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1) The more attractive the woman, the more likely
she will be approached by the kind of man who
approaches attractive women. This kind of man
views hunting, seducing and conquering women
as sport.
2) To a hunter, a woman’s body is a commodity;
he wins the game by getting her into bed. To a
nice guy, a woman’s body is a sacred treasure;
he wins her heart by honoring who she is as a
person.
3) Hunters view women as nothing more than
prey. By definition, nice guys are missing the
“seducer” gene; even if they knew how to “play
the game,” their conscience would never allow
them to sweet-talk and manipulate a woman for
their own selfish interests.
I think men talk to women so they can sleep with
them and women sleep with men so they can talk
to them.
4) Seducers are more likely to suffer from the
disorder known as IAAMATT (It’s All About Me All
The Time). Nice guys are more likely to be
empathetic, nurturing and other-centered.
5) A woman turns to makeup and fashion to
boost her self-esteem and make herself more
desirable to men. Yet ironically, the more
beautiful she makes herself, the better her
chances of attracting the wrong type of guy.
6) The more attractive the woman, the less likely
she will be approached by the kind of man who is
good in relationships. Conversely, the less
attractive the man, the less likely he will approach
a woman who is far more attractive than he is.
That said, are there nice guys who are attractive
enough and/or courageous enough to ask out a
beautiful woman? Certainly. But they are a rare
breed.
7) The kind of man who values emotional
intimacy often looks at a beautiful woman and
thinks, “She’s out of my league.” That is the
overwhelming reason why so many women are
wondering why nobody (or at least nobody worth
going out with) ever asks them out. Essentially,
seducers view a woman’s beauty as an invitation;
nice guys view it as a deterrent.
When a beautiful woman gets fed up that only
hunters are approaching her and decides to turn
the tables by approaching a nice guy, she may be
turned off by the reception she gets. In her mind,
she’s just striking up a normal conversation. It
doesn’t occur to her that she’s catching him off
guard, and that even though he’s trying to listen
to her, her words aren’t registering because his
head is spinning from the fact that a beautiful
woman is unexpectedly talking to him. The
experience can be so foreign and disorienting that
he comes across as a stammering fool. Patience
here can pay off, for nice guys often have good
relationship potential once the initial shock wears
off.
9) Since beautiful women are only approached by
hunters, they understandably think that most, if
not all, men treat women the way that hunters do.
Meanwhile, the nice guys sit in the back of the
room and admire her from afar. Of course,
identifying the nice guys isn’t that simple; a man
may be quiet and reserved, but just because he
doesn’t act like a seducer doesn’t mean he
doesn’t aspire to be one. The wolf in sheep’s
clothing is just one more obstacle on the path to
finding Mr. Right.
10) When a beautiful woman repeatedly
experiences the same pattern with one hunter
after another, she understandably expects that
pattern to continue. Frustrated, she may close
herself off emotionally to all men, eliminating any
chance a nice guy may have of connecting with
her in a meaningful way. In this way, her fear of
never finding the right guy can become a self-
fulfilling prophecy.
11) If a woman wants to be swept off her feet by
a man who would also make a good lifetime
partner, she is apt to be disappointed. The kind of
charmers who are sweep-her-off-her-feeters are
often the polar opposite of the kind of men who
are good in relationships.
12) A nice guy is primarily relationship-oriented;
he may first be attracted to a woman’s external
beauty, but it is her internal beauty he values
most highly. A hunter is exclusively achievement-
oriented; he does not value what a woman thinks,
says or feels; all that matters is that she has a
woman’s body and he wants to get his hands on
it.
13) Beautiful women often confine nice guys to
the Friend Zone. A nice guy’s worst nightmare is
hearing those nine soul-crushing words, “But I
think of you as just a friend.” Many happy couples
have built relationships on the bedrock of solid
friendship, so perhaps it may be wise to rethink
what makes good partner material and be open to
finding it from unexpected sources. Which brings
up the question: Can men and women truly be
friends? Yes, but only if neither of them has any
romantic interest in the other. If even one of them
is harboring hopes of romance, the friendship will
reach critical mass sooner rather than later, at
which point the friendship must either dissolve or
transition into a relationship.
14) If and when a hunter decides to “retire” from
hunting and get married, he chooses a woman he
can possess for her beauty, not one he can build
an emotionally intimate partnership with. What so
many admiring men and envious women fail to
see is that, throughout a woman’s entire life, her
beauty can be as much a curse as it is a
blessing.
15) Women who are less attractive to the type of
men who only pursue attractive women are more
likely to have higher-quality interactions with
men. Why? Nice guys are often more comfortable
asking out and authentically communicating with
women who they feel are more likely to agree to
go out with them.
The 15 reasons above are daunting enough but
they’re based on beauty alone. What if the
beautiful woman in question is also brilliant and a
successful high achiever? Yep, timid nice guys
would view her as even more intimidating and
unapproachable. Ah, but in Mr. Right’s eyes,
those qualities would make her even more
perfectly beautiful.....

or wot d'u tink

Incase

My brother it is too long

On point bro Op.

Beauty at times could be mis-leading.

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Cholls:
My brother it is too long

Lazy hunter

Pprovost:
Lazy hunter

my brother why do u think i use money($)

I believe one major reason why some superficially beautiful ladies have issues finding 'Mr right' is that to some of them 'Mr right' is expected to ride on a white horse with his shiny armour and gigantic sword which he had used to slay the dragon that guarded the gates to her castle but such men are only found in movies and story books.

Where can I find a nice guy?
I need one in my life who will love & respect me.

Op, you're just saying one thing; the higher the physical attractiveness, the lower the chances of finding Mr. Right. Summary for lazy readers.

Ehhhnnn :| ok now i know

Metcoppo:
Where can I find a nice guy?
I need one in my life who will love & respect me.

They are everywhere... but you don't notice them easily. Hunters will not let you see them or reason their matter

Chiamaka01:
Op, you're just saying one thing; the higher the physical attractiveness, the lower the chances of finding Mr. Right. Summary for lazy readers.

Lolz...Cholls this is for you

Pprovost:
Lolz...Cholls this is for you

my brother ok

Mr right ---» mr second best---» mr right now---»mr anything

Many beautiful gals let it (beauty) get into their heads. Sadly, that's the only thing most of them have to offer.
I would rather marry an average looking gal that Will give me peace of mind.

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