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Desperation often takes over after a bad a break-up happens, especially for serious relationships. At those moments, there are 4 things you must never do.

Love hurts. Yes it does.

In fact, according to some people, true love hurts even more than casual romance.

Sometimes, in the midst of all the hurt, we give up and the relationship is killed, with the good things it came with.

In some unfortunate scenarios, one of the parties is still hoping for the romance to continue while the other one may have gone as far as getting someone new. Sad.

When a break-up happens, especially for serious relationships, there is this desperation that befalls the hurt party.

But like all things done in desperation, it sometimes leads to more problems.

Anyway, here are 4 things Wha’anda things you should NEVER do after a break up:

Do not pine over old text messages. Ah, those old text messages are evil. You read them —the mushy moment messages, and your heart goes into frenzy. Best thing is to just either delete them (if you are sure there is no comeback) or try to ignore them.

Do not begin to listen to forlorn love songs like Akon’s sad ‘Lonely’ or Eamon’s butt-hurt ‘Bleep What I Said.’ It is best that you also avoid songs that tune up your emotions, soft like Enya’s beats or even Radiohead. The reasons is that these songs bring a rush of emotions that might make you cry your eyes out or do something much worse —like suicide!

Do not begin to stalk your ex on Facebook (Social media). Trust Wha’anda, the more you read about the person’s activities, the worse you’ll feel. You just might be unfortunate to read updates about you or learn that he or she is getting married. A status update or a tweet can crash your whole day. So stay off their social media profiles until you move on.

Do not stop loving. The easiest cure for a heart-hurt is falling in love again. See, staying alone for a zillion years will neither erase the sad event nor make you immune to the need for sex and love. Paid or random sex will also not be a good as sex inside a relationship, even if it will eventually crash. So you gotta go out there and get someone who appreciates you instead of crying over spilt milk while the person you are pining over is living the life.

There you go…Stay in love and stay happy.


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lala a bia kwa ozo.

Do not be too quick to jump into another relationship after a breakup to avoid making further mistakes.

All read and understood.
But my type has moved on spiritually long b4 the physical break up so no break up hurts me.

it doesnt stop me from playing dos romantic songs like beautiful in white aye and so on
yes u re right by sayign if i play dem i remember sweet memories some times i smile sometimes i feel bad such is life
again make i hear say i no stalk ma ex for FB infact istill hv her facebook password wich i log in to check her activities i knw by doing dat amu killing ma self but hey dat is my own part of medicine

The most important thing you shouldn't do is Don't let your Yesterday define your Today

jboy73:
So I just commented so I would make front page.

u b olodo...is this ur write-up?

Ok bye

princessayesha:
Ok bye

c pesin

The only thing U must not do after a breakup is; DON'T BREAK YOURSELF .

One Thing You Must Never Do Is=> Become A Relationship Expert.

nevertheless


fp Sooooooooooooooooose

hmmm, rules for my ex too

I didn't even bother to read through

I have hear

Hmmm

Booking space incase ds makes FP

nwaobitex:
I have hear

Bro, ur grammar no be here ooo. Did u schooled in france?

Touche

PS: Do not jump into another relationship so quickly. Make room for your heart to heal.

TheSonOfMark:
R.I.P English language! We will avenge your death though...

Most definitely.

Do not curse the person,you never can tell,there can be a comeback.

heskeyw:
Bro, ur grammar no be here ooo. Did u schooled in france?

yes na