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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by stinggy(m): 10:45pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
missbronze:Me? Problem |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by koyyess: 1:04am On Dec 30, 2014 |
Absolutely nothing! She should work for her own money and date someone with an equal or higher status. Dating a broke guy would be at your own risk. Most times, they end up as betrayers and big disappointments. 3 Likes |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by cdocdathrilla: 2:08am On Dec 30, 2014 |
U shld av asked dis question wen I was still broke, ive forgotten wat I used 2 offer then |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by holysina(m): 5:08am On Dec 30, 2014 |
anigbajumo: if ur broke and you need a girl, fine, get a wife and start building a home instead of seeing one beautiful girl on the road and u approach her, she accepts u and u don't even have what it takes to maintain her, na witch you be na! u do all sorts of rubbish on her body and when she ask you for 10k to make her hair you go dumb and say de girl get big eye, was she dirty looking when you met her? |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by holysina(m): 5:11am On Dec 30, 2014 |
1stola:. you are entitled to your opinion. its just on nairaland, when u meet me for road you go humble. |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by DeadMann(m): 6:11am On Dec 30, 2014 |
LaurelP: Wetin this guy dey yan? what don't you get? He's freaking broke. How e wan take provide the three things wey you mention? |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by 1stola: 6:52am On Dec 30, 2014 |
holysina:humble? Lol! What da fúck is your father's name? nonentity. |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by anigbajumo(m): 7:00am On Dec 30, 2014 |
holysina:lolz hw much z 10k,fank God dis iz over 4yrs nw av neva xperience broke coz I was offered admissn d tyme my dad xpose z business to me.Am hardworking guy planning 4 better future........Is nt dat I dnt spend bt some ladies gonna turn u 2 atm manchine xpecially wen dem realize dat u gat little change..I knw d amount I used to spend in d club bt neva neva give any lady such money coz am nt her parent...so she gonna fink am broke?no am damn far far frm broke |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by holysina(m): 8:26am On Dec 30, 2014 |
1stola: atleast that is what you are good at, u either call some one parent or u insult them. if e pain u, just ignore de comment abi na force to quote person. if u dom rant finish, find me come enugu and eat up your pain. compliment of the season bro |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by holysina(m): 8:34am On Dec 30, 2014 |
anigbajumo: once in a while you spend on her, its no big deal, but once she see's it as your duty to always carter for her den let her bounce, u ain't a bank. but what am saying is, if a guy is broke and is matured enough get a wife and start a home with her. they is a huge difference between a wife and a girlfriend. the later is for future and posterity sake while the later is to quench an impending urge. |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by ReVizz(m): 8:35am On Dec 30, 2014 |
vizkiz:lol guy kai nw |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Imoy(m): 9:18am On Dec 30, 2014 |
Richiy: And to think this is coming from a lady! Bravo gurl. Ermm.. Are u married? |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Moz22: 9:27am On Dec 30, 2014 |
wow..best quote of the year! PrettyGaby: |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by NobleAky(m): 1:49pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Richiy:....ur assertion is tempting me to say 'i love you' |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Richiy(f): 2:31pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
NobleAky: Is that how easy love comes? 3 Likes |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Serendipity: 6:52pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Mrsfaithhh:You sound so frigid and prudish. Its doleful. Wonder why folks like you see coitus as a chore and service to be rendered rather than as as something to be enjoyed, even in marriage. |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Serendipity: 6:56pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Orikinla:Your posts especially recently reek of smugness and snooty air. |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by anigbajumo(m): 8:32pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
holysina:am too young to date wifey material nw... |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Lawstudent: 10:04pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Mrsfaithhh:From this it means sex u cant or don't enjoy sex. Ie its only d guy dat enjoys it and dats why he should sacrifice? |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by NobleAky(m): 10:13pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Richiy:....oh that you said is just easy as you regards it. OMG ***now loves you more*** 1 Like |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by StealthyMe(m): 3:51pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
honfarouk: Na why dem no dey quick find husband na...and a good one at that |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by StealthyMe(m): 3:53pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
barnabas91: Thank you jareh I don chop am They shld add to the smileys naa...make pesin fit dey chop beta knuckle |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by StealthyMe(m): 4:58pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
AreaFada2: Spot on! E no get another name Prostitution na Prostitution! |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Vicamaks1(f): 4:06pm On Jan 02, 2015 |
Absolutely nothin my dear...they all want to date we gals but they cant pay d price so wats d use? i ll rada b alone and make it alone!they dont worth dependin on! |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 10:11pm On Jan 02, 2015 |
