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What will make you meet girls for the first time on the road on different places and engage in discussion with them(like 3 of them) which they happily gave you their numbers with so much joy and lot of vibe inclusive and promise to respond to your messages when you get home. Only to get home and message these girls and they all snub me and I even tried calling and immediately they heard I’m the one they dropped the calls.

These girls are just so weird . I’m thinking why will a girl give you much conviction of wanting you for the first time and refuse to respond to your texts and calls?

Is there something I need to know here or I’m not getting here? Pls guys with OT shud help out

Kriximpecable:
What will make you meet girls for the first time on the road on different places and engage in discussion with them(like 3 of them) which they happily gave you their numbers with so much joy and lot of vibe inclusive and promise to respond to your messages when you get home. Only to get home and message these girls and they all snub me and I even tried calling and immediately they heard I’m the one they dropped the calls.

These girls are just so weird . I’m thinking why will a girl give you much conviction of wanting you for the first time and refuse to respond to your texts and calls?

Is there something I need to know here or I’m not getting here? Pls guys with OT shud help out

You should be happy they didn't chop your money first before showing you that their uselexxxx character

That's the way it is now bro.

Sonnobax15:
You should be happy they didn't chop your money first before showing you that their uselexxxx character

That's the way it is now bro.

like I was really shock they gave lot of energy and vibe and when I text them and calls they refuse to respond. These girls are so weird o

Okpa man meets okpa woman he cum dey complain.
Okpa

amancalledgodd:
Okpa man meets okpa woman he cum dey complain.
Okpa

Wetin you mean

And why will you go about collecting phone numbers from girls on the street , even calling them and getting upset when snubbed, if not that you stink of low self esteem.
Every day, you guys are on social media insulting ladies yet offline, you are chasing them.. tueh!

Kriximpecable:
Wetin you mean

He meant that you're an Okpa somborri

That is their way, they love playing games and hard to get. They might be interested but wants to prove stupid point

As much as we want to blame women, make we check ourselves too.

The same girl ignoring your calls may be somewhere giving another guy full attention. 😂

Getting her number is not the same as getting her interest.

The key is not to take it personally. Watch the feedback. If she's not reciprocating, no anger, no chasing, no overthinking.

Take the information and move.

Did you call them immediately after reaching home. Rushing the calls and texts might come to them as too needy. Give them some days as they might be living in the same place and trying to text your game if you are real or will crumble.

Be calm, give it some time and try again. If it's the same outcome. Move on with your integrity intact.

She gave you the general numbers, those are numbers she never picks

Kriximpecable:
What will make you meet girls for the first time on the road on different places and engage in discussion with them(like 3 of them) which they happily gave you their numbers with so much joy and lot of vibe inclusive and promise to respond to your messages when you get home. Only to get home and message these girls and they all snub me and I even tried calling and immediately they heard I’m the one they dropped the calls.

These girls are just so weird . I’m thinking why will a girl give you much conviction of wanting you for the first time and refuse to respond to your texts and calls?

Is there something I need to know here or I’m not getting here? Pls guys with OT shud help out

In this jet age wey man dey find money.

Abeg carry 2k enter ashawo house go throwaway akamu joor. Those ashi dey neat pass those random chewing gum girls on the street.

nnamdi640:
That is their way, they love playing games and hard to get. They might be interested but wants to prove stupid point

I can relate, like... it's so fvckin annoying. Na the ones u no like go dey rush u. Life no balance

Your mate are in SPDC making millions monthly while you are on the street collecting contacts hmmmmm Nairaland guys
Coming here to abuse girls but disgracing yourselves offline

Stop collecting number of a lady if she has not yet agreed to have sex with you. Ask her on the spot, if she says No, ignore her and move on.


Apart from sex, what else do you need her number for? And why 3 numbers at once? Planning an Orgy?

nnamdi640:
That is their way, they love playing games and hard to get. They might be interested but wants to prove stupid point

This stubborn isn’t necessary in this 2026
Not all guys have this patience

silibaba:
In this jet age wey man dey find money.

Abeg carry 2k enter ashawo house go throwaway akamu joor. Those ashi dey neat pass those random chew girls on the street.

Have you thought about contracting infection in the process ?

