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Tymax:
So you quoted me.....

How far? You have been away for sometime now

ROZZAYY:
Yes u did mine is 2yy. Anyway am here wat happen.

Youngpo413:
TOUCHE`

Vikkyk10:
hm.Drop ur comment

ROZZAYY:
because everyone thinks marriage is for dem meanwhile not by force to get married.
2)A lot of people r prepared for wedding ceremony but deyve 4gotten dat marriage is more dan d ceremony. I was @ a wedding abt a year ago, @ d wedding d bride was goin round greeting people wen she passed dey some people were gossiping, I now asked d friend dat invited me wat is goin on here, he s close to dem. He said dat d couple have issues and dey aint interested in d marriage I was like haba so wat r we doin here eating rice? He said dey wanted to cancel but d family said deyve spent lots of cash for preps so d wedding must hold, after d party dey can go dier way, which dey did d next day. So dats arriage of now for u.
Wen I get more points ill modify.

Vikkyk10:
which1 b touche

ROZZAYY:
Ahah ty so u now have a female acc too. Oga oo. I've been here o, just don't talk too much anymore since I clocked 18 2wks ago. Am now mature.

Vikkyk10:
Hm

Tymax:
Hahaha you claim you just clocked 18? Me too I just reach 16 last month.

My name was in the list that you quoted. I don't have a female account o. I can't stand the unnecessary pm and followers that you ladies endure.

ROZZAYY:
Lols ok.
So u don't bliv am 18 abi. Lemme paste my birth cert. Am coming.

pearlzy92:
Its true we put God first. That one is very very important. After putting God first, u don't marry and start to lounge. As a person u have to try ur best in every aspect.
1. B acommodating.
Welcome everyone. Ur husbands family, ur inlaws, ur own family. Treat them well. Respect them. This goes a long way
2. Respect ur husband nd vice versa.
The woman shld always respect her husband. Do what he wants. Cook for him. Don't let ur househelp take ur place in d house. Treat him right.
The men should always respect their wives too. Don't talk to her anyhow in front of family nd friends. This can damage her self esteem.
3. Dress well
Some wives belive that because they r married they have the right to dress anyhow e.g tyin wrapper in d house (I hate that). Wen ur in d house wf ur husband. Dress sexy, wear shorts, show dt ur hot..... When ur going out, dress smart nd clean. Ur husband will be proud. He will showcase u everywhere.
As for d men, they look good in almost everything they wear, so dis is no issue for men.
4.Communication
Always communicate wf each other. Talk abt everything. U guys r married now, u shld b eachothers bestfriend. Talk abt everything
5. Pray together.
This should be no 1. Agree together in ur house, everywhere.
6.Finance
Hmmmn. This one ehn. U need understanding.the husband is d head of the family. YES. But the wife shld also support financially. Don't leav everything to him. If he takes the school fees, rent nd upkeep. As the woman u can take up buying cloths for the children, or the food u eat.
There r some husbands who like to take d whole responsiblity. Fine. As d woman, jst be saving because there will b a day ur husband will need dt money.
7. Have date nights
Drop d kids off at ur mums house. Take each oda out, talk, enjoy each others company. Buy gifts for each oda. Dnt say because ur married now, u shld nt buy anyfn for d oda person.

bukatyne:
And somehow you think only women cause divorce?

I thought the thread referred to both genders?

pearlzy92:
Ah! Don't get it twisted. M a female. I dunno abt d guys part. The little I know I shared.

bukatyne:
I know you are a female

If you were a male, I would have ignored you

This is the crap guys have sold for years and women buying it over and over again. It takes two to make a marriage work and two good heads are better than one

Tymax:
Vikky, do believe in marrying for love?

Vikkyk10:
no,

Tymax:
If not love, then what reason?

Vikkyk10:
i tínk marriage is an ìnstítutn dat involves 2 parties'marriage shuldnt be based on luv only.Both parties mûst respect eachother,submisn:the wife and hubby must b submissive'communicatn matters most in every relatnship.And above al,dy must b prayerful

Tymax:
Nice. But you are just giving me the attributes of good marriage. I'm asking for the reason why you would want to settle with a man.

Vikkyk10:
hm,d same ? Goes 2 u.Y wud u wana gt married

Tymax:
The reason for marriage should be logical and not purely emotional.

According to my economics teacher, human wants are insatiable. Somewhere along the line, with increased exposure comes expectation. The partner gradually loses the mind blowing appeal.

Love will dwindle (diminishing returns ) eventually but what will keep the individuals together? The answer to this question is the reason why a person should marry his/her lover.

Vikkyk10:
hm tnx

Tymax:
Enough of my philosophy. Good morning. How you dey?

Vikkyk10:
GOODMONIN.I AM GUD AND U

SexyFox:
I dont know o

zeb04:
Because everyone is seeing the light.

Vikkyk10:
Chidonc,mprex,prixus,dotwillis1 pls come and drop ur comment