₦airaland Forum

I'm trying to understand the reason for placing the nationality before the "boyfriend"
This Nairaland is becoming a wasted space daily. Always promoting division in the name of empty contents

As online in-law wey we be, go and beg him and continue with the relationship since you no wen get sense. I pity guy that will beat my siblings like this. Is either she leave the relationship/marriage or she kpai me.

Dem no get bottle where you dey? Ghanian dey beat you and you dey cry wallahi you fall my hand.

Young woman wake up and show the nija blood inside you..

U dey vex me as you dey cry I dey angry with you now naw like say make I do you sometin to wake ur brain up.

Maybe she’s expecting the Ghanaian man to take full responsibility the way men normally do here. 😂 But omo, na woman dey handle plenty things for the home in Ghana o.

There's a thin line between lust/hatred.... ladies should learn that sex isn't everything in a relationship...no matter how much u give him your body, he will still panel beat your head!

Lol. If woman slap you, beat her.

I'm very sure she acted the way she acts towards Nigerian men and she thought he was gonna let it slide.


Equal rights 🥂

If ANY man lays hand on me we will sit down and discuss his funeral

Werrtin. Come concern us
The time wey he dey buy you
Wig and shawarma, you tell us
Abeggggggggggggg
Make una gather gerrroouuut

Who knows the ammount of billing that he must have received from this agbako before he lost it.

You said it's not the 1st time? Don't worry, he will soon change.

so we should go to war with our ghenians neighbor

Gotocourt:
He couldn't tolerate bad character and billing

Dem don ever tell you say you get bad mouth.

RandDigital:
Meanwhile you subscribe and benefit from patriarchy - that men are heads of families and leaders of society. Then who should save abused women if that's your ideology?

a. I don't subscribe to patriarchy. I subscribe to a free, merit-based society. One in which equal memebrs don't depend on others to rescue them while demanding equal privileges.
b. There's no patriarchy. Women have equal rights to do whatever and still turn around to act helpless, thus making the case that patriarchy should be returned. Do you agree with the return of patriarchy since women are apparently so helpless?
c. I don't benefit from patriarchy because there's no patriarchy.
d. My precise point was that women should not need rescuing. Yours apparently appears to simultaneously be that women are oppressed by the same patriarchy they need to save them. You are walking backwards and forwards at the same time because your position is benefits-based rather than principles-based.

If she is useless enough to date a Ghanian, she should be beaten till her senses pop

I will not even say anything. ✌🏽

Lovelink1991:
How a relationship of one year turn sour due to unfaithfulness.

Nigeria lady who based in Ghana narrated her she was threatened and beaten by her Ghana boyfriend when she decided to pay him with his own coin.

Which way Nigeria, which way to go.... I love my father land.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KUcsUXa2_iY

You've been dating for one year yet you don't have his picture on your phone. What a calamity!

lezz:
If she is useless enough to date a Ghanian she should be beaten till her senses pop

Thank you for this @emboldened

Gotocourt:
He couldn't tolerate bad character and billing

If you don't like someone what do you do? Break up, stop giving justification for assault of a human like you. This is one of the reasons blacks are majority in prisons in the US

Gotocourt:
He couldn't tolerate bad character and billing

If you don't like someone what do you do? Break up, stop giving justification for assault of a human like you. This is one of the reasons blacks are majority in prisons in the US. ..

Lol

There is love in beating
Enjoy

SmartyPants:
a. I don't subscribe to patriarchy. I subscribe to a free, merit-based society. One in which equal memebrs don't depend on others to rescue them while demanding equal privileges.
b. There's no patriarchy. Women have equal rights to do whatever and still turn around to act helpless, thus making the case that patriarchy should be returned. Do you agree with the return of patriarchy since women are apparently so helpless?
c. I don't benefit from patriarchy because there's no patriarchy.
d. My precise point was that women should not need rescuing. Yours apparently appears to simultaneously be that women are oppressed by the same patriarchy they need to save them. You are walking backwards and forwards at the same time because your position is benefits-based rather than principles-based.

You ARE a patriarchal society.

Only less than 5% of women are in Nigeria's senate and congress and there's no female governor.

Compare that to South Africa, where I live, 45% female representation in parliament and ever since I've been politically aware there's been multiple female provincial premiers since 1994.

Lovelink1991:
How a relationship of one year turn sour due to unfaithfulness.

