₦airaland Forum

chaircover:
Its not all about financial. The fact that a man has a big supporter and fan in his wife and he comes back home to a warm, happy, clean, peaceful home in the evening does attribute positively to his life and alows him to focus on being successful. . . .

same for the woman too. if you have a man who supports you and beleives in you, your success is much easier to acheive.

nenergy:
Successful women have plenty men in their lives
*Disclaimer*
1. This piece is not in any way inferring that women need men to succeed.
2. By MEN, i am not insinuating sexual relations.
3. This piece is not a matter of FACT. It is an observation, an opinion.

A female friend recently told me that; “she’s glad she knows me”. Why? Well, it was part of her Ode in appreciation for my assistance whenever she needed it. From helping with laptop/phone issues to helping with job search and being her personal Google.

Men play vital roles in the lives of women; as fathers, brothers, uncles, cousins, school mates, crushes, mugus, magas, lovers, pastors, assignment boyfriends, neighbourhood acquaintances, university degree project assistants, NYSC camp body guards, NYSC PPA pals, job search advisors/assistants etc

At every point in a woman’s life there is always a MAN willing to offer her assistance (voluntarily or with a motive). It is the major reason most girls prefer male friends/company to their other females. They can gist about E! News and Kim Kardashian with their girlfriends, but when it is time for ‘business’, they know who to approach.

Considering all of these, i am of the opinion that the more MEN in a woman’s life, the higher her chances and speed of success.
Successful women are women with plenty MEN in their lives. These MEN contribute to her success.

n.b: Before you attack me, please read my disclaimer again.

Yours Faithfully,
Nenergy
Author; The Job Seekers’ Creed™

Sanguine77:
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You can say that again. Most of the people who call me for one issue or another are ladies. Health issues, relationship, job, religion, current affairs even during job interviews and examinations. I do my bit for them and most of them do appreciate both in the short and long run... Send me your acct details, I wanna spoil you a little, I want to appreciate you etc. The womenfolk are not bad afterall.

nenergy:
Successful women have plenty men in their lives
*Disclaimer*
1. This piece is not in any way inferring that women need men to succeed.
2. By MEN, i am not insinuating sexual relations.
3. This piece is not a matter of FACT. It is an observation, an opinion.

A female friend recently told me that; “she’s glad she knows me”. Why? Well, it was part of her Ode in appreciation for my assistance whenever she needed it. From helping with laptop/phone issues to helping with job search and being her personal Google.

Men play vital roles in the lives of women; as fathers, brothers, uncles, cousins, school mates, crushes, mugus, magas, lovers, pastors, assignment boyfriends, neighbourhood acquaintances, university degree project assistants, NYSC camp body guards, NYSC PPA pals, job search advisors/assistants etc

At every point in a woman’s life there is always a MAN willing to offer her assistance (voluntarily or with a motive). It is the major reason most girls prefer male friends/company to their other females. They can gist about E! News and Kim Kardashian with their girlfriends, but when it is time for ‘business’, they know who to approach.

Considering all of these, i am of the opinion that the more MEN in a woman’s life, the higher her chances and speed of success.
Successful women are women with plenty MEN in their lives. These MEN contribute to her success.

n.b: Before you attack me, please read my disclaimer again.

Yours Faithfully,
Nenergy
Author; The Job Seekers’ Creed™

Joavid:
Smh. I cannot believe all this is coming from you.
I see that Nigerian men will forever be jealous and intimidated by successful women and thereby cook up all kinds of stories to dent their image.

All of a sudden Alakija slept with a lot of politicians for her oil blocs and linda ikeji blog was shut down by google because she was sleeping around?

And you have no idea how insulting it is to refer to a woman by her private part. Wtf is "three fresh punnanies"?
Don't you have some kind of respect?
Do you have women in your family??

Smh!

ocheu:
As a lady if you are ugly u are on ur own. Some ladies spend months beautifying themselves because know man will like to help an ugly babe even in job interviews and so rest of it.

Adyrin:
Pls don't mind dat unfortunate son of a leprous beast!

Hi haters, keep hating

Acidosis:
Very true (without exempting the power of private parts).



But for those wey get sense, they employ female marketers to keep up with the corporate bedmatics

Alakija is a case study.That woman has been linked with some Nigerian politicians - bed wise. When a politician decide to give out an oil bloc to a woman, you should know "how well the man has dug the bloc"

Even Linda Ikeji is not innocent. In her own case, I believe she has bedmatic marketers warning the bed of her paymasters. Wonder why her blog was suspended? Reason is not far fetched, oyinbo nor dey take nonsense, most do not mix pu**** with business.

