baby girl died, never recovering from the illness. The husband immediately sent his wife away. When she returned with her mother to plead, he had both of them arrested. The post closes with the words: “Above all, love God.”
Source: https://trendybeatz.com/blog/infant-dies-after-mother-withholds-care-in-push-car-gift-dispute

Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by Kobojunkie: 11:45pm On Sep 07
EntPublisher001:
➜Once home the neglect continued. The husband often returned from work to find the baby left crying alone. The wife stopped breastfeeding unless he pleaded with her and used the child’s care as leverage.
She later left for two days and stayed with her mother while the baby grew seriously ill. He begged her to return, but she refused until he agreed to buy the car. She came back only after that promise.
A few days later the baby girl died, never recovering from the illness. The husband immediately sent his wife away. When she returned with her mother to plead, he had both of them arrested. The post closes with the words: “Above all, love God.”
The woman refused to breastfeed the baby, and the man refused to step in to protect the child from the obviously deranged woman. Why? Why didn't the man immediately take over feeding duty for the child and take her to the hospital as soon as he realized the baby was ill? 😒😒😒

All these nonsensical tales don't help men at all. The man chose a woman who was of questionable intelligence to have the child with. After he realized in the hospital her intentions, he should have immediately stepped in to protect the child from the woman and maybe see to it that she was institutionalized or at least deprived of access to the child. Why tell us sob stories when it is both the man and woman who failed the child? Assuming the child did indeed die as a result of parental neglect, I hope both of them will spend at least 10 years each in jail for letting that child die. 😒😒
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by LordIsaac(m): 11:54pm On Sep 07
Kobojunkie:
The woman refused to breastfeed the baby, and the man refused to step in to protect the child from the obviously deranged woman. Why? Why didn't the man immediately take over feeding duty for the child and take her to the hospital as soon as he realized the baby was ill? 😒😒😒

All these nonsensical tales don't help men at all. The man chose a woman who was of questionable intelligence to have the child with. After he realized in the hospital her intentions, he should have immediately stepped in to protect the child from the woman and maybe see to it that she was institutionalized or at least deprived of access to the child. Why tell us sob stories when it is both the man and woman who failed the child? Assuming the child did indeed die as a result of parental neglect, I hope both of them will spend at least 10 years each in jail for letting that child die. 😒😒
See how you shifted the weight of your blame! God will deliver men from you (Amen).
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by dominique(mod): 4:17am On Sep 08
People still dey believe these twitter stories? undecided
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by Stephen0mozzy: 5:21am On Sep 08
LordIsaac:
See how you shifted the weight of your blame! God will deliver men from you (Amen).
It actually spoke the truth. The man did the first thing last. What he should have done was, immediately he noticed her refusal to care for the child, HIS CHILD because the morally degenerate woman has decided that the car was more important than the child's life, he should have taken the child away from her and taken the child to the hospital so the nurses will find other means of nursing the child.

When the woman tries to throw tantrum because of that, that's when he should arrest both of them and report to Ministry of Women Affairs or shii.

If the woman was setting fire to all his properties one by one every time he comes back from work, will he wait for her to burn down the house?

We know the story na tales by moonlight sha, but above all MARRY PEOPLE WHO ARE KIND.
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by oglalasioux(m): 7:08am On Sep 08
Lindsay Clancy wannabe.

Deep down many women want their babies dead especially the ones who their babies obviously retired them from that oldest trade. Tell me the difference between what this woman did and throwing a new born baby into drainage and refuse bin.
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by Caaz:
What happened to him inviting any of his sisters/mum to come care for the infant by feeding the child with baby formula?


Both of them should be arrested for the death of the child.

For the mum of the wife to accommodate her daughter without her grandchild speaks volumes.
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by Kaido: 7:17am On Sep 08
Divorce her black*ss!

She is not the woman for him.

This na wetin pressure dey cause. Maybe all her friends got rides & she wan feel among. Instead of being patient with the husband, she decided to do it the terrorist way.
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by AllBlack:
When you think you have seen it all

More super stories without reference to time and location or any binding detail keeps coming up

who neglects a baby after 4 years of waiting?

