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Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by izaray(f): 12:12pm On Dec 12, 2014
Babe move on with ur life, dat's not d end of d world, dey are better tins awaiting you.
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody:
braine:
Seems like you are only trying to garner sympathy. You did not particularly state what happened and why he did what he did. You only stated how his reaction made you feel bad. Kindly state what actually happened.
And those of you asking her to move on, that's the right thing for both of them to do. You people should ask her what she did before thunder strikes your various fingers.
.
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by braine(m): 12:49pm On Dec 12, 2014
anikeogoo:
I'm not here to get sympathy. I asked for advice. If you're not sure of what to type,posting a comment isn't compulsory instead of this. And I think I already made what happened clear.
Wow.
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by 100Cents: 1:11pm On Dec 12, 2014
anikeogoo:
Thank you 100©ents. God bless you.
You are welcome
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by 100Cents: 1:16pm On Dec 12, 2014
anikeogoo:
Thank you. God bless you.
Women should learn from your example that is deceitful to tell half truths or think of oneself better than ones partner..

When it comes to deceit by females, lies and half truths. I have got a full dose for 3 good years. One deceit after another. Its not funny.

It does not pay at all. The question for you now is, " Can I be truthful in my next relationship " ?

Because me, I don't know how to beg an Ex. Ex is Ex..
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by farano(mod): 1:25pm On Dec 12, 2014
100Cents:
You are welcome
better person tongue
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by 100Cents: 1:30pm On Dec 12, 2014
farano:
better person tongue
Oh, my beautiful MOD. kiss
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody: 5:36pm On Dec 12, 2014
Hey girl

No magic words can take away your pain.

This is very normal part of growing up ( I suspect ur very young).

Go thru this ordeal and this too will pass.

One day at a time. You will come out stronger.

Give yourself some credit. Ur a lot tougher than u think. You wouldnt have bothered asking for help if u didnt have it in ya.

Whateva u do tho; dont isolate yourself from others.

Good wishes.
Nina D. Xoxo
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody: 5:40pm On Dec 12, 2014
Peoples....

Exercise sympathy. This isnt time to pass judgement or point fingers

This poor girl needs to heal first.

Then

Dissect, analyze and learn from her experience. Hopefullu grow from it.
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody: 6:11pm On Dec 12, 2014
brito:
My love, move on with your life. A man that want to break up with a lady will come up with silly excuses. Don't bother yourself cause the right guy will come.
I will never understand women n the need to defend themselves without even reasoning. as long as d girl is on d receiving end they simply defend. if u read that post well she is admitting her wrong. she never even accused him of any thing bad or of accusing her wrongly. she's obviously regretting her actions towards so much that she still prays for him cos he is her perfect match. if this was an English comprehension in an exam n u r asked who's at fault it's ur type that will shade "the guy". read well n comment without sentiments n with sense.
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody: 6:19pm On Dec 12, 2014
Prixus:
I will never understand women n the need to defend themselves without even reasoning. as long as d girl is on d receiving end they simply defend. if u read that post well she is admitting her wrong. she never even accused him of any thing bad or of accusing her wrongly. she's obviously regretting her actions towards so much that she still prays for him cos he is her perfect match. if this was an English comprehension in an exam n u r asked who's at fault it's ur type that will shade "the guy". read well n comment without sentiments n with sense.
Hello!!!!!
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody: 6:19pm On Dec 12, 2014
as for d op. I think what would mk him re-consider u is doing something out of d ordinary. shock him with ur action. something that will blow his mind n say "wow. so she can do this for me?" if he really loved u then I think u need to wake up that part of him. I don't know details of ur relationship so I can't specify the kind of things u can do to blow his mind. in summary if on a scale of 1-10 u hurt him as much as 8 out of 10 I think u should blow his mind with something as high as 11 out of 10. u can thank me later.
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody: 6:23pm On Dec 12, 2014
brito:
Hello!!!!!
hi!!!!!!
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody: 6:26pm On Dec 12, 2014
Prixus:
hi!!!!!!
Are you her bf?
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody: 6:35pm On Dec 12, 2014
brito:
Are you her bf?
three posts above I gave her some advice. I'm obviously not.
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody: 6:43pm On Dec 12, 2014
Prixus:
three posts above I gave her some advice. I'm obviously not.
I know you're not
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by dechandel(f): 6:44pm On Dec 12, 2014
jmoore:
Maybe, a p0rn homevideo.
Ohh
She should be happy
In some part of the world
S.ex pays
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by seangy4konji: 6:55pm On Dec 12, 2014
You have said it all. You are in a relationship with someone for three years and you still tell him Hal truths an dishonesty which you are not denying and you expect him also to live the rest of his life with a woman who after three years still does not know what she wants?i can give you some examples of things you do that probably made him think you won't change.

Always run away to a hidden place in the house to pick calls from men. When he ask you you say hey are just friends.

After each conversations or SMS ,you delete and leave no proof of your acts.

You turn each of his question into a fight and cry sayig after this years?do you not trust me without answering the questions he asked or waiving t aside.

Tell him you have very equal right to do anything he does like if he talks to women,ou have a right to talk to men also.(with that feminist tone of I don't care what happens)

You did not tone down on your actions with several warnings ad now that you jink he is gone?you wished you could have at least changed.

Are you the not one left in your house as a female who is yet to marry?so you still stay with your mum alone while yor younger sister and elder sister are married?iwther thick or thin they ensured and are married.

Let nl peopl advice you and ruin your self. Work on your half truths. Drop your ego,et a good job and be a good wife material. Don't waste all your life in twitter and bbm. Checking out shoes and irrelevant things.

