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naijababe:
'I admit, I didn't see your previous post' would be nicer but heck that's asking for too much now. And saying you are presumptuous when you are is now an insult too?

Go in peace too and God's speed while you are at it.

Jahblessme:
How do you know the kind of woman she is?
S ex is actually really enjoyable ,is it only cheating men that enjoy s ex? Or you think if she finds a fresh blokos to give it to her well she won't enjoy it?
So you think that if she wants to knack she won't protect herself as per condom? Std ko std ni..tell that to the useless men

Op do whatever makes you happy..if its to massage a stray banana to keep you sane,enjoy.Especially as you won't leave.
All na temptation...go and sin no more

urheme:
are you serious

madcow1 pls be honest, will this work or it may likely work

answer sharper...ly
I may be transferring all my effects to madcow1

Abeg free me o!!


Make your boo come start to hunt me like rabbit..

pickabeau1:
Frankly I did not see your post and your aforementioned post has no relevance to the post you mentioned...

All I said was simple..if women come up to demonise naija men as cheats because they r not exposed or being around other nationalities.. You should know better ...suddenly I'm presumptive?


Same to you...Godspeed

pickabeau1:
Frankly I did not see your post and your aforementioned post has no relevance to the post you mentioned...

All I said was simple..if women come up to demonise naija men as cheats because they r not exposed or being around other nationalities.. You should know better ...suddenly I'm presumptive?


Same to you...Godspeed

naijababe:
Amen. And I am the one throwing insults ? Why some of you are so darn defensive is what I don't get?

majekdom2:
the issue the lady even brought up is not about naija men, I never supported cheating. If its cheating is exclusive to NAIA ten bill Cosby who is having a tough time now, tiger woods, David beck ham , bill Clinton , Francois Hollander must all have their roots from nigeria.

babyosisi:
Divorce settlements

Dmitry Rybolovlev's divorce from Elena Rybolovleva; estimated at $4.5 billion
Alec Wildenstein's divorce from Jocelyn Wildenstein; estimated at $2.5 billion [1]
Bernie Ecclestone's divorce from Slavica; estimated at $1-$1.2 billion [2]
Harold Hamm estimated at $1 billion [3]
Adnan Khashoggi's divorce from Soraya Khashoggi; estimated at $850 million [4]
Craig McCaw's divorce from Wendy McCaw; estimated to exceed $460 million [5]
Mel Gibson's divorce from Robyn Moore Gibson; estimated at $425 million [6]
Roman Abramovich's divorce from Irina Abramovich; estimated at $300 million [7]
Michael Polsky's divorce from Maya Polsky, $184 million [8]
Michael Jordan's divorce from Juanita Jordan; estimated at $168 million [9]
Boris Berezovsky's divorce from Galina Besharova; estimated at $160 million [10]
Neil Diamond's divorce from Marcia Murphey; estimated at $150 million [11]
Frank McCourt's divorce from Jamie McCourt; estimated at $130 million [12]
Garth Brooks' divorce from Sandy Mahl; estimated at $125 million [13]
Charles Edgar Fipke's divorce from Marlene Fipke; estimated at $123 million [14]
Greg Norman's divorce from Laura Andrassy; estimated at $103 million [15]
Rupert Murdoch's divorce from Anna Murdoch; estimated at $100 million [16]
Tiger Woods' divorce from Elin Nordegren; estimated at $100 million [17]
Steven Spielberg's divorce from Amy Irving; estimated at $100 million [18]
Madonna's divorce from Guy Ritchie; estimated at $76-$92 million [19]
Harrison Ford's divorce from Melissa Mathison; estimated at $85 million [20]
Kevin Costner's divorce from Cindy Silva; estimated at $80 million [21]
Kenny Rogers divorce from Marianne Rogers; estimated at $60 million [22]
Kelsey Grammer's divorce from Camille Grammer; estimated at $60 million [23]
James Cameron's divorce from Linda Hamilton; estimated at $50 million [24]
Paul McCartney's divorce from Heather Mills; estimated at $48.6 million [25]
Michael Douglas' divorce from Diandra Douglas; estimated at $45 million [24]
Ted Danson's divorce from Casey Coats; estimated at $30 million [26]
Donald Trump's divorce from Ivana Trump; estimated at $25 million [27]
Lionel Richie's divorce from Diane Richie; estimated at $20 million [24]
Johnny Carson's divorce from Joanna Holland; estimated at $20 million
Mick Jagger's divorce from Jerry Hall; estimated between $15 and $25 million [24]
ReferencesEdit

zoelife:
Hmmm, dis matter strong o. I've followed this post till dis point and I came to 2 conclusions. Its either Men learn and start deciding to stop cheating (on their own, not because women now cheat too). Or, the women will have to accept it as always (will we?) Its really sad!

babyosisi:
Good faith thread is not about gold diggers and gigolos
It a about a man comfortable in cheating who deserves a cheating wife also
Why does that make you uncomfortable
A woman should not be cheating abi and you spending time telling us how the woman will be dumped
Is the dumper the only man in town?
One ends she moves on to another and dumps some herself just like her husband
He is also getting dumped and dumping some

At the end of the day they are still in the marriage
Any woman with a cheating husband ought to have the balls to also cheat rather than die in silence
That is my summary

happywife:
I need advice on how to cope with a cheating husband.