Assuming the owner of google is a Nigerian, trust me, 3 fresh punnanies will restore that blog in 30 minutes.

Acidosis:
Lol

Keep deceiving yourself

Have you ever heard/seen a situation where male students sleep with female Leturers for grades?

You guys just love deceiving yourselves. Nigerian men (MOST) can hardly render any meaningful help to a woman without an ROI.

Your insult is so lame. Come up with something better

joanpinkie:
Your foolishness is nauseating! To think that you can come out publicly to accuse some sucessful women without fact is the hight of foolishness. People are sued on daily basis for defamation, slander .
Take a clue from what happened to Linda and shout the hell up if you have nothing nice to say.

thandii1:
And models are you own standard for successful women? Did okonjo, late dora, adedavoh, mo'abudu, rita dominic, maupe ogun, omotola, chimamanda, chidinma, the female consultants, engineers, lawyers and a host of them in the corporate world also use their bodies to succeed. Did your own mum(if successful anyway) sleep her way to wherever she is? You are so myopic and shallow and it baffles me that you take pride in it. Were you there when alakija was sleeping her way to the top. Hypocritical christian! Sit in that poverty corner of your and keep yapping thrash about successful women.

Sunshinelady:
. Can u see how u r spewing ur ignorance , stupidity & low IQ all over d thread? Ur comments are even DEGRADING men! U said 'hav u ever seen male students sleeping wit female lecturers for grades' NO. Dats because most female lecturers won't stoop so low as to sleep with students. But d male lecturers many atimes go ahead to threaten female students with multiple carryovers if dey don't agree to sleep with dem. Dey don't even mind sleepin with girls yung enof to be their granddaughters. Now secondly u said , 'most men hardly render any useful help to women witout requestin 4 sx'. Now wit dese above statements of urs aint u indirectly saying dat men are more or else shameless animals? Please u pple shuld leav all dese women dat toiled to make names 4 demselves & find ways to deal with ur disgu.stin libidos

Acidosis:
You are a big f00l! We have different definitions to the word "succesful"

...and yes! My mom got herJob after getting married to my Dad. Tell us about your mom f00l!

You mentioned names as if you know the roles they played in their youthful years. 'Who see' Chiamanda or whatever u call her will assumed she never slept with any man in her life. Quit talking rubbish


Let them speak! They should come and tell us their stories.

Mind u, I never said ALL women are involved in this business.

Sunshinelady:
. My dear eh? I feel like giving dat d.unce a dirty slap

The last time I insulted a lady (year 2009), she cried for 3days. Please do not start what you cannot complete.

Arty2014:
Op you are right .....it is true that a successful woman has at one point or the other got a man or men sticking out for her( fighting off male challengers and telling her her what to do)
These men are human and must behave " like men" that is they must demand for sex,intimacy from this woman
Good news is she doesn't have to give in.( most ladies give in out of fear and shear stupidity)
In the right environment a woman who is qualified and has her hands(eyes)on the plough doesn't have to and shouldn't sleep with any man to get ahead in life.
Help must come to everyone (even men too) God designed it so,take the help as honorably as you can and leave out the sex........or so I think

Acidosis:
Very true (without exempting the power of private parts).



But for those wey get sense, they employ female marketers to keep up with the corporate bedmatics

Alakija is a case study.That woman has been linked with some Nigerian politicians - bed wise. When a politician decide to give out an oil bloc to a woman, you should know "how well the man has dug the bloc"

Even Linda Ikeji is not innocent. In her own case, I believe she has bedmatic marketers warning the bed of her paymasters. Wonder why her blog was suspended? Reason is not far fetched, oyinbo nor dey take nonsense, most do not mix pu**** with business.

Assuming the owner of google is a Nigerian, trust me, 3 fresh punnanies will restore that blog in 30 minutes.

Acidosis:
Very true (without exempting the power of private parts).



But for those wey get sense, they employ female marketers to keep up with the corporate bedmatics

Alakija is a case study.That woman has been linked with some Nigerian politicians - bed wise. When a politician decide to give out an oil bloc to a woman, you should know "how well the man has dug the bloc"

Even Linda Ikeji is not innocent. In her own case, I believe she has bedmatic marketers warning the bed of her paymasters. Wonder why her blog was suspended? Reason is not far fetched, oyinbo nor dey take nonsense, most do not mix pu**** with business.

Assuming the owner of google is a Nigerian, trust me, 3 fresh punnanies will restore that blog in 30 minutes.

sandijey:
My dear, u have said it all. The problem is women who are even qualified indulge in it out of fear, poverty and lack of options. I am yet to see any man that will help a woman climb the ladder of success for free. Its not only happening in naija. Even abroad. I must say I have first hand info about most successful women in naija. They might seem brave now to a lot of novice but they all have a past. For this reasons, I have narrowed my definition of a successful woman to someone who never ate grass. Someone who was always in grace. Someone that has a background. Someone that has name. Ultimately someone who comes from a family that is ok, those kind of successful women hardly have stories. They really don't have any reason to sleep their way to the top because of their family influence.


