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As I write av kind of lost interest in almost everytin, a lot has happened to me lately and its looking like y is God allowing this happen to me? Growing up av tried to live right to the best of my ability, I can't place a finger on where I cld hav gone wrong. I dint go to church today just absorbed in my thoughts.Does God really care for me? has my prayers reached him? does he know that.somewhere in Nigeria someone is gradually loosing her mind? does he know me? by this time last year I had everytin working for me but everytin in my life is gradually going down the drain. have u ever felt this way before? or am I having a wrong feeling? am so depressed right now

Yes....I've been there


Take heart. Depression is not easy.

There is no God to help you. Only yourself. That is what I realised. Better to do something than wait for a miracle

You have to strive to be happy.
Tell yourself that you can be successful and happy
Try to be around people that make you happy
Try and make a plan for your life.


Heaven helps those who help themselves

TheBigUrban2: Yes....I've been there


Take heart. Depression is not easy.

There is no God to help you. Only yourself. That is what I realised. Better to do something than wait for a miracle

You have to strive to be happy.
Tell yourself that you can be successful and happy
Try to be around people that make you happy
Try and make a plan for your life.


Heaven helps those who help themselves

tenk u so much

I have been there wit u even nw. Am so depress and confused. I dont knw how to pray again i dont knw how to keep mouth and pray. Am confused. But i still believe in God. Just try and be ur self. Ok. We will smile one day i believe so.

There is nothing strange in what you are going through, it is a phase in spiritual growth. Search for the words 'tests' and 'trials' and see how many times it was used in the Bible. Your Christianity isn't complete without it. Check all the great Bible characters and you will find it in all of them.

Btw, in our various places of work, we go through some trainings or accomplish some difficult task before landing that enviable promotion, how then do you want to have spiritual promotion without some tests and trainings?

Be calm, the end will be glorious. I have been there a couple of times and the result didn't disappoint.

spicykev: tenk u so much

No tanks.
That's exactly what the devil intend doing. Bring you to this point and then feed you the wrong info.
Reflect on the times you've experienced God's goodness, be grateful for them and believe in His unchanging nature. That's what God wants you to do now. He wants you to learn how to trust. If you've seen his hand before, you will surely see it again

mployer:
There is nothing strange in what you are going through, it is a phase in spiritual growth. Search for the words 'tests' and 'trials' and see how many times it was used in the Bible. Your Christianity isn't complete without it. Check all the great Bible characters and you will find it in all of them.

Btw, in our various places of work, we go through some trainings or accomplish some difficult task before landing that enviable promotion, how then do you want to have spiritual promotion without some tests and trainings?

Be calm, the end will be glorious. I have been there a couple of times and the result didn't disappoint.

infact this God commenting. More greases of grace to your elbow bro.

spicykev:
As I write av kind of lost interest in almost everytin, a lot has happened to me lately and its looking like y is God allowing this happen to me? Growing up av tried to live right to the best of my ability, I can't place a finger on where I cld hav gone wrong. I dint go to church today just absorbed in my thoughts.Does God really care for me? has my prayers reached him? does he know that.somewhere in Nigeria someone is gradually loosing her mind? does he know me? by this time last year I had everytin working for me but everytin in my life is gradually going down the drain. have u ever felt this way before? or am I having a wrong feeling? am so depressed right now

Yes, I've heard similar thoughts and feelings of abandonment in the midst of tough circumstances. One of the lessons I've learnt so far is that all things work together for the good of those that love God. In fact, if one doesn't face tough situations sometimes, it may be time to ask if that person loves God. Times like these can bring you closer to God and help you shed excess baggage that you don't need in your life. I'll encourage you to find a good believer or minister to pray with you and silence the part of the opposition coming from the enemy. I did that for a sister yesterday. She felt good after the prayers and knew she had been delivered. She even sent a text today declaring and celebrating her deliverance. Please read and meditate on Deut. 4:30-31. If God could not abandon OT folks, He won't abandon us.