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A wedding I attended Saturday last week.
The bride and her elder sister got into shouting words over food sharing

Now me I humbly came to carry rice since we haven't eaten and I decided to go to the cooking area to do something before hunger kill me.

As I enter the mother of bride knows my mum so I greet her and she is happy to see me and ask about my mum
She said have I eaten I said no
U know how Igbo women are
She shouted to food caterers oya come and serve Oga food
I come dey feel like James bond.

Not to long the bride storms in and goes straight to the caterresa and starts shouting at them that her visitors haven't eaten BLA BLA Omo the elder sister told her to keep calm naso the bride face the elder sister next thing shouting begin
Almost lead to fight oo dem come dey calm the elder sis

Me I just carry my mountain of chicken and rice and. Japa before them use mistake push my plate fall.

But this got me thinking why is food always a point of quarrel and fights amongst women in occasions

I have never seen Men misbehave because of food in occasions

It's always women shouting and fighting because of food sharing im every occasions that I attended

Why must women fight each other whenever sharing if food in occasions

WHY??

With your rollinmathematics you still dey go party dey beg for food 😹🏃

RollinTNDA:
A wedding I attended Saturday last week.
The bride and her elder sister got into shouting words over food sharing

Now me I humbly came to carry rice since we haven't eaten and I decided to go to the cooking area to do something before hunger kill me.

As I enter the mother of bride knows my mum so I greet her and she is happy to see me and ask about my mum
She said have I eaten I said no
U know how Igbo women are
She shouted to food caterers oya come and serve Oga food
I come dey feel like James bond.

Not to long the bride storms in and goes straight to the caterresa and starts shouting at them that her visitors haven't eaten BLA BLA Omo the elder sister told her to keep calm naso the bride face the elder sister next thing shouting begin
Almost lead to fight oo dem come dey calm the elder sis

Me I just carry my mountain of chicken and rice and. Japa before them use mistake push my plate fall.

But this got me thinking why is food always a point of quarrel and fights amongst women in occasions

I have never seen Men misbehave because of food in occasions

It's always women shouting and fighting because of food sharing

Imalwayshorny:
With your rollinmathematics you still dey go party dey beg for food 😹🏃

Boy!!! It's called being proactive
Not staying there waiting to be served
You go wait till food finish

Any function you go to and you see people eating but you haven't eaten

You get up and do something
It's normal ettiquue nothing like begging

RollinTNDA:
Boy!!! It's called being proactive
Not staying there waiting to be served
You go wait till food finish

Any function you go to and you see people eating but you haven't eaten

You get up and do something
It's normal ettiquue nothing like begging

Lol Naso ooo

RollinTNDA:
Boy!!! It's called being proactive
Not staying there waiting to be served
You go wait till food finish

Any function you go to and you see people eating but you haven't eaten

You get up and do something
It's normal ettiquue nothing like begging

PROACTIVE PRO MAX 😂😂

I no fit forget wetin happen for my wedding cos of food matter, just a small wedding but the crowd that came 😩
Omoh naso food no reach some people, no be small wahala oo, my mum gats beg this people, give them rice and ingredients after the wedding before the matter calm, Kai!

Blaqbea:
I no fit forget wetin happen for my wedding cos of food matter, just a small wedding but the crowd that came 😩
Omoh naso food no reach some people, no be small wahala oo, my mum gats beg this people, give them rice and ingredients after the wedding before the matter calm, Kai!

I am yet to see a wedding where food was never the problem

RollinTNDA:
I am yet to see a wedding where food was never the problem

No matter how surplus food will be, some people will still tell you, they no see anything chop

Why should he kill her? He has to be jailed

Brides appear to be most rude on their wedding day. I've noticed this

I knw tinibu will be laughing,,,like mehnnn,
Na me dey run am

RollinTNDA:
I am yet to see a wedding where food was never the problem

we just have this thing with food which i dont understand

I haven't eaten today and there's absolutely no hope from any quarters

Nigeria too dey get bad elders that have zero self respect

The Proactive RollinTNDA

Food must always be a problem, because some saboteurs want to hijack the food. It could be the bride, family, caterers, audience, etc...

They don't know how it is done

Lol .. 🤣 mountain of chicken

Stephen0mozzy:
Brides appear to be most rude on their wedding day. I've noticed this

It's mostly due to being stressed out.

Her elder sister was supposed to calm her down, assuring her to handle things.