And instead of THE MOTHER coming to stay with her & the baby, she went to stay with a mother that could not notice the condition of the child? FOR 2 WHOLE DAYS?

SEUN OSEWA please stop trying to mess with our intelligence. do you really think everybody here is 12 years old?

I have been on NL for 21 years... that is since 2005 and I have not seen this level of LOW and CRASS on this forum. WTF is this?
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by Oracleee: 8:28am On Sep 08
LordIsaac:
See how you shifted the weight of your blame! God will deliver men from you (Amen).
Nothing good comes out of kobojunkie. Her post her meant to be passed and not taken serious.
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by HisaacPlus: 8:28am On Sep 08
EntPublisher001:
Source: https://trendybeatz.com/blog/infant-dies-after-mother-withholds-care-in-push-car-gift-dispute
I think she's not destined to be a mother. God was too kind unto her
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by emkz: 8:28am On Sep 08
Some rubbish culture needs not be normalized.

What is the essence of push gift? Who started it? In the past, childbirth was honourable. There were no commercial aspects. Now, people feel when they give birth to a child, they are owed a car. Make it make sense. Some spray money on their wives. A car is a depreciating asset. If you have money, why not buy land for that child and open a fixed deposit account in that child's name? If she gives birth to six children, can you afford six cars?

Let us do better.
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by Raxxye(m): 8:29am On Sep 08
This is not possible.
Abeg tell us another story.
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by Gotocourt: 8:30am On Sep 08
She delivered a baby girl by caesarean section last month after a long and tense labour that cost her husband a large sum of money. Three days later, while still in hospital, she demanded the car. When he said he could not afford it immediately, she refused to feed the newborn. Nurses had to beg her to care for the infant.
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by ElGenio39: 8:30am On Sep 08
Some women no get sense . What is a car now
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by victorazyvictor(m): 8:30am On Sep 08
Push wey she no push. Things dey happen oooo
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by lwisee: 8:31am On Sep 08
The bros head no correct.
He should have involved his own family, like elder sister to care for the baby. Baby can survive without their mother or brest milk.
The guy deserves a hot slap.
Why promise what you can't afford in the first place.
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by Treasure17(m): 8:31am On Sep 08
In as much I doubt the veracity of this post, such people actually exit.
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by jmoore(m): 8:32am On Sep 08
Fiction from bloggers..
Next!!
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by DystopianMuse(f): 8:33am On Sep 08
WHO EVEN STARTED THIS PUSH GIFT RUBBISH. MEN HAVE TOLERATE RUBBISH GOT LONG.
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by MirrorD(m): 8:34am On Sep 08
tales by moonlight

Yadayadayada
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by Mindlog: 8:35am On Sep 08
@GloriousGod, is a known tales by moonlight guy on twitter.😂😂😂
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by Focusmind: 8:36am On Sep 08
This is what happens when "underage" people are allowed to get married without parental guidance.
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by ajalawole(m): 8:36am On Sep 08
Gen z parent doing wonders. Our parent care about push gift, they care about the well being of the baby. I remember when my mum was labour late midnight and car refused to start. Have to jump a naubourhood fence to get to a nurse.
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by SmartMaster001: 8:38am On Sep 08
This is disgusting.. some women dey follow satan drag wickedness.
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by armadeo(m): 8:39am On Sep 08
What a silly story.

This inevitable wants to trend on the clancy case.making up bullahit story of " my friend".


The girls mother would have killed her before this happened sef. In Nigeria a woman delivers and there's nobody in the house with her. No omugwo or elderly female relative to help.

Lol. Twitter gradually turning to Facebook.
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by DropsMic(m): 8:39am On Sep 08
There is something weird about life
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by Kharol1234: 8:40am On Sep 08
X farmers okay ooo, we believe the tales by moonlight.
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by adecares(f): 8:40am On Sep 08
Alright, but both the man and the woman should be arrested
Re: Infant Dies After Mother Withholds Care Over Push Car Gift Dispute by Josywhyte: 8:41am On Sep 08
Even satan sef dey learn work for where that woman dey
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