I have always suspected that my husband was cheating on me but confirmed it recently when i found some condoms were missing from our home n his bank statement showed payment for a hotel when i was away on a short trip .when i confronted him his stories ranged from his friend took it to i was mistaken in my counting n to i went to the room but changed my mind n left without doing anything. but his behaviour showed he was sorry for about 2 weeks then back to normal. problem now is i cant bring myself to trust him n my love for him is reducing daily.when he comes home late from work or doesn't take my calls all i can think about is that he is with another woman. To be honest it's killing me slowly cos i find myself calling him n quarrelling with him constantly.

I dont think i can leave him cos he cheated on me cos lets face it most men do i just need advice on how to cope with my emotions cos i m soo unhappy n its affecting every area of my life . Sometimes i feel like paying him in his own coin but i m a one man kind of babe.

I just want to concentrate on my kids now but how do i cope with being suspicious all d time n being jealous n bitter n a whole lot of emotions thats killing me.

happywife:
I need advice on how to cope with a cheating husband.

I have always suspected that my husband was cheating on me but confirmed it recently when i found some condoms were missing from our home n his bank statement showed payment for a hotel when i was away on a short trip .when i confronted him his stories ranged from his friend took it to i was mistaken in my counting n to i went to the room but changed my mind n left without doing anything. but his behaviour showed he was sorry for about 2 weeks then back to normal. problem now is i cant bring myself to trust him n my love for him is reducing daily.when he comes home late from work or doesn't take my calls all i can think about is that he is with another woman. To be honest it's killing me slowly cos i find myself calling him n quarrelling with him constantly.

I dont think i can leave him cos he cheated on me cos lets face it most men do i just need advice on how to cope with my emotions cos i m soo unhappy n its affecting every area of my life . Sometimes i feel like paying him in his own coin but i m a one man kind of babe.

I just want to concentrate on my kids now but how do i cope with being suspicious all d time n being jealous n bitter n a whole lot of emotions thats killing me.

bukatyne:
I do not have anything against Nigeria; I am a proud Nigeria ( I am glad I was born a Nigerian .. Lara George)

I have issues against some Nigerian way of life

2 different things

I am sure other nationalities have their issues too however, I am only concerned with Nigeria

GoodFaith:
I am not against Nigerian women because I have seeing how my sisters support their husband
I am against bad Nigerian women that was not raise with high values and morals
There are lot of bad B out there

pickabeau1:
Have u gone to other forums aside NL

have u interacted closely with other nationalities

A prophet is not welcome in his home

At times it seems u hate everything nigerian

First u make fun of nigerian god, nigerian bible, nigerian men...

Just like the nigerians in diaspora who hate everything back home once they are opportuned to leave the shores of naija

GoodFaith:
"Just like the Nigerians in diaspora who hate everything back home once they are opportuned to leave the shores of naija"
Nigerians in diaspora-- Over the last 15 years the Nigerians in diaspora values are = to the Nigerian back home

pickabeau1:
I don't get you

GoodFaith:
The mentality of Nigerians in diaspora is so backward, it is a shame, Call me Dr. with PHD, Call me Sir, Eng

GoodFaith:
The mentality of Nigerians in diaspora is so backward, it is a shame, Call me Dr. with PHD, Call me Sir, Eng

Please where is Diaspora?! It seems like alot of Nigerians live there.


Thanks..

naijababe:
Okay, let's do this. Hillary could not have left because she was not senator when Bill was cheating with Monica, leaving at that time would have spelled the end of her political ambition. Hillary is some serious bad ar5e and I love the woman to death. She was intent on forging a political career of her own outside of being first lady. Leaving would have meant scuppering the opportunity to serve as senator, run for the highest office in the country and then go on to serve as Secretary of state. She did not leave because it was not smart do so.

Victoria did not leave because the Spice girls were musically dead when David cheated, all she was at the time was former a former Spice girl now married to global icon in football. David's career outside of football was just beginning to pick up, modelling contracts were pouring in, his move to Spain was beginning to pay off big time, she had to stand by him, they had both been working hard to make it happen, why would she let David off that easily and walk away from everything she had worked so hard for? Compare David's net worth in 2001 or whenever it was that he cheated to now. Victoria's fashion career did not take off until they moved to the US, I am pretty sure being David's wife did not hurt, so you need to get your timelines right mate.

