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my brother's wife complained dat he rejected her food, I smiled and told her he isn't hungry, she should feed herself and her daughter den go to bed. no time for iranu. as for me I can neva reject my wife's food, because I bought it with my hard earned money.


what could be your reason for rejecting ur wife's food

hmm.,. But yhu knw itz very painful to women xo some men may see it as a ploy to punish their wives or Fear.. Cos i have met a man who said he is scared of eating his wife's food cos He Thinks she wana poison him.
bt all d same, when a woman has taken time to prepare food, itz best to appreciate it.

Some men do it to express displeasure over certain issues or to show he's still angry with the wife. Some men do it until the wife feels remorseful and apologizes to his pleasure.

My hubby neva rejects food no matter what except he's truly not hungry. He doesn't eat out except he's outta town.

Wendy80:
My hubby neva rejects food no matter what except he's truly not hungry. He doesn't eat out except he's outta town.

U get beta hubby

trendphemmy:
my brother's wife complained dat he rejected her food, I smile and told her he isn't hungry, she should feed herself and her daughter den go to bed. no time for iranu. as for me I can neva reject my wife's food, because I bought it with my hard earned money.


what could be your reason for rejecting ur wife's food

lol oooo you are right on the money , he is not hungry. My hubby tries that as well, and I just shrug and say ok ur not hungry. Listen men the only time you should be doing ish like this is before you have kids!. After caring for and feeding my twins I am drained! I have no time for mind games shikena!

How is it a punishment for the wife? I don'T understand. Doesn't he rather punish himself?

waleadex:
Some men do it to express displeasure over certain issues or to show he's still angry with the wife. Some men do it until the wife feels remorseful and apologizes to his pleasure.

u just hit d nail on d head. he will do it till she kmees down to beg and he will now start eating. hunger no catch am ni o

Lol just funny, I wil give her money eat the food but no normal conversations till she realised her mistakes

Hmmm, there must be a reason behind his action...

teemanbastos:
hmm.,. But yhu knw itz very painful to women xo some men may see it as a ploy to punish their wives or Fear.. Cos i have met a man who said he is scared of eating his wife's food cos He Thinks she wana poison him.
bt all d same, when a woman has taken time to prepare food, itz best to appreciate it.

she could have as well pretended everything is fine den jejely poison him

trendphemmy:
she could have as well pretended everything is fine den jejely poison him

nd dy have bin married for 22yrs? Nd e started aving dat thought for lyk 8yrs

carefreewannabe:
How is it a punishment for the wife? I don'T understand. Doesn't he rather punish himself?

you can't understand Africa and how much it is a patriarchal society

okotv:
you can't understand Africa and how much it is a patriarchal society

Why? Because I live abroad?

What has it got to do with the topic?

okotv:
you can't understand Africa and how much it is a patriarchal society

You missed the irony in her question.

waleadex:
Some men do it to express displeasure over certain issues or to show he's still angry with the wife. Some men do it until the wife feels remorseful and apologizes to his pleasure.

Arrant nonsense.

Such a man isn't serious. Men who get high displaying such churlish behaviour do so because the zero-self-esteemed wives let them get away with it. Let him spend good money outside buying food till thy kingdom come. When he gets tired of eating junk, he'll make a u-turn, tail firmly tucked between his hind legs.

carefreewannabe:
Why? Because I live abroad?

What has it got to do with the topic?

when a man rejects the wife's food, its seen as bad and an omen of other bad to follow. Its also a subtle way to reprimand women in this part of the world

carefreewannabe:
How is it a punishment for the wife? I don'T understand. Doesn't he rather punish himself?

in dis part of the world, d wife cries and begs if the husband doesn't eat. am not female so I dont kno what is going on in their head

EfemenaXY:
You missed the irony in her question.



Arrant nonsense.

Such a man isn't serious. Men who get high displaying such churlish behaviour do so because the zero-self-esteemed wives let them get away with it. Let him spend money outside buying food till thy kingdom come. When he gets tired of eating junk, he'll make a u-turn, tail firmly tucked between his hind legs.

And when he returns, make sure the house smells of his favorite food.

trendphemmy:
in dis part of the world, d wife cries and begs if the husband doesn't eat. am not female so I dont kno what is going on in their head

I know some women in this part of the world do so.

trendphemmy:
in dis part of the world, d wife cries and begs if the husband doesn't eat. am not female so I dont kno what is going on in their head

Really?

Has civilization really reached that neck of the woods or it simply brushed past "that part of the world"?

okotv:
when a man rejects the wife's food, its seen as bad and an omen of other bad to follow. Its also a subtle way to reprimand women in this part of the world

Pls if you know how you sound, you'll stop typing such...

Anyway, it's bush man meet bush woman. That's the only possible explanation for such silliness.

okotv:
when a man rejects the wife's food, its seen as bad and an omen of other bad to follow. Its also a subtle way to reprimand women in this part of the world

I know this way of thinking but it doesn't make sense to me.

carefreewannabe:
And when he returns, make sure the house smells of his favorite food.

He'll be lucky if there'll be any left overs for him to hide and eat.

#Important lesson: Men, learn how to cook!#

(for those who take pride in not knowing how to)

EfemenaXY:
Really?

Has civilization really reached that neck of the woods or it simply brushed past "that part of the world"?



Pls if you know how you sound, you'll stop typing such...

Anyway, it's bush man meet bush woman. That's the only possible explanation for such silliness.

I only know of one family where father refused to eat wife's food when he was angry. He would punish her by eating the other wife's food. I love polygamy.

EfemenaXY:
He'll be lucky if there'll be any left overs for him to hide and eat.

#Important lesson: Men, learn how to cook!#

(for those who take pride in not knowing how to cook)

Wife cries ang beg....where in the hell have you seen that?

Or another story telling because nairaland is just full of boys with silly fantasies.

There are other ways ....

EfemenaXY:
Really?

Has civilization really reached that neck of the woods or it simply brushed past "that part of the world"?



Pls if you know how you sound, you'll stop typing such...

Anyway, it's bush man meet bush woman. That's the only possible explanation for such silliness.

its real but then what caused I do

left to me, if I stress myself to Cook and you reject it for any reason, you are on your own ..i will just ice my meal and move on

lilmax:
There are other ways ....

To do what?

carefreewannabe:
I know this way of thinking but it doesn't make sense to me.

it doesn't make sense to me too but then what can I do

okotv:
it doesn't make sense to me too but then what can I do

Nothing, to each their own.

Not your problem, not mine either.