₦airaland Forum

hey what do you do when you let an insignificant person mess up the trust your partner has for you?
you know we ladies some of us are lucky and we have wonderful and faithful men, its women like this who end up messing things up with some irrelevant men who you know have no good intention for you, and then when you get caught you're sorry and regretful but at the end of the day its equal to one thing, you're either faithful or you're not cos you've planted this seed of doubt in his heart and depending on what u do subsequently it either dies or grows. pls what can we do when you'd made THE mistake

They would definitely not forget the betrayal and lash out at you once in a while, but you have to pray that they would find it in their heart to forgive you and not seek revenge, and that time will heal their wound

Forgiveness is divine, if he hurts u, forgive, if he does too, forgive again, afterwards any other mistake, shut him out of life forever because this means, he will never change!

Pray to God.
Do dry fasting.
For the grace to stand him because for love,he can forgive but forget?
Build a ladder to heaven!
Cos he will need the time if it will ever return to normal!

Too Bad,
Just bear whatever happens, but believe you me, it;d b best to let go,
He'll never trust u again

[color=#9900ff]I think you probably best have to try to work and regain some level of trust.
Hope that overtime, the trust will be strong again.
But most importantly never again give your partner cause to suspect and doubt you.
Never again put your partner in that situation where he/she has to question you.
Learn to follow your intuition and think things through first before making a decision you are prepared to live with no matter the consequences.


Personally once the trust is hurt it's almost impossible to work past that. [/color]

@Czarskit its easy for you to say cos you're a guy but when you love a person truly and he's willing to forgive you no matter what you do, i think i'
d let lve trule and not let go cos it'shard to and i don't wanna
@iice thanks for the advice i'd pay it mind
@moneyrule funny but do you think its really gonna be like that?
k so all of y'all thanks for your words of advice and encouragement, and for those girl like me out there be careful, you might just have one shot at him, if you're gonna lose him make sure you're sure to get something better out there

Yeah!!
No over-exagerration involved,he is going to need lots of time and yes as iice stated,total calculation b4 actions on your part not 2 give him any reason to doubt you!
Personally, i think it's a very very long shot! It's possible but baby girl,the trust shouldn't have been let down in the first place!

Bitchhhh!

Youngpo413:
Bitchhhh!

darlin

Agielove:
Forgiveness is divine, if he hurts u, forgive, if he does too, forgive again, afterwards any other mistake, shut him out of life forever because this means, he will never change!

Shey you no read the post?. The post dey talk about when girl hurt her guy, see as your mind dn carry you go to the guy hurt the girl. Change o.