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Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by 10thTenthMan: 7:55am On Sep 18
Kalatium:
Let’s be honest. If someone offered the average man ₦100,000 for one sexual encounter, how many would genuinely walk away?

Men complain about women making money from sex, but many would happily collect the money if the market worked equally in their favour.

Sex has economic value because there is demand. Men generally create a much larger market for buying sexual access than women do, which gives some women a form of leverage that most men simply do not have.

Society then tells men that they are the ones “gaining” from sex while women are “losing” something. Yet money changes hands precisely because someone desperately wants what the other person has.

You cannot condemn the supply while pretending the demand does not exist.

If men were equally sought after as sexual sellers, we would probably see a very different conversation.

The market does not care about our moral arguments. It responds to demand, supply and willingness to pay.
Frankly, The low level of IQ individuals in Nigeria is very interesting.

Hahahaha... See all the idiocy in the very flawed argument. You guys just go to Satan knows where to grab useless notions and assume you have landed on something profound. Oya, let us even break this down.

That argument is only seemingly sounding smart, but it is foolish. Very foolish. actually pretty easy to poke holes in.

You said men would sell sex if they could make money. But "Haunty", there is already a market where guys get paid for that, and most straight guys say no way because they aren't interested in the people buying, or they think it's gross and an abomination. So, they wouldn't just happily just collect the money. Now listen carefully again...If men were actually jealous and just wanted the cash, they would be flooding the male escort market. Older wealthy men and women do pay guys for sex, but the average guy says no way. He doesn't want to do it, because his pride and his orientation matter more to him than money. It's not jealousy if you don't even want the job. Men are generally not as lazy or as dumb as women who majorly feel their vagina is a meal ticket.

Also are you aware that is even and also way more dangerous for women to live this lifestyle. Your argument acts like it is the exact same thing for a guy and a girl. It is not at all! It is way more dangerous for a girl to go meet a stranger for money. A guy doesn't have to worry about his safety the same way, so you can not compare them.

Most people people do care about their reputation. But here your argument fails because it assumes everyone only cares about cash. But men have been known to walk away and have walked away from that money because they have pride, they care what the world thinks and how they will live with themselves after.

Finally let me tell you something. First see how how lowly and how shallow you think. Listen, just because some yeye people want to buy something doesn't make selling something right!!! No! Saying things like "you can't blame the seller if people want to buy." makes zero sense. It is Olodo sense. NOW LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY.....People want to buy illegal drugs and stolen properties, but we still blame the people who sell them! So no, men are not jealous. And people who buy illegal goods do not always want to open their own illegal goods shops!

Only a foolish man will be envious of women because some men pay for their vaginas. And you be shocked that when it comes to dignity, men protect it more when a lot is at stake. Women on the other hand majorly feel entitled because they have a vagina.
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Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by Gerrard59(m): 10:40am On Sep 18
Host78:
This is pure lies bro.

A man envies other men fvckin a fine woman like Sophia and giving her money.
This is true.

No man envies Sophia because she gets money
Tell this to the hordes of young men on social media who lament about her expensive lifestyles.

I'm a young guy. You think if I see Sophia, I'll be wishing to be like her? I'm not gay bro.

I want to fvck her not imagine myself getting fvcked and paid. You see how gay that sound?
The issue here is that men, you and I, want to fvck someone like Sophia, but don't expect to pay. That's where the problem comes from - the belief that sex should be free. After all, men who are able to fvck and go, aka hit and run, boasts of I chop am. They don't often say this when the lady was paid, directly or indirectly.
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by Greenodds: 11:19am On Sep 18
10thTenthMan:
Frankly, The low level of IQ individuals in Nigeria is very interesting.

Hahahaha... See all the idiocy in the very flawed argument. You guys just go to Satan knows where to grab useless notions and assume you have landed on something profound. Oya, let us even break this down.

That argument is only seemingly sounding smart, but it is foolish. Very foolish. actually pretty easy to poke holes in.

You said men would sell sex if they could make money. But "Haunty", there is already a market where guys get paid for that, and most straight guys say no way because they aren't interested in the people buying, or they think it's gross and an abomination. So, they wouldn't just happily just collect the money. Now listen carefully again...If men were actually jealous and just wanted the cash, they would be flooding the male escort market. Older wealthy men and women do pay guys for sex, but the average guy says no way. He doesn't want to do it, because his pride and his orientation matter more to him than money. It's not jealousy if you don't even want the job. Men are generally not as lazy or as dumb as women who majorly feel their vagina is a meal ticket.

