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Fake or not.

These things happened and will keep happening.

So, the discussion is right in place.

I beg to disagree sir....

GeneralOuki:
Do you think that the child died of starvation? Baby formula can only do so much, it can never replace the nutrients, anti bodies and immune the baby gets from breast milk. The child died because she lacked those nutrients not because she was starving.

What about kids whose mother's died after birthing them and yet they survived without sucking their mum's breast.

Arrest the man for what?

The day people start to take responsibility for the stupidity and recklessness is the day marriage/the world will begin to get better

adecares:
Alright, but both the man and the woman should be arrested

oglalasioux:
Have you ever thrown a baby away? Are you still feeling the pains of your actions?

No,but I am concerned that you think that women are demons. Including your own mum.

RillJ:
Arrest the man for what?

The day people start to take responsibility for the stupidity and recklessness is the day marriage/the world will begin to get better

See you, if the woman decides not to have sense, what about the man, is he also senseless, what if the woman had died in the birth process, won't the man looks for an alternative to give the baby proper care.
It's just bad that the child involved had died.
The parents should be seriously dealt with.

GeneralOuki:
baby can survive without breast milk but that child will not be all that healthy and well equipped against some certain illnesses. Breast milk supplies the baby with nutrients, anti bodies and immunity to lots of illnesses that baby formula can't provide, that's why breast milk changes everyday based on the child's health, if your child is sick, a mother's breast milk will change from watery to thick, yellow to white etc depending on the exact condition of the baby.
The child didn't die due to starvation, she died because her mother refused to provide her the necessary nutrients she needed to fight against the illness that killed her.

What if the mother died during child birth and the baby survived?

honour8:
5 post natal depression can come in different forms. We seriously need psychologist in this country.

Postnatal depression ?? Are you for real? A woman abandon's every thing because she no get car.... and you immediately think say na depression dey do her? 😒😒

deltateam:
➜Children can live healthy without breast milk. He should have consulted the hospital if he was bereft of ideas. Some people sha.

Apparently, there are still many men(and probably women too) out there who think that it is enough to blame just the woman when, in truth, the men also failed to protect the child from the woman. 😒😒

ginggerxy:
➜This should be categorized under terrorism act and should be punishable by law. There is one related incedence like this that occure in one compund i used to live in. A young girl got pregnant and some how managed to give birth on her own and the younger sister called on a nurse to care for her and help dress the baby which she did. And after cleaning the baby the nurse asked her to carry the baby and she was kind of nonchalant about the child and she had to persuade her to care for the baby to stay alive, she will intentional on the room fan after the nurse had put it off initially, so the nurse took it upon her self to check on her from hour to hour and notice the girl would use her hand to close the baby's mouth when her trys to cry. [b]Then the nurse hand to ask would you like to give out the baby for adoption so that she can make calls to get people that can care for this boy this girl was adamant on keeping the baby and still wouldnt want the compound to know she had a baby. She did this till the baby died within 48 hours. Then on that faitful night around she tried to bury the baby in the compoud told the gate man to dig. So inside the compound that she wanted yo bury pad, so a curious guy that stays on the first floor on hearing the noise came down to see the gate man digging a hole her asked him what he was doing there and the gataman told the girl wanted to bury her pad and the she asked him to help her dig the hole. But the guy wasnt having it as he know that girls normally burn their used pads and not bury. He left and they later buried the baby but the guy had to ask some questions about the girl fortunately the nurse use to talk to him so she narrated everything to him out of anger the guy called the caretaker and told him and the girl was aske d to dig up the baby and bury in burial ground or were ever she wants to.[/b] Mind you she concealed the pregnancy and people didnt know she was pregnant and gave birth on her own without help it was the younger sister that called the nurse to take care of the baby. This girl is a nursing student her self in her 4lvl or there about . From that day i can never use look to judge any body because she is an innocent looking beautiful beast.

The nurse should have reported the case immediately to the police knowing that the pregnancy was unwanted and with Nigeria the way it is where people can literally dig holes and bury person anywhere, she ought to have made sure there were others informed so the girl would have been forced to take the child to an orphanage or maybe back to some other woman in need of a child. 😒😒

Anyway, I know I may be asking for too much. But was this story ever investigated, or did it end up like the many baby-thrown-into-shalanga stories we heard of growing up? 😒😒

Caaz:
➜What happened to him inviting any of his sisters/mum to come care for the infant by feeding the child with baby formula? Both of them should be arrested for the death of the child. For the mum of the wife to accommodate her daughter without her grandchild speaks volumes.

Why should his sisters or mum take over his duty? A man can carry and raise his own child. So why rope in the lives of others who have their own dreams and ambitions? 😒😒

lwisee:
The bros head no correct. He should have involved his own family, like elder sister to care for the baby. Baby can survive without their mother or brest milk.
➜ The guy deserves a hot slap. Why promise what you can't afford in the first place.

