By Ekerete Udoh

When the sexy actress visited New York sometime ago, and, at a reception I had arranged for her at the TROPICAL GRILL Restaurant/Lounge York, I informed her that I would love to have an honest and candid interview with her, with the sole purpose of finding out what has been the source of her martial success and the challenges she may have faced remaining true to her values, and vows in an industry where such vows are sacrificed at the altar of conspicuous consumption edged on by the rich and the powerful who regard popular actresses as trophy acquisitions.
I told Omotola that my interview with her was going to be decidedly different – it was going to dwell primarily on her personal life and nothing else – a declaration she had enthusiastically agreed to. “Thank God it is going to be different from all those hackneyed and generic line of questionnaire I have been used to”, she told me as we sat in her hotel room.

I started by asking her what had been the secret of her success in marriage. “I have been favored by the Lord”, she began. “I am truly blessed to have been married to one-of-a-kind husband who appreciates what I do, encourages me to excel in my craft. Let me tell you this: I take my marriage very seriously. If you treat your marriage with levity and careless abandon, you will reap the reward for such bad behavior. My husband is an angel, brought by God to my life, and it has been a blessing having him as my husband.”

[b] As one of the most desirable and sexy actresses in Nollywood and knowing how persistent men of power and influence can get in wanting to have celebrities as trophy lovers, I asked Omotola if she had received material things from men who ran after her.

“Sure, I have received lots of goodies from my male admirers,”she deadpanned. So what gives – what is the qui pro-quo? “Nothing”, she replied. “I do not give anything in return. I always tell them that I am married and would not compromise my martial vows. If after making that point clear, they still continue to shower me with gifts, maybe believing that something will break in the future, then I cannot help them.”

Asked if she had ever met men that she genuinely took a liking to, and was tempted to sacrifice her marital vows, she answered:

“Absolutely. I have been tempted many times to cheat on my husband by men I really liked. But when you think of what you stand to lose, the destruction of all you have labored to build, when you weigh all the options, you are left to conclude that it is not worth the trouble. I know some women will find this somewhat objectionable, but if they want to be truthful to themselves, they will agree with me that, as married women, we have all faced moments that I have just described.” [/b]

Do you feel emotionally detached as a result of many years of marriage or, put differently, has your passion for your husband cooled with time?, I asked. “Of course, it has”, she said matter-of-factly. “Which married woman who has been with her husband for years will, in her true state, tell you that the feeling has remained the same as it was the first time or the first year she met her husband? It is bound to cool off. What I recommend to women is what I call “temporary separation.” You will make yourself unavailable to your husband. Go somewhere – go on vacation with your friends, do something bold, lose weight, look different and, after weeks, come home, looking drop dead gorgeous, and I bet you, the fire of passion will be mightily rekindled and you will feel brand new again. I have applied this principle in my marriage and it has worked wonders.”

Asked if the desire to rekindle her passion was responsible for the huge weight loss that is very noticeable about her, she countered.
“You have to love yourself first. I do not see the weight loss you are talking about, “she said smiling as if to say, “Yes, I did it and I love the way I look.”
Omotola went on to advise women that they “should learn to appreciate the fact that you can live without anyone” and that the “world would not come crashing on you if you did so. I think women should empower themselves while still remaining true to their marriage and husbands. If a marriage is stressful, emotionally destructive, I think we should be strong enough to walk away from such damaging unions.”

Asked to confirm the widely held notion that she is difficult to work with, she answered
emphatically, “Yes, I am difficult. It depends on who I am dealing with. If you are not focused, I bet you, I will be your nightmare. People who are professional about what they do, have no problems with me.”



http://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/12/exclusive-omotolas-bombshell-tempted-many-times-cheat-husband/

Seen this like 200000000 times

#Stale

Dis women is so straight and crystal.
Not like those ashawo yeyebrities wey form holy holy.
God bless you jare

She just happens to have a very understanding man as a husband. If not, all dis one na story for d gods

cool story sis

LaurelP:
She just happens to have a very understanding man as a husband. If not, all dis one na story for d gods

My sister i tell ya, no be small story for the gods ooo.

Omotola is beautiful...having folks tryna hit on her is expected

Everyone gets tempted to cheat once in a while. I don't see the news in this?

Click "LIKE" if you think Omotola is telling one of her usual lies.

FrancisTony:
Click "LIKE" if you think Omotola is telling one of her usual lies.

why do you think she's lying ?

If you believe this, you will believe anything.

Omotola fair, her husband fair but why all their children black?

Elantracey:



why do you think she's lying ?

Judging by the kind of movies that she acts, I don't believe her.

If she can kiss a man in a movie, she can do worst in the real-world. Forget about professionalism.

FrancisTony:

Judging by the kind of movies that she acts, I don't believe her.

That's why its call 'act' its may be different from her in real life moreover her roles are never explicit .

Elantracey:


That's why its call 'act' its may be different from her in real life moreover her roles are never explicit .

*Edited*

Recheck ^^^

for a beautiful woman like her,it is normal.what makes her stand out is if she can resist the temtations.

Don't mis quote her

"Tempted to cheat means offered to cheat not desired to cheat"

naijaboiy:

Still no "LIKE" yet?

LIENUS...

Wetin concern us

Do you feel emotionally detached as a result of many years of marriage or to put it differently, has your passion for your husband cooled with time? I had asked “Of course, it has” she said matter-of-factly. “Which married woman who has been with her husband for years will in her true state tell you that the feeling has remained the same as it was the first time or the first year she met her husband? It is bound to cool off.

“18 years, still like we dating’ – Omotola gives shout out to husband

The star actress gave a shout out to her husband on instagram 18 years , still like we dating babe…

http://naijajibiti.com/2014/03/relationship-18-years-still-like-we-dating-omotola-gives-shout-out-to-husband/

which one should we believe?

“Absolutely. I have been tempted many times to cheat on my husband by men I really liked

from interview:

So when you see your wife kissing on set, you don’t get jealous?

No! Not all. My wife tells me about her acting. Most times she even complains that some actors she acts love scenes with have mouth or body odor that she can’t wait to leave this scene. So I even pity her on what she has to go through and endure being an actress.

http://www.africanmoviesnews.com/2013/11/omotola-jalade-some-actors-i-act-love-scenes-with-have-bad-mouth-or-body-odor/

Hmm

You smoosh on screen, kiss on screen and you expected me to belief this shi.t?

I have been tempted many times to steal meat from my mum's pot

hmmmmmmm

ok

That bastard