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DoubleFaith: My dear, he/she can. It is a simply taking the decision, displine yourself and stay dedicated to it. It is only VERY difficult and a slim possibility of staying dedicated, but it is possible.

Yes it is possible for one to change wit displine and that was why I said "may not be able". Meaning it is still possible dat with all d displine he's got, he still may not be able to change himself!

Am actually stressing dis cos of dis statement

DoubleFaith: They believe they can change him/her.
But the Bad News is you cant. He/She alone can.

Except for this, I agree with all u said.

The issue is that people don't want to come to terms that no one is perfect that is why relationships fail people keep believing they will meet d perfect person, the question is are U perfect. everyone has his or her own short comings..infact u don't get to know some one well during courtship until after marriage. If u want to have a good relationship and marriage go in with a heart of forgiveness,trust and knowing that no one is perfect.

[quote author=Mynd_44]yes dude, only books and your imaginations of course[/quote]uuuuuuummmmmmmmmmm hhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

[quote author=Mynd_44]Perfect conditions only exist in books.........[/quote]Similie man, Similie. (...and that is 'Like' playing it taking Physics into account).
This is simply in concurrence of what you earlier said, that 'you cannot go into a relationship with the belief that your partner is going to change cos that is like playing a Russian Roulette'
and I said it's like playing it ('Russian Roulette) taking Physics into account (and I explained).
Perfect conditions in machine is ONlY theoritical and NEVER practical.

DoubleFaith: Similie man, Similie. (...and that is 'Like' playing it taking Physics into account).
This is simply in concurrence of what you earlier said, that 'you cannot go into a relationship with the belief that your partner is going to change cos that is like playing a Russian Roulette'
and I said it's like playing it ('Russian Roulette) taking Physics into account (and I explained).
Perfect conditions in machine is ONlY theoritical and NEVER practical.

yaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Kosigift: Yes it is possible for one to change wit displine and that was why I said "may not be able". Meaning it is still possible dat with all d displine he's got, he still may not be able to change himself!

Am actually stressing dis cos of dis statement

Except for this, I agree with all u said.

I concur, 'may not be able'.

Yield: Hmm, got me thinking again, lol.

Lol. A positive thinking will do. But seriously to me it is just as simple as that.

DoubleFaith: Similie man, Similie. (...and that is 'Like' playing it taking Physics into account).
This is simply in concurrence of what you earlier said, that 'you cannot go into a relationship with the belief that your partner is going to change cos that is like playing a Russian Roulette'
and I said it's like playing it ('Russian Roulette) taking Physics into account (and I explained).
Perfect conditions in machine is ONlY theoritical and NEVER practical.

Okay

Yield: SLIDE waxie, you need to read my post again.
If you didn't understand what I was getting at, all you had to do was ask, not make assumptions.

i think u are the one getting me wrong dear yield. In ur comment, ur last statements were questions that i simply ask u not to consider if u av realised dt the behavior is in d gene.
Got it, swt@?

SLIDE waxie: i think u are the one getting me wrong dear yield. In ur comment, ur last statements were questions that i simply ask u not to consider if u av realised dt the behavior is in d gene.
Got it, swt@?

Not every behaviour is genetically-rooted. Some behaviours stem from genes, while others arise due to environmental factors. There is a difference between nurture and nature. The latter is the focus here. Nowhere in my post did I say that the behaviours were influenced by genetics. You're making assumptions and jumping ship.

Yield: Not every behaviour is genetically-rooted. Some behaviours stem from genes, while others arise due to environmental factors. There is a difference between nurture and nature. The latter is the focus here. Nowhere in my post did I say that the behaviours were influenced by genetics. You're making assumptions and jumping ship.

jo ma bumi o

[quote author=Mrs..Chima]My last comment still remains.[/quote]LOL stubborn Mrs. Chima.
where u @?

[quote author=*Kails*]LOL stubborn Mrs. Chima.
where u @? [/quote]I here.

DoubleFaith: It is the bitter truth that most people 'in love' dont want to hear. They believe they can change him/her.
But the Bad News is you cant. He/She alone can.

Well some things you can change and some you can't. It's just really bad when you find yourself trying to change something about yourself that is at the core of who you are to satisfy your partner. In cases like that you just end up breeding resentment towards the person.

SLIDE waxie: jo ma bumi o

But I didn't say anything na. Pele.

[quote author=Mrs..Chima]I here.[/quote]chim chima, who got the keys to my bimma?

True2myself24:
Well some things you can change and some you can't. It's just really bad when you find yourself trying to change something about yourself that is at the core of who you are to satisfy your partner. In cases like that you just end up breeding resentment towards the person.

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