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abeautifulchick:
Hi guys,i just said yes to my boyfriend of 2 years but i still have doubts because there are some of his characters that i dont want in a husband.E.g The fact that he makes business and money a priority over me and so on.Should i go ahead and marry him or i should quit the relationship now that i still can? Will he ever change?

pickabeau1:
is that the only character flaw you observed

abeautifulchick:
Hi guys,i just said yes to my boyfriend of 2 years but i still have doubts because there are some of his characters that i dont want in a husband.E.g The fact that he makes business and money a priority over me and so on.Should i go ahead and marry him or i should quit the relationship now that i still can? Will he ever change?

coogar:
would you have said yes if he is a poverty-stricken bicycle repairer?

Tallesty1:
What do women want?

abeautifulchick:
Yes.What matters most to me is love.

Tallesty1:
What do women want?

They actually don't know

abeautifulchick:
That is the one that hurt me most and he can even abandon me just for a drink with his friends e.g he have abandoned me at the airport once with heavy luggages and said i should pick a cab just because he was busy hanging out with his friends.But he gives me almost anything i asked for financially.

Tallesty1:
What do women want?

MarvellousGod:
We cherish attention and the op's guy seems not to be giving her that.....

naijaboiy:
Op don't tell me you want to marry a poverty stricken man

Take a chill pill

abeautifulchick:
That is the one that hurt me most and he can even abandon me just for a drink with his friends e.g he have abandoned me at the airport once with heavy luggages and said i should pick a cab just because he was busy hanging out with his friends.But he gives me almost anything i asked for financially.

coogar:
will he kill himself?
if he concentrates too much on attention, he will be broke. he's a young man - he's making hay while the sun shines. na "attention" go pay brideprice? will "attention" pay bills?

MarvellousGod:
We cherish attention and the op's guy seems not to be giving her that.....

coogar:
will he kill himself?
if he concentrates too much on attention, he will be broke. he's a young man - he's making hay while the sun shines. na "attention" go pay brideprice? will "attention" pay bills?

coogar:
will he kill himself?
if he concentrates too much on attention, he will be broke. he's a young man - he's making hay while the sun shines. na "attention" go pay brideprice? will "attention" pay bills?

pickabeau1:
So he abandoned you once and you believe that he does not care about you
He may be a pragmatic fellow that feels it is better to spend 50 dollars than spend 500 dollars in traffic

Time is money

One more question

Are you working or a student

abeautifulchick:
Hi guys,i just said yes to my boyfriend of 2 years but i still have doubts because there are some of his characters that i dont want in a husband.E.g The fact that he makes business and money a priority over me and so on.Should i go ahead and marry him or i should quit the relationship now that i still can? Will he ever change?

Sophyrocks:
My sister, the bolded isnt a good sign. Anything you know you cannot deal with or succcessfully live with for the rest of your life, do not accept when dating. But lemme guess, you ignored all these because of what you get from him. And now that he has proposed, you suddenly remembered that he has flaws. You could have raised this issue while getting to know him and see if he could make changes. You are funny o.

MarvellousGod:
So making money while still giving his gf necessary(not excessive) attention will kill him?? Ain't there rich guys who give their wives attention? how can he prefer staying out with friends to spending time with his Fiancee?? That's not a good sign because he may keep late nights after marriage. .

Op, are you boring a person? ? Just figuring why he may not be spending much time with ya

MarvellousGod:
what are you saying? ? so because the man has money, she should overlook all his flaws?? is he the only rich guy??


op, don't know what to tell you really. .. didn't you see this flaw all along or you were enjoying his cash? ... Have tried talking to him about how you feel??

Cut that Bullshit no lady will marry any man who is poor...including the Op.


If the man loves her too much and he is poor,,she wont marry him.

Now he is hustling for their betterment and she is complaining

You women are confused

BABE3:
you dey mind them. Small girls.
If you don't want to put up with a broke man, you have to put up with a busy man.

For all we know, his "friends" could be business associates. Even if there're not, what's the big deal in taking a cab (not even danfo) home from the airport? It's not like she'll carry the "heavy" bags on her head; and the man will still foot the cab bill anyway.

coogar:
there is no rich man who sits down at home dishing out attention unless he's 50+. young men go out there to make what they can before age starts slowing them down. money/career should take priority over any woman.



OP is probably an oliver twist.
she admitted she gets whatever she wants & yet she still wants his time. she forgets that time is what has been providing the things she has been getting.

Spot on

abeautifulchick:
That is the one that hurt me most and he can even abandon me just for a drink with his friends e.g he have abandoned me at the airport once with heavy luggages and said i should pick a cab just because he was busy hanging out with his friends.But he gives me almost anything i asked for financially.

MarvellousGod:
We cherish attention and the op's guy seems not to be giving her that.....