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chester47:
TRYING TO DEFEND YOURSELF WHEN YOU ARE STILL SAYING THE SAME THING.HE GAVE THE DRIVER THE 100BUCKS,AND SAID FOR TWO?WELL HE DOESN'T KNOW YOUR NAME DID HE?SO YOU COULD HAVE GIVEN THE DRIVER YOUR OWN MONEY AND TELL HIM YOU ARE PAYING FOR YOURSELF..THE DRIVER AND THE DUDE WONT HAVE ANYMORE OPTION THAT FOR THE DRIVER TO GIVE THE DUDE BACK HIS MONEY OR EITHER FOR THE GUY TO COLLECT OR LEAVE HIS MONEY FOR THE DRIVER..YOU GARRET??

blackprowler:
You are dumb. I'm unlikely to marry if I remain trapped in Nigeria with these women and their understanding of life

Drone007:
You agreed for a guy you don't know to pay for your oranges? And you thought you were doing him a favor ('I was nice enough to boost his ego by letting him pay for my oranges'....)? Like, seriously? You just affirmed what the OP is saying. Where're your principled; where's your self-esteem?

UchihaMadara:
Can I be your friend? I never chop since morning, my stomach just dey growl sotey I think say our neighbor dey keep Lion for backyard.

Have sent you a P.M, thanks.

born2fuckpussy:
Atewo (Claps)

No bi my force to by something for girls nah.

blackprowler:
You are dumb. I'm unlikely to marry if I remain trapped in Nigeria with these women and their understanding of life

honeric01:
But you gave him your number init? if you wanted to be nice, giving him your number was to what purpose? what were you expecting him to do with your number? use it to play pool?

owolawitola:
Yes o

Evina:
Tosin, number 8 is sooo true about men!

The other day, I was buying oranges. I said to the seller, "please give me soft ones cos I want to juice them". Next thing I heard a voice that wasn't the seller say, "why only the soft ones"? I no answer. After my selection, the guy paid. I said thank you and was on my way, when he rushed to catch up with me.

I am usually not friendly with guys I don't know, but decided to change since a new year is approaching. LOL. I even gave him my number, an act I regret doing because na so so super story and Ikebe super gist the guy dey disturb me with since then.

All because, I was nice enough to boost his ego by letting him pay for my oranges.

This scenario happens every time. They pay for stuff you did not ask them to pay for and give you lifts because they want to "try their luck" and not because they are angels sent to make your day.

Evina:
Not that I am obliged to give you any explanation. But, so you can learn something, I like to give out my phone number because we are in an era where networking is key. I have had productive professional relationships established through networking.

I not only hand out my number, I ask for yours first and if you turn out to be a nuisance, I loose your number.

kristina1:
Nice one.

felsunseg:
A girl once told me she was a virgin and was nt ready for any relationship yet, but few months later i learnt she was pregnat for a guy who is not even up to my level.

honeric01:
Then why make it sound like you gave out your number to him because you wanted to be nice rather than say for "opportunity sake"? meaning even if he didn't pay for your oranges, you still would have given him the number for the reasons you listed above.


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chimerase2:
Tosin no 3 vex me eh
One side chick told me she was a virgin and she hate sex die dat she has not even hugged a guy before
while she was not
I was shocked de day I inserted ma sim card on the phone slut
I was like yeeeeh
I leta asked her why she lied and she said she was sorry it was a mistake

chester47:
So you need a guy to tell you that he is into you before you turn him down.I can see now that lies is coming in..as a lady,you don't know when a guy is coming after you,is that what you trying to say..see no need trying to defend yourself here okay cause you cant.you don't have a point.she was not in a shitty mood..you supposed to know how medical doctors act,they think they attained the highest class in school,so a nobody cant just date her.it was later when she found out about me that she apologized for how she acted..yes i know how it is,cause me too,i know girls who come after me but i turn them down simply cause they are not my type and level.so the point here is that you like the guy or either you needed money so you allowed him to pay for you..why cant you just give the driver your money and warn him not to collect from him since if throwing the money is rude then

Jasi7:
Had the same experience too...I ws angry but I kept mute,kept shining it so long as it was available anyway

tosyne2much:
egbon abeg calm down oooooo

This ur comment dey fear me oooo

tosyne2much:
This write-up is not based on mere assumption but my findings and encounter with ladies

It takes the grace of God if you aint guilty of at least one of the listed points

Lemme Keep The Ball Rolling

10 Mentality Of An Average Lady

1. A guy must be the one to start up a chat and he must be the one throwing the questions else he is not ready to chat

2. The society frawns against a lady making her intentions known to a guy, therefore, a guy has to keep pestering you b4 you finally agree in order to show to him that you aint cheap or desperate

3. A lady has to hide her virginity status or pretend to hate sekks in order to portray a descent or an attractive image


4. Sending Pm to a dude will make you lose your self esteem or pride as a lady

5. The mentality of an average lady is that, a guy should settle the bills. When the bill arrives at the table, you pretend it doesn’t exist cos you believe it's less of your worry cos a guy should always settle the bills by default