Also are you aware that is even and also way more dangerous for women to live this lifestyle. Your argument acts like it is the exact same thing for a guy and a girl. It is not at all! It is way more dangerous for a girl to go meet a stranger for money. A guy doesn't have to worry about his safety the same way, so you can not compare them.

Most people people do care about their reputation. But here your argument fails because it assumes everyone only cares about cash. But men have been known to walk away and have walked away from that money because they have pride, they care what the world thinks and how they will live with themselves after.

Finally let me tell you something. First see how how lowly and how shallow you think. Listen, just because some yeye people want to buy something doesn't make selling something right!!! No! Saying things like "you can't blame the seller if people want to buy." makes zero sense. It is Olodo sense. NOW LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY.....People want to buy illegal drugs and stolen properties, but we still blame the people who sell them! So no, men are not jealous. And people who buy illegal goods do not always want to open their own illegal goods shops!

Only a foolish man will be envious of women because some men pay for their vaginas. And you be shocked that when it comes to dignity, men protect it more when a lot is at stake. Women on the other hand majorly feel entitled because they have a vagina.
One chilled bottle of zobo for you. Preach brotherly
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by otipoju(m): 12:06pm On Sep 18
ReluctantAdult:
She's now based in Columbus, Ohio, with her family cry
Okay..life is an adventure.
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by Host78:
Gerrard59:
This is true.


Tell this to the hordes of young men on social media who lament about her expensive lifestyles.
I think your problem is seeing people say one thing and interpreting it differently. There are men and women who will lament even when rich people spend their money lavishly.

You've Seen that everywhere. That's not jealousy. That's not men being jealous of her. Those are people being people.

Or you want to say you haven't seen people bullying artist when they spend lavishly and show it online or do the same to pastors?

So why do you think Sophia case is so peculiar and only men are lamenting because she's making money in ways they cannot?

This is being disjointed from reality I must say

The issue here is that men, you and I, want to fvck someone like Sophia, but don't expect to pay. That's where the problem comes from - the belief that sex should be free. After all, men who are able to fvck and go, aka hit and run, boasts of I chop am. They don't often say this when the lady was paid, directly or indirectly.
Again another disjointed argument, devoid of reality.

Most men will gladly pay a prøstitute if she's a prōstitute and knows where she stands.

Do you not see prōstitutes getting paid their worth.? So where exactly are you getting the idea that men don't pay for that?

No man believes that sex should be free. In fact, paying money for sex has made it cheaper you can imagine.

I think this brings back one of DAX quotes "we know the price of everything, but not their worth"

Long before now, the only way a man can get sěx is to be either in a committed relationship or through marriage.

But now you get a few bands and you get as much sex as you want. Yes, there's a price now and men are paying but the worth is gone.

Yes, girls get a few coin here and there for the sex but at the end of the day, who wanna commit to her again? Who wanna start a family with her again?

So as a man, I wanna fvck Sophia. I'm willing to pay her to do this but that's all she's ever gonna be to any man, a sěx toy.

And for how long? You think guys will keep paying her in the next 10 years from now as they will keep providing for her if she was a wife?

Juliet Ibrahim did more than her a few years ago. Toke makinwa did. They were the hotties. But are there still men queuing up to buy lambo for them to chop them today?

By any means price yourself but don't throw the worth away because of a few digits on the screen.

Sěx has never been free. Men have been paying higher prices for sěx long before this money.

Look at your father or any married man today, sěx was the reason he kept a woman under his roof, clothes, protect and willing to die for her everyday of his life.

You think there's a man somewhere like that willing to do the same for Sophia? You think she's worth that? You think the money she's collecting in exchange for making herself so unworthy to a potential partner is worth that?

Look at omotola. You think she didn't have more option back in the day but chose do settle down instead?

There's a reason why prøstitutes and beggars are always at the bottom regardless of how much money they got.

It's called dignity. Honor. And when you're a beggar or prøstitude, no one expects those from you or even care to see that in you

So yeah, they get the money. They get the price but at the end of the day, their worth is gone
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by Nefort(m): 1:33pm On Sep 18
Goo0dHardDick:
Because men are desperate for sex and can do anything for it. Men don't pretend about it nor hide their sexual intentions at all since men are expected to make the first move. Unlike women! A woman will in most cases never tell you she wants sex!

Understand all these things! Women will rather stay on her own than to outrightly tell a man she wants sex! U know why? She doesn't want to be seen as loose!