Involve his family why? The child was his and it was equally his duty to care for and raise it. He went chasing after a woman, disregarding the well-being of his vulnerable child. Why should his family members have needed to be dragged in when he himself failed to protect the very innocent child he desired to have? The man should end up in jail with the woman.😒😒

GeneralOuki:
You hardly ever make sense on this site, it's almost as if you're being Obtuse an irrational on purpose.

What was the man supposed to do when the mother who was supposed to supply the baby with essential nutrients, anti bodies and immunity via breastfeeding have refused to feed the baby? The child did not die due to starvation, she died because she was deprived of the nutrients from breastfeeding that baby formula could never ever replicate.

Some of you just come online and begin to vomit BS uncontrollably.

Are u living in year 1725 ?? Do u realise mothers die at child birth, which formula do you think those babies have been surviving on all these years ??

lol….Its funny that you are trying to be condescending yet u ddnt notice you are the one vomitting BS…

Gift is not demanded. Men will never learn

EntPublisher001:
Source: https://trendybeatz.com/blog/infant-dies-after-mother-withholds-care-in-push-car-gift-dispute

Super story, lies from the pit of hell

nairalanda1:
No,but I am concerned that you think that women are demons. Including your own mum.

The bolded is nothing but cheap blackmail to stop people from calling out the evil tendencies of some women. That my mother is a woman doesn’t erase the fact that it’s a woman that will give birth to a child she supposedly ‘suffered’ 9 months pregnancy and still dump the child in a dustbin. That my sisters are women doesn’t make Lindsay Clancy and her likes innocent of deliberately killing their own children.

oglalasioux:
The bolded is nothing but cheap blackmail to stop people from calling out the evil tendencies of some women. That my mother is a woman doesn’t erase the fact that it’s a woman that will give birth to a child she supposedly ‘suffered’ 9 months pregnancy and still dump the child in a dustbin. That my sisters are women doesn’t make Lindsay Clancy and her likes innocent of deliberately killing their own children.

Well, you did say the following...

oglalasioux:
Lindsay Clancy wannabe.

Deep down many women want their babies dead

And then you went to add especially those...but still you said the same thing...many women want their babies dead.

And then you said this.

oglalasioux:
Have you ever thrown a baby away? Are you still feeling the pains of your actions?

For the record, I am a man, and I work in medicine, and I have delievered babies, so I am not likely to throw away babies.



You hate women, and you regard most of them as hoes. I don't know what made you hate women, or see them as less than human, but whatever it is, your comments means that you also consider your mother, sisters and so forth as capable of throwing away their babies.

Please, get out of my sight.

Kobojunkie:
The nurse should have reported the case immediately to the police knowing that the pregnancy was unwanted and with Nigeria the way it is where people can literally dig holes and bury person anywhere, she ought to have made sure there were others informed so the girl would have been forced to take the child to an orphanage or maybe back to some other woman in need of a child. 😒😒

Anyway, I know I may be asking for too much. But was this story ever investigated, or did it end up like the many baby-thrown-into-shalanga stories we heard of growing up? 😒😒

This is a true life story, the landlord asked her to leave the compound. I swear with my life this is a true life story that night they waited for the guy staying ground floor to go out not knowing the person on the first floor was around as his room was dark. We made sure she dug up the dead baby with her own hand in my own voice i told her what ever it is that come with what she did should stay with her alone. Because she wanted us to help her dig it up but we insist she do it her self this is not a fiction no sugar coating i have the vivide image of that night with me. She wasnt prosecuted. On further investigation we still found out the guys she had the pregnancy for still student but were capable of taking care of the baby but she was sleeping with the two flat mates. I still went further and discovered she wanted to terminate the baby but the guy she met a medical student a doctor now, told her she knew the risk as the baby was already about 6 month and warned her not to take what ever pill which i believe she should be aware of as nursing student, also heard she is a bright student with sound results the whole situation was heart wrecking. I cant forgot that night in my life. Nothing was done to her aside asking her to dig the baby up, and to pack out of the compound, the care taker was of the that if police gets involved the parents will spend money to bail her and all that. If you see her you wouldnt believe she can hurt a fly.

ginggerxy:
➜This is a true life story, the landlord asked her to leave the compound. I swear with my life this is a true life story that night they waited for the guy staying ground floor to go out not knowing the person on the first floor was around as his room was dark. We made sure she dug up the dead baby with her own hand in my own voice i told her what ever it is that come with what she did should stay with her alone. Because she wanted us to help her dig it up but we insist she do it her self this is not a fiction no sugar coating i have the vivide image of that night with me. She wasnt prosecuted. On further investigation we still found out the guys she had the pregnancy for still student but were capable of taking care of the baby but she was sleeping with the two flat mates. I still went further and discovered she wanted to terminate the baby but the guy she met a medical student a doctor now, told her she knew the risk as the baby was already about 6 month and warned her not to take what ever pill which i believe she should be aware of as nursing student, also heard she is a bright student with sound results the whole situation was heart wrecking. I cant forgot that night in my life. Nothing was done to her aside asking her to dig the baby up, and to pack out of the compound, the care taker was of the that if police gets involved the parents will spend money to bail her and all that. If you see her you wouldnt believe she can hurt a fly.

