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*was on fp before d tsunami*


scenario 1

u and ur wifey had a quarrel just before sleeping.
backing eachother, lights off.. u doze a little only to be woken up by her giggling.. her phone lights on.. chats beeping.
wetin u go do?


scenario 2.
just like scenario 1. ur hubby.. laughing hard reading chats way past midnight.
what would u do?

My husby wouldn't be soo jobless at that time.

Elantracey:
My husby wouldn't be soo jobless at that time.

hehehe.. r u sure?.. habits before marriage doesnt necessarily change after marriage.. if he chats in the night before nko?

i would ban it o.. landlines in d bedroom only.. for family members like parents incase of an emergency.. smartphones on d dining table inside a ceramic bowl.

kilokeys:
hehehe.. r u sure?.. habits before marriage doesnt necessarily change after marriage.. if he chats in the night before nko?

i would ban it o.. landlines in d bedroom only.. for family members like parents incase of an emergency.. smartphones on d dining table inside a ceramic bowl.

lol , am sure o , but who will he be chatting with self ?

Elantracey:
lol , am sure o , but who will he be chatting with self ?

thats d curiousity that would make it maddening... there is an issue on ground already.. God help u if u r at fault.. no liver to ask him who he is chatting with

kilokeys:
thats d curiousity that would make it maddening... there is an issue on ground already.. God help u if u r at fault.. no liver to ask him who he is chatting with

I pray o , I can't even date someone that can't show me his chat because I'll do thesame , the first thing I look out for in a relationship is trust in all areas , I pray say I nor fit ask am o.

Elantracey:
My husby wouldn't be soo jobless at that time.

I sure hope u are saying that because u are already married!

justmag:
I sure hope u are saying that because u are already married!

lol , am not

Elantracey:
My husby wouldn't be soo jobless at that time.

I sure hope u are saying that because u are already married!

Elantracey:
lol , am not

Oops! i still get hope.

Lol well I already said it. Its jes to kee him for it, that's all.

destante:
Lol well I already said it. Its jes to kee him for it, that's all.

hehehehe.. u dont have to kill anybody na.. why not just make d rule.. no smartphones on d bed.

kilokeys:
*was on fp before d tsunami*
scenario 1
u and ur wifey had a quarrel just before sleeping.
backing eachother, lights off.. u doze a little only to be woken up by her giggling.. her phone lights on.. chats beeping.
wetin u go do?
scenario 2.
just like scenario 1. ur hubby.. laughing hard reading chats way past midnight.
what would u do?

Why should scenario 1 bother you?

kilokeys:
hehehehe.. u dont have to kill anybody na.. why not just make d rule.. no smartphones on d bed.

and then he goes to the living room to continue giggling?

EfemenaXY:
Why should scenario 1 bother you?

dunno.. o. but i am sure i am nt d only guy who wouldnt feel slighted..
women sha.. u know how u roll.. even if it wasnt funny they would still laugh and sigh. to make d guy madly jealous abi na jealously mad

kilokeys:
dunno.. o. but i am sure i am nt d only who wouldnt feel slighted..
women sha.. u know how u roll.. even if it wasnt funny they would still laugh and sigh. to make d guy madly jealous abi na jealously mad

Then such a guy is just an insecure little boy whose got no business getting married in the first place.

EfemenaXY:
Then such a guy is just an insecure little boy whose got no business getting married in the first place.

u think?

destante:
and then he goes to the living room to continue giggling?

no breakfast d next morning na

u would tell him to download a 50kb picture of toast and coffee.. hehehe.

kilokeys:
u think?

I know.

kilokeys:
no breakfast d next morning na

u would tell him to download a 50kb picture of toast and coffee.. hehehe.

tenku vely much jor.

EfemenaXY:
I know.

so ignoring would have beem d best way to handle it?.. what do u suggest?

kilokeys:
so ignoring would have beem d best way to handle it?.. what do u suggest?

Ignoring what?

Them two pinging, lwkmd-ing, rotflmao-ing, and lol-ing past midnight?

Or the argument they had earlier?

EfemenaXY:
Ignoring what?

Them two pinging, lwkmd-ing, rotflmao-ing, and lol-ing past midnight?

Or the argument they had earlier?

the pinging... as an excuse nt to settle..
couples dont always wanna admit guilt at all times even when its clear... there is always a quiet phase and still moment where re bonding occurs..

kilokeys:
the pinging... as an excuse nt to settle..
couples dont always wanna admit guilt at all times even when its clear... there is always a quiet phase and still moment where re bonding occurs..

And that's precisely what I meant by saying such people (especially the man), have no business getting married in the first place.

destante:
and then he goes to the living room to continue giggling?

Can you do without your smartphone?

kilokeys:
the pinging... as an excuse nt to settle..
couples dont always wanna admit guilt at all times even when its clear... there is always a quiet phase and still moment where re bonding occurs..

I fail to see why a grown up man or woman will prefer to give the silent treatment by "pinging" rather than communicate to settle whatever conflict they have.

Does it make sense?

It will rather create room to more conflicts.

davide470:
Can you do without your smartphone?

lol I can't. so does that now mean he should go chatting and giggling with some other women while we quarrel at bed time. Or is it men he wants to be giggling with at that time?