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farano:
Just yesterday, a friend of mine, married with two kids, told me how she called her ex-boyfriend for Xmas gift/money and he sent her some money. I don't know if there's anything wrong with that.

It depends.

sexylogan:
You are a very sensible lady.
May God bless you, your (future) husband, children for this statement.
If you are yet to marry, God will give you a faithful loving man.
Your type is very very rare in Naija.

Bros, thank you for these prophesies you just dey release unto me in this season of "yanfuyanfu" packages.

That is how you too, go dey collect your own "yanfuyanfu" packages.

As per the highlighted, come on nauw. Your expectations of Naija gals are really low.

BuddhaPalm:
It depends.

On what please?

jmoore:
If she never told her husband, then something is fishy.

A man that will be okay with that gesture is a suspect!

His manliness is questionable.

Evina:
On what please?

Her husband could be irresponsible, for one.

Evina:
It is not a matter of settling well or not.

Why do you think it is taken to the extreme when a woman cheats, in comparison to when a man does? Because of the male ego. When a woman turns to an ex for anything, even as little as an advice, it is perceived that her man is not man enough, to provide the satisfaction she needs.

Money matters is even worse, because many people associate the weight of a man with his financial capabilities.

Your friend is behaving like a foolish woman, excited to pull down her home.

what's it with Nairaland ladies and the male ego
nice comment though

FLAWLES:
Mtsswww mtsswww mtsswww;the guy self s MUMUNI for sending her

you blame the guy

is she not married

zoeee:
what's your question?

Mumu zoo!!! Is the comment not clear enough? Secondly you were the first to comment. Must quote the op's comment?

@op there is nothing like a bit wrong or half right. What's not good is good. THIS IS NOT GOOD!!!

A married woman calling her ex for Christmas gift Smh.

Like seriously?

Evina:

Bros, thank you for these prophesies you just dey release unto me in this season of "yanfuyanfu" packages.

That is how you too, go dey collect your own "yanfuyanfu" packages.

As per the highlighted, come on nauw. Your expectations of Naija gals are really low.

Amen oh
My dear, it's not my fault.
Some Naija Babes really disappointed me when I least expected it.

farano:
Just yesterday, a friend of mine, married with two kids, told me how she called her ex-boyfriend for Xmas gift/money and he sent her some money. I don't know if there's anything wrong with that.

Her Husband should make a DNA test and look if the kids are realy from him!

nothing is wrong wit it o expecially if e is married. But y did u choose ur ex over all d friendx u v?

instead of commentin on dis topic I'd rather go watch 'Osofia in London'

farano:
Just yesterday, a friend of mine, married with two kids, told me how she called her ex-boyfriend for Xmas gift/money and he sent her some money. I don't know if there's anything wrong with that.

I blame d guy & excuse my slang but"his a mugu 4 life"

Guess she' just tryin 2 b a supportin wife by doin fine barra..lol

farano:
Just yesterday, a friend of mine, married with two kids, told me how she called her ex-boyfriend for Xmas gift/money and he sent her some money. I don't know if there's anything wrong with that.

the act of this is the begining of stupidity

my most admired nairalander, ask urself if u r the hubby n u find out, will u be happy? Its bullshit dear. Happy xmas

The question was and still remains, what's wrong in her asking? The only thing people above me has succeeded in doing is haul insults at the lady.
@farano, i am not yet married but i dont think if its wrong for anybody(including a mother of two) to ask for a xmas gift from a friend or does being an ex makes one an enemy.. Naija i dey hail!

She will soon call him for butty call

Ders everytin wrong in it plz. Wat is it dat her husband can't get for her? Women tke tins to lightly mst times n dat is wat leads to trouble n unfaithfulness bfor dey know it

FLAWLES:
Mtsswww mtsswww mtsswww;the guy self s MUMUNI for sending her

why did you call him mumu , he is only trying to help . there are many men like us looking for who to dash money *wink*

farano:
Just yesterday, a friend of mine, married with two kids, told me how she called her ex-boyfriend for Xmas gift/money and he sent her some money. I don't know if there's anything wrong with that.

I honestly don't know what to say.....

Maybe I go answer am with proverb....

''Fly wey dey follow follow dead bodi...dem go bury am with it''

I case my rest!

Some women are shameless and sadly to say married ones at that too.

What sort is that¿
As far as am concerned,itz termed cheating.

shame

Nothing is wrong with that as long as the ex didn't give her any term(s) and condition(s)

Baddestguyp:
there's nothing wrong

How is there nothing wrong with that ¿

Evina:
Wow!

Even the idea of a married woman calling another man for money is nauseating, how much more an ex. Some women are so stu.pid! I bet she did it behind her husband. Does she not know she has just rubbished her husband before that ex?

Well said evina

Exjoker:
Nothing is wrong with that as long the ex didn't give her any term(s) and condition(s)

AVAST has detected a suspect

Evina:
Wow!

Even the idea of a married woman calling another man for money is nauseating, how much more an ex. Some women are so stu.pid! I bet she did it behind her husband. Does she not know she has just rubbished her husband before that ex?

If I were in the lady's husband's shoes, and supposing I find out, I'll call my ex for sex. Think that balances the scale.