Figger:
I can relate, like... it's so fvckin annoying. Na the ones u no like go dey rush u. Life no balance

You really get the point bro

essentialone1:
Stop collecting number of a lady if she has not yet agreed to have sex with you. Ask her on the spot, if she says No, ignore her and move on.


Apart from sex, what else do you need her number for? And why 3 numbers at once? Planning a party?

Why will you just meet a girl for the first time and asking her for sex? It doesn’t make sense now

silibaba:
In this jet age wey man dey find money.

Abeg carry 2k enter ashawo house go throwaway akamu joor. Those ashi dey neat pass those random chew girls on the street.

Don't patronize Prostitites, you aren't different from those debased humans.

Diamond098454:
Your mate are in SPDC making millions monthly while you are on the street collecting contacts hmmmmm Nairaland guys
Coming here to abuse girls but disgracing yourselves offline

And who told you I’m broke? 😏

SeeWahala:
He meant that you're an Okpa somborri

Meaning of okpa somebody?

Diamond098454:
Your mate are in SPDC making millions monthly while you are on the street collecting contacts hmmmmm Nairaland guys
Coming here to abuse girls but disgracing yourselves offline

Are you working with SIDE? Are you earning millions if no why set examples for others that you cannot attain? Don't ladies work with SPDC? Since you are very serious with your life are you now working with SPDC? This nonsense attitude of broke shaming men when they express themselves is total babadash, have you ever said this to a woman woman who come online to voice her opinion on issues concerning her? When its for men that's where you know that people are working with SPDC. DROP YOUR SPDC APPOINTMENT LETTER LET'S KNOW YOU CAN PUT YOUR MONEY WHERE YOUR MOUTH IS.

Kriximpecable:
This stubborn isn’t necessary in this 2026
Not all guys have this patience

Someone like me don't have such patience, once I noticed that you are doing anyhow, I will free you,

silibaba:
In this jet age wey man dey find money.

Abeg carry 2k enter ashawo house go throwaway akamu joor. Those ashi dey neat pass those random chew girls on the street.

Exactly.

2k even too much.

For my area, 1k or even indomie and egg can lead a babe to knack u

Kriximpecable:
What will make you meet girls for the first time on the road on different places and engage in discussion with them(like 3 of them) which they happily gave you their numbers with so much joy and lot of vibe inclusive and promise to respond to your messages when you get home. Only to get home and message these girls and they all snub me and I even tried calling and immediately they heard I’m the one they dropped the calls.

These girls are just so weird . I’m thinking why will a girl give you much conviction of wanting you for the first time and refuse to respond to your texts and calls?

Is there something I need to know here or I’m not getting here? Pls guys with OT shud help out

😂😂😂
Why you rush go dey text them? I collected a girl's number and didn't text her, the next day we met, she started the convo, told her that I'll call her later in the day, she told me that I can't reach her through that line, she gave me another number, since then I've not called or texted her😁

ExudeLoveToAll:
Are you working with SIDE? Are you earning millions if no why set examples for others that you cannot attain? Don't ladies work with SPDC? Since you are very serious with your life are you now working with SPDC? This nonsense attitude of broke shaming men when they express themselves is total babadash, have you ever said this to a woman woman who come online to voice her opinion on issues concerning her? When its for men that's where you know that people are working with SPDC. DROP YOUR SPDC APPOINTMENT LETTER LET'S KNOW YOU CAN PUT YOUR MONEY WHERE YOUR MOUTH IS.

That's why it's important to financially stable guys not TO date broke or unemployed girls

Hello.

favour32:
That's why it's important for financially stable guys not date broke or unemployed girls

It has nothing to do with unemployed girls, the mentality made them to believe that men must chase and she must be running whether employed or not employed, they sees it as a pride but they forgot that all those shakara is limited

Diamond098454:
Your mate are in SPDC making millions monthly while you are on the street collecting contacts hmmmmm Nairaland guys
Coming here to abuse girls but disgracing yourselves offline

wow. That's harsh. What's SPDC? Maybe he doesn't have the same the same exposure or reach of the same so called mates. For all we know, he could be doing well for himself.

Not trying to defend his actions, but are you saying it's wrong that he approached them at all?