AreaFada2:there is a very high demand for sex nowadays, if not money and other material thinz what else will a woman gain from meeting this demand? A woman is a prostitute for expecting material gains from a man she gives her body to, and the man who makes this demand with red eyes has not fault, he is a correct guy, he's only responding to the call of nature abi? |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 10:12pm On Jan 02, 2015 |
firstEVA: yes ke.. |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by AreaFada2: 10:30pm On Jan 02, 2015 |
firstEVA:. Then please campaign to legalise prostitution. So that the patrons can pay VAT and the women meeting sex demand can pay income tax. The taxes would benefit society at large. So you posit that only a man has unsatisfied sexual urges and a woman doesn't enjoy the act. A good line of thought. So you think sexual intercourse should be underpined by money and material stuff changing hands? Would you teach your kids and younger ones (male or female) that this is the right attitude to wards sex? My dear, I just want to know your thoughts on the above. As a person who believes in gender equality (pay, promotion, legal rights in everything), I consider it a bit demeaning to women for girls to accept that their body (and consent to sex) is a commodity that a man can pay money/goods for and use at will. And pay next time and use again. Whether a man asks for sex with green eyes or red eyes, no woman is obligated to sleep with him. There's something called marriage. That's not a bad place to get laid. |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 4:30am On Jan 03, 2015 |
AreaFada2:so glad you mentioned the highlighted. If everyone, men particularly could wait for marriage before they start demanding for this and that, the world would have been a better place, no woman will have the moral justification to ask him for material gifts. As per your question, I will teach them to wait till marriage before involving in any sexual act. You talk about both parties having sexual urge, that may be correct looking at it loosely. But have you seen a woman putting pressure on you for sex? Have you seen any woman calling you day in and out asking when you are coming to her house and all that? There are a lot of men who cannot date a woman who refuses to sleep with them. Btw this is a counter thread to one created by a male titled " apart from sex what else can a man gain from a woman in a relationship" (something like that) go there and see the male folk saying categorically that there is nothing more to gain. So you see. Men are the major problem, women are naturally weaker, so with pressure it's difficult to keep saying no. |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by AreaFada2: 4:05pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
firstEVA: My dear in that thread, you make it appear like sex is a matter of profit and loss. So men gladly followed your train of thought. Just because the male folk said so doesn't put "NAFDAC number" on your argument. It doesn't make it solid. In my opinion, sex is not like spare parts, recharge card or supermarket business. Like you're in it for the profit. To portray women as the weaker sex these days is just convenient. Women's soft power is enormous. And they have wielded it with much skill since Adam & Eve. Turai Yar'Adua and Paypay Jonathan come to mind. If I understand your position, women have discovered a big market in men's libidinous antics and are exploiting it. But claim they're just doing it because pressure from men is so great. Really? In our culture, men ask women out. Women can refuse. What they find difficult to resist is the cash, Peruvian hair, iphone, bb, shopping, etc When will some women take responsibility for their own decisions and not claim weaker sex? If women commit adultery, oh it's because the man is not good in bed, his preek is not big enough. Women never admit that after sleeping with tens of men of hugely varying manliness sizes, they might have expanded their "under" beyond point of elasticity. Even women who lie down there like a log of wood still blame men for no fun. Have you done a survey to find out how many young girls would wait till marriage b4 sex? Excluding those who sleep with 4 men regularly but claim virgin to the mugu she wants to marry? A girl that has already had an abortion once tried to pretend to be a virgin. What I later discovered was a dual carriage way. Until you can prove that women have sex at gunpoint or knifepoint, the weaker sex line won't cut it. Promiscuity and greed are more likely reasons. |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:23pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
Mrsfaithhh:When will the babe make her own money? Seun, this post is old enough to be deleted from Nairaland's servers. |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by HARDDON: 3:30am On Jan 04, 2015 |
koyyess: There is a difference between been broke and poor people! Broke: this simply means out of cash at the very moment either due to some investment or salaries haven't been paid. Or mismanagement Poor: this has nothing to do with not having money. Being poor is more of a mental/mind issue. U ain't poor because u got no money, u are poor because u blatantly refused to put ur mind to use and create wealth. An idea could be worth millions. So poor people have wrong perspectives n poor minds. So a guy can be broke one moment, the next he is up. But the poor needs mental repositioning n readjustment . because d poor that wins 1mill lottery soon squanders d money n returns to its poor mind state. |
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by rsleeky(f): 9:22am On Jan 04, 2015 |
Dating a rich guy dsnt guarantee a lasting relationship......I don't c relationship as an avenue of making money so dating a broke guy is no big deal...u get sincerity n a hrt dt truly cares cos sm guys can fake bin rich just to get anytin 1 Like |
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