RollinTNDA:
A wedding I attended Saturday last week.
The bride and her elder sister got into shouting words over food sharing

Now me I humbly came to carry rice since we haven't eaten and I decided to go to the cooking area to do something before hunger kill me.

As I enter the mother of bride knows my mum so I greet her and she is happy to see me and ask about my mum
She said have I eaten I said no
U know how Igbo women are
She shouted to food caterers oya come and serve Oga food
I come dey feel like James bond.

Not to long the bride storms in and goes straight to the caterresa and starts shouting at them that her visitors haven't eaten BLA BLA Omo the elder sister told her to keep calm naso the bride face the elder sister next thing shouting begin
Almost lead to fight oo dem come dey calm the elder sis

Me I just carry my mountain of chicken and rice and. Japa before them use mistake push my plate fall.

But this got me thinking why is food always a point of quarrel and fights amongst women in occasions

I have never seen Men misbehave because of food in occasions

It's always women shouting and fighting because of food sharing im every occasions that I attended

Your story didn't suggest that they fought because of food.
Instead, they fought because of the bride's attitude of shouting at people.
She's most likely an impatient person and doesn't have a problem screaming at people at the slightest opportunity so the older sister had to tell her to calm down.

Come to think of it. At parties that's where you will see the true characters of many Nigerians .

1. Caterers want to rip people off
2. The celebrant got issues with some people , selective serving of food , greetings etc
3. In-laws showing themselves attitudes
Etc

But they quick to blame their leaders. Forgetting that the same leaders are products of this society.

For my own brother wedding ooo, na fast food I later go buy food chop

Mariangeles:
It's mostly due to being stressed out.

Her elder sister was supposed to calm her down, assuring her to handle things.

Omo the elder sister told her to keep calm naso the bride face the elder sister next thing shouting begin

She did. For most people, respect is non-negotiable, if you're stressed doesn't mean you'll talk anyhow to someone who is already sacrificing to be there for you.

She for go shout for her husband outside na, since she's stressed.

If you don't micromanage and you delegate aspects of the events to the right persons, you won't have to leave your bridal canopy come dey fight caterers for food sharing.

Orchestrated. Nothing to worry about.

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Stephen0mozzy:
She did. For most people, respect is non-negotiable, if you're stressed doesn't mean you'll talk anyhow to someone who is already sacrificing to be there for you.

She for go shout for her husband outside na, since she's stressed.

If you don't micromanage and you delegate aspects of the events to the right persons, you won't have to leave your bridal canopy come dey fight caterers for food sharing.

E dey the bride body then.

RollinTNDA:
A wedding I attended Saturday last week.
The bride and her elder sister got into shouting words over food sharing

Now me I humbly came to carry rice since we haven't eaten and I decided to go to the cooking area to do something before hunger kill me.

As I enter the mother of bride knows my mum so I greet her and she is happy to see me and ask about my mum
She said have I eaten I said no
U know how Igbo women are
She shouted to food caterers oya come and serve Oga food
I come dey feel like James bond.

Not to long the bride storms in and goes straight to the caterresa and starts shouting at them that her visitors haven't eaten BLA BLA Omo the elder sister told her to keep calm naso the bride face the elder sister next thing shouting begin
Almost lead to fight oo dem come dey calm the elder sis

Me I just carry my mountain of chicken and rice and. Japa before them use mistake push my plate fall.

But this got me thinking why is food always a point of quarrel and fights amongst women in occasions

I have never seen Men misbehave because of food in occasions

It's always women shouting and fighting because of food sharing im every occasions that I attended

Funny write up, Thats the way it is in a disorganised party, you cant attend a well organised party and stress about food, talkless of the bride getting into the thick of the action. Hustle oooo! Mke dem no fight ontop food for your wedding. Whereas you attend some weddings, that you will be the one to run for excessive feeding with all sorts & drinks.

Mariangeles:
It's mostly due to being stressed out.

Her elder sister was supposed to calm her down, assuring her to handle things.

I don't agree with you. Someone with bad character will display it anywhere.

Someone who's truly stressed out won't have the strength for vawulence.

From my experience, the bride and groom don't even know most things happening back stage. They have people running things for them.

On my marriage day me and my wife nor even know where our phones dey sef.....Na people hold the phones.

Women quarrel over food as men quarrel over drinks.

Op don go cus fight for person weeding because of food come they b blame elder sister

If no be Tinubu and he's stupid economic policies food for day cheap

Anyway January is not far