A girl just chatted me now on WhatsApp and I immediately knew she's Hot and wants to come over to my house. This is how women expresses their sexual intentions
AI proves you wrong and and also proves that men need sex more than women.

Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by Dtruthspeaker: 1:40pm On Sep 18
Nefort:
AI proves you wrong and and also proves that men need sex more than women.
Do you not see that ai is just a microphone repeating what someone somewhere has said?

Meanwhile, all these things are things caused by women and initiated by women to make men and women desire sex
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by Nefort(m): 1:45pm On Sep 18
Dtruthspeaker:
Do you not see that ai is just a microphone repeating what someone somewhere has said?

Meanwhile, all these things are things caused by women and initiated by women to make men and women desire sex
It's not just a microphone. AI referenced a research carried out where men in general reported more sexual desire than women reported.
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by Dtruthspeaker: 1:53pm On Sep 18
Nefort:
It's not just a microphone. AI referenced a research carried out where men in general reported more sexual desire than women reported.
It is still microphoning what someone somewhere purportedly researched. Still a microphone
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by Nefort(m): 2:00pm On Sep 18
Dtruthspeaker:
It is still microphoning what someone somewhere purportedly researched. Still a microphone
How does it change the fact that more men in the research reported higher sexual desires than women? This research was carried out in the West where women are liberal and don't shy away from sexually expressing themselves.
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by Goo0dHardDick: 5:50pm On Sep 18
Nefort:
AI proves you wrong and and also proves that men need sex more than women.
AI just explained everything I said about above
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by Kelvinnchucks(m): 6:43pm On Sep 18
Oh wow. Someone actually turned the harmless comment I made into a thread.

Nice to see grin
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by kiddaz: 8:54pm On Sep 18
10thTenthMan:
Frankly, The low level of IQ individuals in Nigeria is very interesting.

Hahahaha... See all the idiocy in the very flawed argument. You guys just go to Satan knows where to grab useless notions and assume you have landed on something profound. Oya, let us even break this down.

That argument is only seemingly sounding smart, but it is foolish. Very foolish. actually pretty easy to poke holes in.

You said men would sell sex if they could make money. But "Haunty", there is already a market where guys get paid for that, and most straight guys say no way because they aren't interested in the people buying, or they think it's gross and an abomination. So, they wouldn't just happily just collect the money. Now listen carefully again...If men were actually jealous and just wanted the cash, they would be flooding the male escort market. Older wealthy men and women do pay guys for sex, but the average guy says no way. He doesn't want to do it, because his pride and his orientation matter more to him than money. It's not jealousy if you don't even want the job. Men are generally not as lazy or as dumb as women who majorly feel their vagina is a meal ticket.

Also are you aware that is even and also way more dangerous for women to live this lifestyle. Your argument acts like it is the exact same thing for a guy and a girl. It is not at all! It is way more dangerous for a girl to go meet a stranger for money. A guy doesn't have to worry about his safety the same way, so you can not compare them.

Most people people do care about their reputation. But here your argument fails because it assumes everyone only cares about cash. But men have been known to walk away and have walked away from that money because they have pride, they care what the world thinks and how they will live with themselves after.

Finally let me tell you something. First see how how lowly and how shallow you think. Listen, just because some yeye people want to buy something doesn't make selling something right!!! No! Saying things like "you can't blame the seller if people want to buy." makes zero sense. It is Olodo sense. NOW LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY.....People want to buy illegal drugs and stolen properties, but we still blame the people who sell them! So no, men are not jealous. And people who buy illegal goods do not always want to open their own illegal goods shops!

Only a foolish man will be envious of women because some men pay for their vaginas. And you be shocked that when it comes to dignity, men protect it more when a lot is at stake. Women on the other hand majorly feel entitled because they have a vagina.
You really schooled that empty individual. This thread really exposed a lot of them ã-gæ-gæ boys who secretly wish be women than man up to life's challenges.
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by Greenodds: 9:32pm On Sep 18
Nefort:
AI proves you wrong and and also proves that men need sex more than women.
AI will output whatever narrative it's owners want. You have a brain use it, ai isn't human.
Ask that same ai or a different ai for research that shows women need sex more than men and you'll get it.
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by Dtruthspeaker: 1:19am On Sep 19
Nefort:
How does it change the fact that more men in the research reported higher sexual desires than women? This research was carried out in the West where women are liberal and don't shy away from sexually expressing themselves.
The research failed to capture the fact we all see which is the man's desire for sex is caused by women positively initiating, stimulating and reminding him of sex as proven by the sex reminding clothes women wear everyday immediately you step out of the house.
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by Nefort(m): 12:19pm On Sep 19
Greenodds:
AI will output whatever narrative it's owners want. You have a brain use it, ai isn't human.
You are wrong. AI doesn't output whatever narrative it's owners want except some very sensitive and dangerous topics like asking it how to assassinate a president. This topic we are discussing is not something the creators of AI would want to interfere with because it is irrelevant.