Ray Parlour's divorce cost him his career, dude was so badly messed up by it that he could not even do anything outside of football again, even he must be regretting cheating and then going on to marry his 'new chassis model'. Ray's wife had nothing to lose, there was no career to be messed up.

pickabeau1:
Lol
They r more Nigerian than they care to admit
Anyhow......there is room for improvement for everyone

MadCow1:
Please where is Diaspora?! It seems like alot of Nigerians live there.


Thanks..

SirShymex:
First, I already said let's leave Monica Lewinsky cos that was the most publicised scandal. After Lewinsky, Bill Clinton cheated with Liz Hurley, and a host of other women afterwards when Hillary became a senator and never needed him anymore for her political career. She was the first lady of AK, first of lady of USA, and was a senator. And according to reports, she was aware of aware of everything cos Bill has always been a playboy, but still never left him. Also, as for running for the highest office and going on to serve as Secretary of State - she never needed Bill Clinton's status for both. Her resumes speaks for itself. Some would even argue that Bill Clinton did hurt her chances, and will forever do, cos there's still a lot of animosity against his tenure and all the scandals.

Spice girls were musically dead (in terms of hit records) but still relevant with a huge fan-base, especially Victoria Beckham. She had a decent solo career and was also into fashion world. Heck, Mel B is still eating off Spice girls. And nah, David Beckham wasn't a footballing icon before Victoria Beckham. He was just a decent footballer that was great with dead balls - and he was hated in the UK cos of the id.iotic red card against Argentina at the 1998 world cup. He was the Frank Lampard of that era. His stock grew after Victoria Beckham,and she made him a brand and a household name. That was when he started attending fashion shows and fraternising with folks in the fashion and entertainment world. And he subsequently moved to Real Madrid where he consolidated on that. Also, Real Madrid didn't buy him because of his footballing talents either (Beckham was never a great footballer - he was a decent one with great dead balls, just a better version of David Bentley) - it was because of the Beckham brand outside football for marketing, which was induced by Victoria. Also, Victoria Beckham first moved to the US in like 2001/2002 before Beckham went there...and got like a huge deal. I still remember she did a few things with Damon Dash and Rocawear back then, when Damon Dash was on-top of the world. She ditched all that after David Beckham scandal.

You just made my point for me by citing Ray Parlour. They could've done the same thing, to destroy their husbands, but they never did that. Now let's throw Ashley Cole and Cheryl Cole in there. And bear in mind that Girls Aloud was a bad bootleg version of Spice Girls, that never left the UK in terms of fan base. How has that affected Cheryl Cole's brand or status? - not even one bit. Heck, she's still waxing stronger. So, the argument about Victoria Beckham staying because she was trying to protect her brand is just illogical.

Onegai:
Sigh. I will speak only on the case that I saw upclose and personal and leave you to pull out whatever you like from whereever you get it from.

Hillary Rodham-Clinton has always had political ambitions. Even when she was First Lady. However, America (for all its Liberal posturing) is a very Conservative arena. They will vote a black man over a white woman.

And if I were married to a philandering man who happens to be the Tinubu of the Democratic Party of the United States, I won't divorce him. I need his support down the line for when I want to declare my candidancy for the Democratic Presidential ticket. Having people vote me as a Senator is way different from having my party leaders endorse me to take a presidential ticket. A fight which Hillary lost, the first time already, to Barack Obama. Because her position wasn't strong.

A woman who wants something badly, can play the long game.

Now I'm sure you will have all sorts of answers for this, to show how I'm wrong. After all, this is NL.

Excuse me ladies and gentlemen. I have important stuff to do now.

SirShymex:
Lol, you saw it up, close, and personal because you were in the family, no? Or something you followed just like everyone else? Up, close and personal yano - lmaooo. Didn't you assert one time that you used to work, or know someone that worked/works in the slave underground rail road in Ohio? Stop making up things. Also, I can't see the correlation between "cheating husband" and America being a conservative arena, that will vote a black man over white woman. I'm lost here - please help me out.

You need his support especially when the support comes with a lot of baggages, scandals, and animosity during his tenure, no? And a huge woman rights group fan base and influence that will never forgive her for how she handled the case, yes? Well, she's back in 2016 and the Republicans are patiently waiting to open the pandora's box again about all the sins of Bill Clinton, that if she even gets close to winning the Democrat primaries.