So, a child died, and nobody thought to call the police in to investigate the situation to be sure it was not abused or maybe even killed? WOW!!!😒😒😒

Nigeria is literally a country where murder happens almost everywhere you look and most people don't see it as anything. 😒😒

Is this a joke or content or what?

If it is real, the woman had a bot loose in her head probably due to the rigorous labour.

RillJ:
Arrest the man for what?

The day people start to take responsibility for the stupidity and recklessness is the day marriage/the world will begin to get better

…So if ur wife abandons your infant child, u wont take responsibility for the child’s care immediately …..
U are talking of responsibility yet you are making it look like the only the mother that should be responsible for an infant ….

Kobojunkie ....a mother isn't the sole owner of a child maam.

Kobojunkie:
Why should his sisters or mum take over his duty? A man can carry and raise his own child. So why rope in the lives of others who have their own dreams and ambitions? 😒😒

What if the man does 9-5 job?
My anger is with the girl's mum.

Caaz:
➜....a mother isn't the sole owner of a child maam. What if the man does 9-5 job?
➜ My anger is with the girl's mum.

Single women are able to keep their jobs and still raise children as single mothers. But when it comes time for a man to do the same, you come up with excuses? 😒😒

2. Again, you go on roping third parties into a situation that ought not to be their priority. Why not direct your anger towards the girl's dad? 😒😒

Kobojunkie:
The woman refused to breastfeed the baby, and the man refused to step in to protect the child from the obviously deranged woman. Why? Why didn't the man immediately take over feeding duty for the child and take her to the hospital as soon as he realized the baby was ill? 😒😒😒

All these nonsensical tales don't help men at all. The man chose a woman who was of questionable intelligence to have the child with. After he realized in the hospital her intentions, he should have immediately stepped in to protect the child from the woman and maybe see to it that she was institutionalized or at least deprived of access to the child. Why tell us sob stories when it is both the man and woman who failed the child? Assuming the child did indeed die as a result of parental neglect, I hope both of them will spend at least 10 years each in jail for letting that child die. 😒😒

Jonsing people wey no deserve a child, still mother nature still gave them one and they messed it up.

caesymore:
➜Jonsing people wey no deserve a child, still mother nature still gave them one and they messed it up.

I think both of them just wanted a child as a status symbol and not out of love for one.😒😒

Stephen0mozzy:
It actually spoke the truth. The man did the first thing last. What he should have done was, immediately he noticed her refusal to care for the child, HIS CHILD because the morally degenerate woman has decided that the car was more important than the child's life, he should have taken the child away from her and taken the child to the hospital so the nurses will find other means of nursing the child.

When the woman tries to throw tantrum because of that, that's when he should arrest both of them and report to Ministry of Women Affairs or shii.

If the woman was setting fire to all his properties one by one every time he comes back from work, will he wait for her to burn down the house?

We know the story na tales by moonlight sha, but above all MARRY PEOPLE WHO ARE KIND.

Exactly, one of our major issues in these era is that most people see issues bothering on Man and woman as gender war. I blame the Man more, as a man you should always Man your home by putting all efforts in check

WatchYourSix:
Are u living in year 1725 ?? Do u realise mothers die at child birth, which formula do you think those babies have been surviving on all these years ??

lol….Its funny that you are trying to be condescending yet u ddnt notice you are the one vomitting BS…

https://www.medela.com/en/breastfeeding-pumping/articles/power-of-breast-milk/breast-milk-vs-formula-how-similar-are-they


https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/breastfeeding-your-baby/breast-milk-is-the-best-milk


Go through those two links, if they're not sufficient enough for you let me so I can supply you with more.

GeneralOuki:
https://www.medela.com/en/breastfeeding-pumping/articles/power-of-breast-milk/breast-milk-vs-formula-how-similar-are-they


https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/breastfeeding-your-baby/breast-milk-is-the-best-milk


Go through those two links, if they're not sufficient enough for you let me so I can supply you with more.

Bros my neighbour’s wife died at child birth the child is 5 years old today. And so are numerous babies who ddnt have opportunity to be breast-fed by their mother
….. u are just clinging to straws… the fact is, the man is also responsible for not seeking proper care for the infant when the mother decided to be irrational…all this links you are posting doesnt change that fact

This is just one side of the story. We need to hear from the other side. I will never believe one persons story.

HisaacPlus:
I think she's not destined to be a mother. God was too kind unto her

If this story is actually true am definitely very sure that lady will eventually die barren.

emkz:
Some rubbish culture needs not be normalized.

What is the essence of push gift? Who started it? In the past, childbirth was honourable. There were no commercial aspects. Now, people feel when they give birth to a child, they are owed a car. Make it make sense. Some spray money on their wives. A car is a depreciating asset. If you have money, why not buy land for that child and open a fixed deposit account in that child's name? If she gives birth to six children, can you afford six cars?

Let us do better.

Very useless culture from nigerian ladies with damaged minds.

Raxxye:
This is not possible.
Abeg tell us another story.

Anything is very possible in this nigeria where ladies have been caught throwing away their new born babies in gutters and toilets.