6. You are doing a guy a great favour by allowing sekks. Some will go as far as stripping unclad raining curses on a dude the moment he fuckks up because they consider it as a favour

7. A guy who loves you will go extra mile. Most ladies are brainwashed by this assertion. That is, a lady believes she can treat a guy the way she wants and expects the guy should be able to withstand any poo at the expense of true love
, not knowing you can pursue a man God has destined 4u out of ignorance and selfish motive

8. Any guy who tries to strike up a convo or pay your transport fare will later ask for your phone number 'cos he wants to woo you


9. You have to give unending busy excuses in order to portray an image of rear commodity

10. majority of our ladies believe our world revolve around sekks and that 90% of guys will never resist sekks. This sounds really funny but it is the real fact. I have spoken to so many ladies and I have come into conclusion that majority of our ladies believe that 90% of guys lack self control and will never resist sekks at any slight given opportunity

** Feel Free To Add Yours **

100Cents:
Mr Lecturer !

I hereby award you Doctor of Womanology...

You know these girls so well..

rittyben:
Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha. U too like list.
Thanks sha, I just realise I have to PM someone sharpenly

1one:
This is one of the "Tens" that according to me is totally on point!

Big ups man!

tosyne2much:
This write-up is not based on mere assumption but my findings and encounter with ladies

It takes the grace of God if you aint guilty of at least one of the listed points

Lemme Keep The Ball Rolling

10 Mentality Of An Average Lady

1. A guy must be the one to start up a chat and he must be the one throwing the questions else he is not ready to chat

2. The society frawns against a lady making her intentions known to a guy, therefore, a guy has to keep pestering you b4 you finally agree in order to show to him that you aint cheap or desperate

3. A lady has to hide her virginity status or pretend to hate sekks in order to portray a descent or an attractive image


4. Sending Pm to a dude will make you lose your self esteem or pride as a lady

5. The mentality of an average lady is that, a guy should settle the bills. When the bill arrives at the table, you pretend it doesn’t exist cos you believe it's less of your worry cos a guy should always settle the bills by default

6. You are doing a guy a great favour by allowing sekks. Some will go as far as stripping unclad raining curses on a dude the moment he fuckks up because they consider it as a favour

7. A guy who loves you will go extra mile. Most ladies are brainwashed by this assertion. That is, a lady believes she can treat a guy the way she wants and expects the guy should be able to withstand any poo at the expense of true love
, not knowing you can pursue a man God has destined 4u out of ignorance and selfish motive

8. Any guy who tries to strike up a convo or pay your transport fare will later ask for your phone number 'cos he wants to woo you


9. You have to give unending busy excuses in order to portray an image of rear commodity

10. majority of our ladies believe our world revolve around sekks and that 90% of guys will never resist sekks. This sounds really funny but it is the real fact. I have spoken to so many ladies and I have come into conclusion that majority of our ladies believe that 90% of guys lack self control and will never resist sekks at any slight given opportunity

** Feel Free To Add Yours **

Elantracey:
hehehe , what if I say am not guilty of any?

tosyne2much:
you and I know that is impossible

owolawitola:
No. It didnt. Cause most of the time, that was never their aim. Besides stalking me every time i leave the gate is not what potential friends do. It has 'woo' written all over it. There is a way someone will approach u and u'll know its just friendship. Av taken chances with these kinda guys. Next thing they r sendin 'the minute i saw u, i just fell for u. You are my diamond'. Mschew.

Evina:
Tosin, number 8 is sooo true about men!

The other day, I was buying oranges. I said to the seller, "please give me soft ones cos I want to juice them". Next thing I heard a voice that wasn't the seller say, "why only the soft ones"? I no answer. After my selection, the guy paid. I said thank you and was on my way, when he rushed to catch up with me.

I am usually not friendly with guys I don't know, but decided to change since a new year is approaching. LOL. I even gave him my number, an act I regret doing because na so so super story and Ikebe super gist the guy dey disturb me with since then.

All because, I was nice enough to boost his ego by letting him pay for my oranges.

This scenario happens every time. They pay for stuff you did not ask them to pay for and give you lifts because they want to "try their luck" and not because they are angels sent to make your day.

princefunmi:
Let me ask you a question?
And I speak for all guys

Why would I pay for oranges for you or give you a lift if I did not intend to ask you out sometime in the future?

I mean face it, you are a stranger just like every other girl. If I were Santa Claus or an angel, I'll go buy me a BRT bus and give every girl on the road a lift or pay for every girl I see buying soft oranges.

Its still part of the mentality that OP is talking about. Cant you refuse to accept the payment or what? The guy paid for your orange, you didn't refuse. The guy gave you a lift you didn't refuse. The guy asked for your number, you gave him. What do you think he wants to do with the number? Increase the population of numbers on his phone?

Abeg grow up GIRL.

ochon:
This is your only "top ten" that made so much sense. Nice one.