Still waiting for something logical from you.

happywife:
my Dear. believe me wen i say m not ur average woman. i will never snap at or beat my kids for wat ever reason m not the type of woman dat built her life around a man. i worked very hard to get to where i am n i know wats important in my life. right now my kids r d most important.

SirShymex:
First, I already said let's leave Monica Lewinsky cos that was the most publicised scandal. After Lewinsky, Bill Clinton cheated with Liz Hurley, and a host of other women afterwards when Hillary became a senator and never needed him anymore for her political career. She was the first lady of AK, first of lady of USA, and was a senator. And according to reports, she was aware of aware of everything cos Bill has always been a playboy, but still never left him. Also, as for running for the highest office and going on to serve as Secretary of State - she never needed Bill Clinton's status for both. Her resumes speaks for itself. Some would even argue that Bill Clinton did hurt her chances, and will forever do, cos there's still a lot of animosity against his tenure and all the scandals.

Spice girls were musically dead (in terms of hit records) but still relevant with a huge fan-base, especially Victoria Beckham. She had a decent solo career and was also into fashion world. Heck, Mel B is still eating off Spice girls. And nah, David Beckham wasn't a footballing icon before Victoria Beckham. He was just a decent footballer that was great with dead balls - and he was hated in the UK cos of the id.iotic red card against Argentina at the 1998 world cup. He was the Frank Lampard of that era. His stock grew after Victoria Beckham,and she made him a brand and a household name. That was when he started attending fashion shows and fraternising with folks in the fashion and entertainment world. And he subsequently moved to Real Madrid where he consolidated on that. Also, Real Madrid didn't buy him because of his footballing talents either (Beckham was never a great footballer - he was a decent one with great dead balls, just a better version of David Bentley) - it was because of the Beckham brand outside football for marketing, which was induced by Victoria. Also, Victoria Beckham first moved to the US in like 2001/2002 before Beckham went there...and got like a huge deal. I still remember she did a few things with Damon Dash and Rocawear back then, when Damon Dash was on-top of the world. She ditched all that after David Beckham scandal.

You just made my point for me by citing Ray Parlour. They could've done the same thing, to destroy their husbands, but they never did that. Now let's throw Ashley Cole and Cheryl Cole in there. And bear in mind that Girls Aloud was a bad bootleg version of Spice Girls, that never left the UK in terms of fan base. How has that affected Cheryl Cole's brand or status? - not even one bit. Heck, she's still waxing stronger. So, the argument about Victoria Beckham staying because she was trying to protect her brand is just illogical.

naijababe:
Shymexx, you are full of beans and you know it . David and Victoria were hated in equal measure before leaving for Spain. Her first solo album after Spice girls costing £5M sold less than 70k, she was panned by almost all of UK media. In fact, i recall her being dubbed 'the one that points' because she was pointing for the best in one of the Spice Girls videos. While in Spain, she wasn't doing much either and was desperate to return to the UK because the Spanish public already had Raul and wife, there was no room for Posh and Becks or so it was reported. This was largely the reason reported for her move to USA before David followed. She might have done whatever with Damon Dash, David was always the bigger star with the larger portion of their net worth until her fashion business took off like 4 maybe 5 years ago. Why the heck would she leave?

On Hillary, you may choose not to admit it, there was no way on this planet Hillary was leaving Bill until she'd her shot at her own political elevation. Bill had been cheating for years, long before they got to the WH, why would sleeping with Liz Hurley be an issue when he'd been philandering all the way back from Arkansas? Hillary knew staying was a means to an end. If I was in her shoes I'd do the same.

Cheryl and Ashely?! You really want to go there? The same Ashley aka Cashley Cole The entire nation wanted Cheryl to divorce him, heck staying with him could have ruined her career. Same thing again, it might have been difficult for her as was widely reported but she chose her career and looked after no1.

SirShymex:
Lol, you saw it up, close, and personal because you were in the family, no? Or something you followed just like everyone else? Up, close and personal yano - lmaooo. Didn't you assert one time that you used to work, or know someone that worked/works in the slave underground rail road in Ohio? Stop making up things.
Still waiting for something logical from you.

bukatyne:
Omotola is Nigeria's sweetheart because she is still married amongst her talent and hardwork. She will never dream of divorcing her hubby even if he cheats with the whole world (not saying he is cheating o!). For some people who can stand on their own single, they stay married to cheats because their fame/net worth/success is hinged on the marriage.

For some, divorce might make no difference. E.g. Funke Akindele

pickabeau1:
No..one more option

Women don't tolerate cheats and leave marriages right away
That way those who don't want to mess up or lose via alimony or destroy their home don't cheat or hide it well

pickabeau1:
No..one more option

Women don't tolerate cheats and leave marriages right away
That way those who don't want to mess up or lose via alimony or destroy their home don't cheat or hide it well