Ask that same ai or a different ai for research that shows women need sex more than men and you'll get it.
This is exactly what AI did to get the answer it provided. AI already scanned all the available research carried out on this subject before arriving that final conclusion.
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by IbeOkehie:
Gerrard59:
Every man pays for sex, especially in prudish countries. Sex isn't free. The majority of men pay for sex via commitment, cash or kind. Only extremely handsome men and gym bros can get it for free.
No, every man doesn't pay for sex. That's a LIE and anyway the bolded is a true and necessary proviso that shows it's a lie. Free sex is becoming more common as the years roll by.

Over half of medical students in the USA for the past 10 years or so are female. Physicians likely have the top or nearly the top starting employee salaries in the USA. There's a good chance that a random female physician graduating today will marry a man earning a lower salary. It's not about male handsomeness alone, it's also about AVAILABILITY.

Data AND interviews and documentaries based on dating apps make this abundantly clear...they show that women place their highest premium on men who are TALL, then there's income of over 100K and must be physically good looking & physically fit.

Only 0.8% of men in the USA have all 3 of those qualities. The LOWEST pay for a physician is $200K/yr, so where will a FEMALE physician find a mate who earns MORE and is ALSO tall and handsome? cheesy Even women with a beauty rating of 7/10 earning the HOUSEHOLD median income will find it hard to secure a man who will pay for sex....whether by commitment or having more money than her. She might be the one paying when all is said and done.

There's a flux in society. The sexual market has evolved and is changing rapidly. There's a lot more that people need to be aware of. The key is that EDUCATED women are likely to be able to fend for themselves financially and THEREFORE place a lesser emphasis on ECONOMIC resources while looking more for HANDSOMENESS. This is very evident among HIGHER EARNING women in Nigeria. Seriously, what will a female oil & gas engineer earning ₦70 million per year be looking for and what are her chances of getting it?

And as for BEAUTY & HANDSOMENESS, JUST REMEMBER...beautiful people have a MUCH HIGHER propensity to carry sexually transmitted diseases. The reason is simple - they have more sexual partners and those partners also tend to have the ability to get more sex. So it's a merry go round of disease.

There's also this thing about testosterone pushing men to desperately seek sex. Well, male testosterone levels are FALLING precipitously and there's a general perception in the USA at least that men are no longer chasing women as they used to. Low birth rates confirm it. Surely the LEGAL LANDSCAPE also figures into this. Darwin is calling. Yes, evolution is a thing. shocked

Anyway, good bye.

Good Luck to Nigerians!
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by Gerrard59(m): 8:26am On Sep 20
IbeOkehie:
No, every man doesn't pay for sex. That's a LIE and anyway the bolded is a true and necessary proviso that shows it's a lie. Free sex is becoming more common as the years roll by.

Over half of medical students in the USA for the past 10 years or so are female. Physicians likely have the top or nearly the top starting employee salaries in the USA. There's a good chance that a random female physician graduating today will marry a man earning a lower salary. It's not about male handsomeness alone, it's also about AVAILABILITY.

Data AND interviews and documentaries based on dating apps make this abundantly clear...they show that women place their highest premium on men who are TALL, then there's income of over 100K and must be physically good looking & physically fit.

Only 0.8% of men in the USA have all 3 of those qualities. The LOWEST pay for a physician is $200K/yr, so where will a FEMALE physician find a mate who earns MORE and is ALSO tall and handsome? cheesy Even women with a beauty rating of 7/10 earning the HOUSEHOLD median income will find it hard to secure a man who will pay for sex....whether by commitment or having more money than her. She might be the one paying when all is said and done.
The above stats are true, but many high-earning women still gravitate towards men who earn similarly or slightly above. The number of high earning women who marry low earning men, while rising slowly, is very low. In fact, what high earning and educated women do is marry similar high-earning men who aren't as educated as they are. The key term here is: finance. In Nigerian parlance, a female oil worker marrying a rich trader at Onitsha market. I have written about it in my diary section. The consensus amongst high earning and educated women is that they will rather remain single for life if they don't find men who earn as much as they do (the high rate of single educated and earning good incomes over 30 corroborates this). They have bent the rule in the education requirement, but the finance requirement is still there. You cannot fight biology.