My 50 kobo.
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Tallesty1(m): 7:00am On Dec 13, 2014
brito:
she should move and forget that guy
I am not saying that she should stay.

My point is, she needs to work on herself if she is guilty as charged else what killed Pete in this relationship will still murder Jo in the next one.

Could you please ask questions next time b4 giving advice?

Some people take the advice they get here very serious.
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Tallesty1(m): 7:05am On Dec 13, 2014
3cycle:
Just sme way the bird at hand got to you another will come to you.
Life goes on
Sometimes I do wonder how women reason. What the guy accused her of is a killer in every relationship, even in marriage so the best advice for her should be to change.

Or could it be that you ladies do the same thinglipsrsealed?(just a tot)

Meanwhile the lady below is still waiting for one of the birds in the bush to find her

Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody: 8:26am On Dec 13, 2014
Tallesty1:
Sometimes I do wonder how women reason. What the guy accused her of is a killer in every relationship, even in marriage so the best advice for her should be to change.

Or could it be that you ladies do the same thinglipsrsealed?(just a tot)

Meanwhile the lady below is still waiting for one of the birds in the bush to find her
You need help. He accused her of something which she accepted but he walked away almost immediately. So she should continue waiting for sm1 who moved on already?
Reason properly
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Tallesty1(m): 8:39am On Dec 13, 2014
3cycle:
You need help. He accused her of something which she accepted but he walked away almost immediately. So she should continue waiting for sm1 who moved on already?
Reason properly
A premature conclusion if you ask me.

You actually think A guy will accuse you of something and dump you immediately?

You want me to believe that that was the first time the issue came up?

The young guy has had enough and moved on and I did not in any of my comment advice the woman to wait.

All I am saying is, she should work on herself.

I think you the help more than I do.
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody: 9:06am On Dec 13, 2014
Tallesty1:
I am not saying that she should stay.

My point is, she needs to work on herself if she is guilty as charged else what killed Pete in this relationship will still murder Jo in the next one.

Could you please ask questions next time b4 giving advice?

Some people take the advice they get here very serious.
ok sir, thanks
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody: 9:16am On Dec 13, 2014
brito:
My love, move on with your life. A man that want to break up with a lady will come up with silly excuses. Don't bother yourself cause the right guy will come.
To me dat isn't d best advice...she herself isn't claimin d guy accused her, its obvious she is guilty to dat extent....beta stil if she moves on, d truth shuld always b told....I can do anythn 4 a lady dat wuldnt deceive me in any circumstance
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Tallesty1(m): 9:21am On Dec 13, 2014
brito:
ok sir, thanks
Good girlwink
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody: 9:21am On Dec 13, 2014
brito:
Is he trustworthy himself ? lady forget that guy and wait for your net to catch a bigger fish
D bigger d fish, d bigger d heart break if she doesn't find solution to d accusation
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody: 9:22am On Dec 13, 2014
brito:
Is he trustworthy himself ? lady forget that guy and wait for your net to catch a bigger fish
D bigger d fish, d bigger d heart break if she doesn't find solution to d accusation...I wonder wat ur context of love n relationship entails.....lies must b involved I guess,perhaps double datin inclusive as well...very funi..our dear 2day gals
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Rapsainot(m): 9:43am On Dec 13, 2014
dechandel:
1st of all..
You did very crazy stuff with him??
You are not telling the full story.
What could that behuh

countless abortions
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody: 9:44am On Dec 13, 2014
Tallesty1:
Good girlwink
Good morning tallest
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by braine(m): 9:58am On Dec 13, 2014
Tallesty1:
A premature conclusion if you ask me.

You actually think A guy will accuse you of something and dump you immediately?

You want me to believe that that was the first time the issue came up?

The young guy has had enough and moved
on and I did not in any of my comment advice the woman to wait.

All I am saying is, she should work on herself.

I think you the help more than I do.
prinznazzy:
To me dat isn't d best advice...she herself isn't claimin d guy accused her, its obvious she is guilty to dat extent....beta stil if she moves on, d truth shuld always b told....I can do anythn 4 a lady dat wuldnt deceive me in any circumstance
seangy4konji:
You have said it all. You are in a relationship with someone for three years and you still tell him Hal truths an dishonesty which you are not denying and you expect him also to live the rest of his life with a woman who after three years still does not know what she wants?i can give you some examples of things you do that probably made him think you won't change.
Always run away to a hidden place in the house to pick calls from men. When he ask you you say hey are just friends.
After each conversations or SMS ,you delete and leave no proof of your acts.
You turn each of his question into a fight and cry sayig after this years?do you not trust me without answering the questions he asked or waiving t aside.
Tell him you have very equal right to do anything he does like if he talks to women,ou have a right to talk to men also.(with that feminist tone of I don't care what happens)
You did not tone down on your actions with several warnings ad now that you jink he is gone?you wished you could have at least changed.
Are you the not one left in your house as a female who is yet to marry?so you still stay with your mum alone while yor younger sister and elder sister are married?iwther thick or thin they ensured and are married.
Let nl peopl advice you and ruin your self. Work on your half truths. Drop your ego,et a good job and be a good wife material. Don't waste all your life in twitter and bbm. Checking out shoes and irrelevant things.
My 50 kobo.
I like your objectivity.
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Tallesty1(m): 10:11am On Dec 13, 2014
brito:
Good morning tallest
Morning dearie.



Uguru(harmattan) don reach your side?
Re: I Need Help On What To Do Please. by Nobody: 10:15am On Dec 13, 2014
Tallesty1:
Morning dearie.



Uguru(harmattan) don reach your side?
The harmattan is something else here, cold dey catch me
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