Nigeria lady who based in Ghana narrated her she was threatened and beaten by her Ghana boyfriend when she decided to pay him with his own coin.

Which way Nigeria, which way to go.... I love my father land.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KUcsUXa2_iY

See her face like "u people no even try at all". Next time he go break ya nose so that u can smell sense since u can no longer use ya brain.

Lovelink1991:
How a relationship of one year turn sour due to unfaithfulness.

Nigeria lady who based in Ghana narrated her she was threatened and beaten by her Ghana boyfriend when she decided to pay him with his own coin.

Which way Nigeria, which way to go.... I love my father land.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KUcsUXa2_iY

Judging from this picture, it is obvious the guy na lefty and lefty guys hand dey pain well well ehn. True true, even if na me dem (((kadoom))) like that i go set camera begin narrate am for tik tok live o!

RandDigital:
You ARE a patriarchal society.

Only less than 5% of women are in Nigeria's senate and congress and there's no female governor.

Compare that to South Africa, where I live, 45% female representation in parliament and ever since I've been politically aware there's been multiple female provincial premiers since 1994.

Is patriarchy defined by representation or by equal opportunity?

You may wish to revise your logic.

We're a merit based society where women refuse to run for office. There's absolutely no man standing somewhere and refusing to let women be elected. Our chief justice is female, president of the Court of Appeal is female, president of the Nigeria Bar Association is female, etc etc. Nigerians have absolutely no problems with female leadership.

Finally, I fail to see the relevance of the comparison with South Africa.

SmartyPants:
Is patriarchy defined by representation or by equal opportunity?

You may wish to revise your logic.

We're a merit based society where women refuse to run for office. There's absolutely no man standing somewhere and refusing to let women be elected. Our chief justice is female, president of the Court of Appeal is female, president of the Nigeria Bar Association is female, etc etc. Nigerians have absolutely no problems with female leadership.

Finally, I fail to see the relevance of the comparison with South Africa.

Are you trying to fool me or yourself?

Nigerian female representation in politics is very low because you resent and oppress to an extent they don't have the confidence to run for office. Where do they begin to start raising funds in a patriarchal society?

Look at what you did and said about Natasha. You think I didn't see?

Comparison with SA was that Natasha wouldn't have been the exception in SA and would've had considerable empathy and support.

RandDigital:
Are you trying to fool me or yourself?

Nigerian female representation in politics is very low because you resent women.

Look at what you did and said about Natasha. You think I didn't see?

You need to spend some time studying logic. What you are attempting and woefully failing to do is rely on the fallacy of observational bias.

And that fails itself because it is premised on a lie. Natasha was not particularly targeted because she was female. She was targeted because she opposed an extremely powerful individual from the ruling party.

And she was equally opposed and supported because like every politician she has supporters from her party and opponents from opposite parties.

But even assuming indeed that there was some amorphous "you" who did or said something to Natasha, would a single example prove your point? Are there no men of whom the same or worse have been said or done?

Rubbish.

SmartyPants:
You need to spend more time studying logic. What you are attempting and woefully failing to do is rely on the fallacy of observational bias.

And that fails itself because it is premised on a lie. Natasha was not particularly targeted because she was female. She was targeted because she opposed an extremely powerful individual from the ruling party.

And she was equally opposed and supported because like every politician she has supporters from her party and opponents from opposite parties.

But even assuming indeed that there was some amorphous "you" who did or said something to Natasha, would a single example prove your point? Are there no men of who the same or worse have been said or done?

Rubbish.

Why was Natasha trending worldwide? Because shes a woman and an exception in Nigerian politics. Why are there less than 5% women engaged in Nigerian high office? Either your women are really pathetic or Nigerian men pathetically insecure.

Don't tell me Nigerian women can enter politics of they want. That hogwash and gaslighting.

RandDigital:
Why was Natasha trending worldwide? Because shes a woman and an exception in Nigerian politics. Why are there less than 5% women engaged in Nigerian high office? Either your women are really pathetic or Nigerian men pathetically insecure.

Don't tell me Nigerian women can enter politics of they want. That hogwash and gaslighting.

You can call it whatever you want, pal.

SmartyPants:
You can call it whatever you want, pal.

leave that southy woman alone, south Africans no the get sense, she no the pic your point. Na to protest about black foreigners them sabi

Na you wey go date charlie

Wetin Nkechi dey find with Ghana man