There's a flux in society. The sexual market has evolved and is changing rapidly. There's a lot more that people need to be aware of. The key is that EDUCATED women are likely to be able to fend for themselves financially and THEREFORE place a lesser emphasis on ECONOMIC resources while looking more for HANDSOMENESS. This is very evident among HIGHER EARNING women in Nigeria. Seriously, what will a female oil & gas engineer earning ₦70 million per year be looking for and what are her chances of getting it?
The first paragraph has been cleared in my first response. As for the female oil and gas engineer, she remains single, especially if she is Igbo. The exception might lie in the north or west, where tradition and religion hold greater sway. Do you really think in this day and age, an Igbo woman who works in the O&G industry will gladly marry a man she out-earns by >500%? lol

And as for BEAUTY & HANDSOMENESS, JUST REMEMBER...beautiful people have a MUCH HIGHER propensity to carry sexually transmitted diseases. The reason is simple - they have more sexual partners and those partners also tend to have the ability to get more sex. So it's a merry go round of disease.
True. Basic biology, as they attract more partners.

There's also this thing about testosterone pushing men to desperately seek sex. Well, male testosterone levels are FALLING precipitously and there's a general perception in the USA at least that men are no longer chasing women as they used to. Low birth rates confirm it. Surely the LEGAL LANDSCAPE also figures into this. Darwin is calling. Yes, evolution is a thing. shocked
All are true, but do not really apply to sub-Saharan Africa. I believe that testosterone levels are still high across SSA.

Good to see you here again.

Regards as usual, Mr Ibe!
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by IbeOkehie:
Gerrard59:
(1) The number of high earning women who marry low earning men, while rising slowly, is very low.

(2) In fact, what high earning and educated women do is marry similar high-earning men who aren't as educated as they are.


(3) You cannot fight biology

(4) Good to see you here again.

Regards as usual, Mr Ibe!
(1) It's rising fast, not slowly. Because the AVAILABILITY of high(er) earning men is simply not there.

We discussed a WSJ article on a booming job sector in the USA. I got the sense that the women interviewed all earned more than their husbands. How about you?

I often mention physicians because they're a clearly INDISPUTABLE example of very high earners that I also know personally. And I've given you evidence.

Well let me tell you something...I started counting...most of the female pharmacists I know earn more than their husbands or partners. There's one that just got married a month ago. The guy is/was a office stationary supply guy...he goes to places that supply printer paper and pens etc and delivers to small businesses.

The female pharmacist loves him. Her parents insisted that she couldn't marry such a lowly fellow..the thing dragged on for YEARS. So he went to nursing school school, graduated this year 2026,and they got married this summer. And she still earns more grin This na for my family church o, Nigerians or should I say Igbo people are crazy!

(2) Not true...this one I'm telling you was NOT my observation during my jakpada to Nigeria. Education, metro-sexual vibes and obvious high intellect are VERY, VERY, IMPORTANT to all university educated women in Nigeria. The ones earning average middle class money might compromise, but the very high earning women WILL NOT.

(3) O gini o!!!! I can't believe you wrote this. Oga come on now! Contraceptives, condoms, abortions, anti-biotics for many STDs.

Legal risk in the West has battled against testosterone and WON to the extent that women are now begging to be chased again. Legal jeopardy has REDUCED the measured levels of testosterone in the nations of the West...heellloooooo!?!

The ultimate victory over nature will be artificial wombs or incubators. By the way...right now...in real life...I have a good Nigerian male friend..very rich, single, unmarried..who is having a child by surrogacy. He dates beautiful women o, but the RISK is something he decided to mitigate. I think I mentioned to you..maybe on Nairaland... that he was exploring the process. He even reads what I write here, yes.

I advised him to use Nigeria but he's actually doing it right here in the USA.

I know...and I'm sure many diasporans on nairaland know of....MANY Nigerians that have used surrogacy, IVF, trans uterine(huh) insemination etc to fight nature..and WIN.

Biology has already lost the fight. At least in the USA where the White Man can do research, invent and build.

(4) You're a major reason I come here. You're terrible, your intellectual provocation is just...aaarrrrggggghhhh!!!! You're the best 👌


Good Luck to Nigeria.
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by Gerrard59(m): 3:02pm On Sep 20
IbeOkehie:
(1) It's rising fast, not slowly. Because the AVAILABILITY of high(er) earning men is simply not there.

