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Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by biggmusty(m): 2:47pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
icebebe: U ar joking right? |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by Pamcrest(f): 2:49pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
Kudos Lola for speaking up! The reality is that most nigerian women, while growing up, were molested one way or d other by a nearby male, usually a family member or domestic help....either she's touched inappropriately or actually penetrated. The saddest thing about it is that our society makes it extremely difficult for many victims to speak out. When even her parents won't believe her, who does she turn to? The degree and frequency of molestation leaves long lasting scars that affect her well being and most esp her relationship with men. The unfortunate thing is that even now, the situation has only improved slightly....with the information out there, many parents are still carefree and negligent with their young daughters. But let's encourage ladies to speak out against these condemnable acts! My humble submission 1 Like |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by Nobody: 2:58pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
Wow!!! Sorry.. |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by Nobody: 3:25pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
KLand: non taken. It was definitely wrong. But what would be your reaction if it were a 16yo boy and 8yo girl? |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by captainfred(m): 3:55pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
MarthaK: |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by princessayesha(f): 5:02pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
eyya lola......look at you now..you've been fully compensated for all that. But.....if i were u i would get back at that priest and ex |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by Tombilly(m): 5:19pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
MarthaK: |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by Tombilly(m): 5:20pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
MarthaK:don't provoke me to insult u ok z it only catholic dat ve ministers addressed as priest |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by Suzyky4u(f): 5:35pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
[/b] MarthaK: [b]Catholic priest? Or Chief priest? Yes Catholic Priest. Does it sound strange? I know of a class mate in SS1 who was dating our parish priest! God's judgement will surely start from his house. |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by Suzyky4u(f): 5:44pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
Pamcrest: You are right. Even recently when I tried to speak up about my experience with my teacher back then, a guy said I was being childish. Imagine! They will continue to be exposed. God forbid that I allow "uncles", gatemen, drivers or male teachers too close to my daughters or even sons sef. Some of them are gay. |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by itstpia8: 5:50pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
Suzyky4u: it is not easy being a priest. lord have mercy. surrounded by all these young, nubile girls, it would take the patience of a saint and the self control of a rock, to hold yourself. not excusing rape though, thats not good. how do they even manage to maintain their celibacy sef? Just curious. any tips? |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by stinggy(m): 5:50pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
chimkaire: U wan go report am for vatican? Haba, konji is no respecter of cassock |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by KLand(m): 5:55pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
wallflower: Thank you. In your case, I would say she took advantage Of your innocence. In the second scenario that would have amounted to molestation in the highest order. Both are wrong. |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by Pamcrest(f): 6:18pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
Suzyky4u: Yes oh..in this day n age, parents need to keep an eye on their young boys too. Predators come in all shapes n sizes n gender nowadays My humble submission. 1 Like |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by Suzyky4u(f): 6:35pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
Pamcrest: Yea and being friends with your children also helps in such situations. They quickly run to you as a parent when such "advances" start. |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by Pamcrest(f): 6:48pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
Suzyky4u: And the parent should listen carefully to what d child is saying. Equally important is for a parent to probe your child frequently esp if your intuition tells u something is amiss. Watch out for signs of withdrawal or unusual behaviour in your child and investigate the causes. Thank God that children of nowadays aren't afraid to talk esp when they know d parent will listen and take action. All is well. Our laws also need to be strengthened to help victims get justice. My humble submission |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by Nobody: 7:05pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
There are parents out there that will not believe a child's words over that of a priest or man of God. Some will actually tell them to shut up and not speak ill of a man of God. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by Nobody: 8:21pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
stinggy:...if she aint saying "whodunnit", I aint believing. This should expose the robed-beast for whom he really is. Shielding his I'd is irritating |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by legallyblonde(f): 8:51pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
delishpot:omg!! omg!! hrd that school is a den of filthy priests.so she went there?! delishpot:omg!! omg!! hrd that school is a den of filthy priests.so she went there?! |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by stinggy(m): 8:56pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
chimkaire: What if I tell you she's referring to me, would you believe me? |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by itstpia8: 9:06pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
^are you saying you're a priest? |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by Nobody: 9:36pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
stinggy:Naah... |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by delishpot: 9:54pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
legallyblonde: Yes. My madam went there too. Lola was her senior, lola left the year my madam entered. |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by delishpot: 10:04pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
itstpia8: They were not forced into celebacy abi priesthood. if the kitchen is too hot, they should get the hell out. This is why rape will never end when men take it as a joke and then blame the victim as though its her fault she is a woman. If it was your sister or daughter, will you ask this question? Will you accept that being a priest is hard so he had to finger your child to "cool body" is excuse enough? |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by itstpia8: 10:18pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
bro, the "dare to dream" is still on, you can go there with any actress you call your "madam" and tell them you have a story. i did not ask you to give a sermon, thanks, save your breath to cool your porridge. you can go hawk your chinchin abi na small chops, at the place also and make some money. I'll patronize you when I'm in abuja. delishpot: as per fi.ngering, does your imaginary "wife" do that to your anus? |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by delishpot: 10:25pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
itstpia8: Ha ha. If she fingers my anus e nor suppose pain you nau. She is mine and we can finger and unfinger each other. From eyes to Anus we are allowed to carry go. I asked a question, if it was your child or sister, will you ask that question? At least I sell chinchin and I am proud of it. dont worry, that human head you used for yahoo plus ritual will cry against you soon. I take pride in my small chops but shame will not let you tell how many heads you took to your baba for ritual for that maga to send you western Union. Your days of sexual abuse and human ritual plus yahoo will soon be over. Dont worry to buy from me. I do not sell to rirualists and yahoo boys. I will give you for free on charity basis when I visit you in jail. Bloody rapist. |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by itstpia8: 10:29pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
were |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by itstpia8: 10:31pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
delishpot: delishpot: |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by delishpot: 10:37pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
itstpia8: Ha ha, small pikin dey do you. See bros, I did not insult you nau. Why you dey bad bele me like this? You are just busy re arranging my comments. Ha ha haaaa. Abeg oooo. Somborry get me out of here oooo. Ok, ok, jokes appart, I have bad mouth o, please dont let us take this war too far. I have decided not to fight e wars again. Nor vex bros. I dont want to fight. I have decided not to badmouth anyone again. Can I jump and pass now? |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by kayalla(f): 10:46pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
kultimate009: yes more women re being harassed sexually cos they refuse to speak out, imagine being molested by a priest ( catholic priest or shrine chief priest) one should be able to tell someone, in the whole family there is always one person to trust and speak to. and she bore these pain for this long time? she said "she didn't speak to anyone cos she felt embarrassed and ashamed?" if u feel someone has wronged u, u should be able to complain atleast for vengeance sake not swallow all that pain, and let the person walk around and do the same thing to other innocent girls. i didn't read the part with ''ex'' issue that na normal things. |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by franzis(m): 11:54pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
Where and when did it happen,date and time, what is the priest name, if you can't give me this infos, reserve this story for the gods, no be today we begin to hear am |
Re: I Was Molested By A Priest, Beaten Up By My Ex - Lola Omotayo Okoye by itstpia8: 12:30am On Dec 17, 2014 |
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