But u see most of this women wey no get name and no get money from the beginning and became successful. They can never tell u everything. We just see the surface but she will not tell u about the molest. Etc. Not even talking about popular women. Just women who are bosses in different organisations. Even if the woman is brilliant. At a time, her promotion will be hanging on a foolish man's desk. When she gets promoted, novices will say she got there because she has always been exemplary. Lol. They will not no her struggle and pain......

It's a bad thing but that's the reality on ground. It will not change any time soon and it might get worse. Nobody is totally sure of anything. Na my own story sure pass
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sandijey:
My dear, u have said it all. The problem is women who are even qualified indulge in it out of fear, poverty and lack of options. I am yet to see any man that will help a woman climb the ladder of success for free. Its not only happening in naija. Even abroad. I must say I have first hand info about most successful women in naija. They might seem brave now to a lot of novice but they all have a past. For this reasons, I have narrowed my definition of a successful woman to someone who never ate grass. Someone who was always in grace. Someone that has a background. Someone that has name. Ultimately someone who comes from a family that is ok, those kind of successful women hardly have stories. They really don't have any reason to sleep their way to the top because of their family influence.


But u see most of this women wey no get name and no get money from the beginning and became successful. They can never tell u everything. We just see the surface but she will not tell u about the molest. Etc. Not even talking about popular women. Just women who are bosses in different organisations. Even if the woman is brilliant. At a time, her promotion will be hanging on a foolish man's desk. When she gets promoted, novices will say she got there because she has always been exemplary. Lol. They will not no her struggle and pain......

It's a bad thing but that's the reality on ground. It will not change any time soon and it might get worse. Nobody is totally sure of anything. Na my own story sure pass
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Acidosis:
You are a big f00l! We have different definitions to the word "succesful"

...and yes! My mom got herJob after getting married to my Dad. Tell us about your mom f00l!

You mentioned names as if you know the roles they played in their youthful years. 'Who see' Chiamanda or whatever u call her will assumed she never slept with any man in her life. Quit talking rubbish


Let them speak! They should come and tell us their stories.

Mind u, I never said ALL women are involved in this business.

Frankestein08:
With all the comments I see coming from the guys, I now understand why women move for feminism & it's sad some guys still berate the female gender

Joavid:
Smh. I cannot believe all this is coming from you.
I see that Nigerian men will forever be jealous and intimidated by successful women and thereby cook up all kinds of stories to dent their image.

All of a sudden Alakija slept with a lot of politicians for her oil blocs and linda ikeji blog was shut down by google because she was sleeping around?

And you have no idea how insulting it is to refer to a woman by her private part. Wtf is "three fresh punnanies"?
Don't you have some kind of respect?
Do you have women in your family??

Smh!

Sunshinelady:
. See how agitated u are cos dey mentioned ur mum, but here u are mentioning oda peoples' mums/sisters/daughters. My dear from ur earlier statements we hav to decipher that its either ur mum is unsuccessful or she is successful wit strings of bedmates. Dats it! U can't swallow ur words now, sori!

carefreewannabe:
@bold

carefreewannabe:
@bold

007gal:
That is all BS. And what about men? Men who had nothing and became something, what pain must they have gone thru to get there in hands of women? The OP's message is clear. Men need women and women need men. That's why God created us as complementary to each other. I am not in anyway supporting promiscuity whether in men or women. But I do not agree with you that all successful women got to their position somehow through sleeping their way to the top. It happens but trust me.. even those women who do that are not DUMB and CLUELESS. At a point I think guys like to prove they are in charge by strong arming women into sex to show dominance and control.
Having said that, my point is, NOT all successful women with a poor background fall for that. Sheer hardwork and prayers work.. FUNNY ENOUGH tho.. it's getting increasingly difficult as the days become more wicked. Integrity is becoming a rare commodity.

I NEED A MAN and am sure A man needs me ..

Joavid:
Smh. I cannot believe all this is coming from you.
I see that Nigerian men will forever be jealous and intimidated by successful women and thereby cook up all kinds of stories to dent their image.

All of a sudden Alakija slept with a lot of politicians for her oil blocs and linda ikeji blog was shut down by google because she was sleeping around?

And you have no idea how insulting it is to refer to a woman by her private part. Wtf is "three fresh punnanies"?
Don't you have some kind of respect?
Do you have women in your family??

Smh!