We discussed a WSJ article on a booming job sector in the USA. I got the sense that the women interviewed all earned more than their husbands. How about you?

I often mention physicians because they're a clearly INDISPUTABLE example of very high earners that I also know personally. And I've given you evidence.

Well let me tell you something...I started counting...most of the female pharmacists I know earn more than their husbands or partners. There's one that just got married a month ago. The guy is/was a office stationary supply guy...he goes to places that supply printer paper and pens etc and delivers to small businesses.

The female pharmacist loves him. Her parents insisted that she couldn't marry such a lowly fellow..the thing dragged on for YEARS. So he went to nursing school school, graduated this year 2026,and they got married this summer. And she still earns more grin This na for my family church o, Nigerians or should I say Igbo people are crazy!
Thanks for narrating your experiences.

(2) Not true...this one I'm telling you was NOT my observation during my jakpada to Nigeria. Education, metro-sexual vibes and obvious high intellect are VERY, VERY, IMPORTANT to all university educated women in Nigeria. The ones earning average middle class money might compromise, but the very high earning women WILL NOT.
So very high earning women, which are in the minority in the country as well as diasporan returnees. And this was when you returned (pre-GEJ/during Jonathan).

(3) O gini o!!!! I can't believe you wrote this. Oga come on now! Contraceptives, condoms, abortions, anti-biotics for many STDs.
They treat the diseases, not stop them. Remember, you said beautiful women and handsome men are susceptible to STD/Is because of their increased number of sexual partners.

And as for BEAUTY & HANDSOMENESS, JUST REMEMBER...beautiful people have a MUCH HIGHER propensity to carry sexually transmitted diseases. The reason is simple - they have more sexual partners and those partners also tend to have the ability to get more sex. So it's a merry go round of disease
Legal risk in the West has battled against testosterone and WON to the extent that women are now begging to be chased again. Legal jeopardy has REDUCED the measured levels of testosterone in the nations of the West...heellloooooo!?!
No wonder fertility rates have nose-dived. Well, let's see what policymakers would do next. Force men to chase and marry women, even at the risk of their finances being affected?

The ultimate victory over nature will be artificial wombs or incubators. By the way...right now...in real life...I have a good Nigerian male friend..very rich, single, unmarried..who is having a child by surrogacy. He dates beautiful women o, but the RISK is something he decided to mitigate. I think I mentioned to you..
Yes. That is the killer arrow against nature. Once that happens, both genders won't need the other for procreation, but it will be a dystopian world. Already, women are utilising semen from sperm banks to have children who would not know their fathers and are at risk of growing up without a father figure.

I still support the two-parent household, especially as a man, and then vasectomy to prevent more children. Children are expensive to raise, not just monetarily, but time-consuming.

I know...and I'm sure many diasporans on nairaland know of....MANY Nigerians that have used surrogacy, IVF, trans uterine(huh) insemination etc to fight nature..and WIN
While this is true, interestingly, the narrative is that they perform these operations in Nigeria (private hospitals) because of the long waiting lines and complex procedures to have them in the West.

(4) You're a major reason I come here. You're terrible, your intellectual provocation is just...aaarrrrggggghhhh!!!! You're the best 👌
The pleasure is mine, Mr Ibe. Warm regards.
Re: Men Are Low Key Jealous Of Women’s Sexual Leverage by IbeOkehie:
Gerrard59:
Thanks for narrating your experiences.

While this is true, interestingly, the narrative is that they perform these operations in Nigeria (private hospitals) because of the long waiting lines and complex procedures to have them in the West.


The pleasure is mine, Mr Ibe. Warm regards.
As I'm sure I've told you, my wife and I used fertility services/procedures for one of our kids. There was NO waiting list and we did it in one of the best hospitals in the USA. And yes, many diasporans use services in Nigeria...I think...no, I know...it's because of the COST and also less complicated legalities than MAY be required in the West.

But check out this one that popped up in my feed. I don't know if it's appropriate but here goes -

https://nypost.com/2026/09/19/lifestyle/san-francisco-tech-exec-mocked-for-cringeworthy-list-of-dating-non-negotiables/

That's a 29 year old who says she her own "years of dating experience" inspired her to create her list of demands for suitors grin

This one has likely been through an army of men, got her emotions all messed up and who knows how many STD's and now wants to set rules for a mugu to come fix her crap. grin

Thank goodness men are wising up. She's gonna need to pay for a man, is what I'm betting. She won't be the first.

Good Luck to Nigerians.
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