And men, will you give your wife the go ahead, if that act
appears to be the last resort?

No way , i'll pray for him and he will be healed.

elantraceey:
No way , i'll pray for him and he will be healed.

Lol @ prayer warrior

No, I can't do that

What if the woman does it and the husband dies?at least u knw its one thing to be able to afford a surgery and another thing for d surgery to be successful...right?

Yeah right.

It's only prayer that can save him

Sharperly. If he dies, I will miss him dearly and eventually move on. So when won't someone else 'touch' his wife. If I love him dearly, I would do anything to protect him including concealing that little truth from him.

Nooooo!

@moreeni,weigh all the implications well o.

1. What if he survives the surgery and finds out and detests you for violating yourself?

2. Of course u would hide the "little secret" from him and one day, he hears it from somewhere. How do you think he would feel?

3. The guy you slept with wants more of the action but you don't want to give in and he's threatening to tell your husband or even starts blackmailing you. What would you do?

kreamidiva:
Nooooo!

@moreeni,weigh all the implications well o.

1. What if he survives the surgery and finds out and detests you for violating yourself?

2. Of course u would hide the "little secret" from him and one day, he hears it from somewhere. How do you think he would feel?

3. The guy you slept with wants more of the action but you don't want to give in and he's threatening to tell your husband or even starts blackmailing you. What would you do?

@kreamidiva, we are talking life&death here. The guy I commit with self wouldn't be parting with such huge amount for 30mins together if he doesn't have an idea of what's going on. Hmmmm, maybe I will tell hubby eventually. I just know I would do anything to keep my flocks alive...my bad.

ogtavia:
What if the woman does it and the husband dies?at least u knw its one thing to be able to afford a surgery and another thing for d surgery to be successful...right?

You are very right, that's a good thought.

moreeni:



@kreamidiva, we are talking life&death here. The guy I commit with self wouldn't be parting with such huge amount for 30mins together if he doesn't have an idea of what's going on. Hmmmm, maybe I will tell hubby eventually. I just know I would do anything to keep my flocks alive...my bad.

the fact that he knows and wants more will make him blackmail you. its very difficult and once your husband finds out, mheeeeeeeeeeeeen, thats the end of the mariage oooo (for most guys)

kreamidiva:
Nooooo!

@moreeni,weigh all the implications well o.

1. What if he survives the surgery and finds out and detests you for violating yourself?

2. Of course u would hide the "little secret" from him and one day, he hears it from somewhere. How do you think he would feel?

3. The guy you slept with wants more of the action but you don't want to give in and he's threatening to tell your husband or even starts blackmailing you. What would you do?

So it is better he dies?

carefreewannabe:


So it is better he dies?

No. I'd rather pray and fast for him.

What if he dies while I'm sleeping with the other guy? What if he eventually dies just as I'm entering the hospital?

This is how I feel though...

What if he dies with the prayers and all?
What if he haunts you after death because you failed to save him?
This is how i feel though.......

kreamidiva:


No. I'd rather pray and fast for him.

What if he dies while I'm sleeping with the other guy? What if he eventually dies just as I'm entering the hospital?

This is how I feel though...

YES!

She should do it. I will gladly do it myself if the situation is reversed.

Zeemoor:
What if he dies with the prayers and all?
What if he haunts you after death because you failed to save him?
This is how i feel though.......

Lol. If he dies after the prayers, then it's his time to die. God doesn't say "oops!" He knows the end from the beginning.

He cannot haunt me after his death because he knows that his life wasn't in my hands.

Even if he tells me to do it, I won't agree.

This is how I feel though.

kreamidiva:


No. I'd rather pray and fast for him.

What if he dies while I'm sleeping with the other guy? What if he eventually dies just as I'm entering the hospital?

This is how I feel though...

What if he dies despite your praying and fasting?

carefreewannabe:


What if he dies despite your praying and fasting?

Then it's his time to die.

Even if I sleep with another guy,there is no guarantee that he would survive. Besides, what if he finds out what I did and sends me packing because of it??

I'm not a saint but this one, I no fit do am.

I'd rather she leaves me to die if that is her only option to save me. I don't think I can look her in the eye if I know she did such a thing. That is too humiliating for me.

kreamidiva:


Then it's his time to die.

Even if I sleep with another guy,there is no guarantee that he would survive. Besides, what if he finds out what I did and sends me packing because of it??

I'm not a saint but this one, I no fit do am.

I am the last person to sell my body for money but if that was to save a loved person's life, I MIGHT do it. If my husband decides to leave me because of this, then let it be so, at least my kids would still have a father and he would still be alive. If he still dies, then I have at least tried to save his life.

I remember those days when robbers wanted to kill our neighbours husband except they have carnal knowledge of the wife. The wife had to give in but the marriage never remained same again.

carefreewannabe:


I am the last person to sell my body for money but if that was to save a loved person's life, I MIGHT do it. If my husband decides to leave me because of this, then let it be so, at least my kids would still have a father and he would still be alive. If he still dies, then I have at least tried to save his life.

My dear o, to everyone his own.

kreamidiva:


My dear o, to everyone his own.

You are right.

kreamidiva:


Lol. If he dies after the prayers, then it's his time to die. God doesn't say "oops!" He knows the end from the beginning.

He cannot haunt me after his death because he knows that his life wasn't in my hands.

Even if he tells me to do it, I won't agree.

This is how I feel though.

I see an ODM user.

I'm against selling yhur body 4 money bt if my husband's life is at stake, I'd do anything at all for him.

smokescreen4:
I see an ODM user.

Lol.... My dear eh... That ODM dey inspire me real good!

21 days on the way....

Moreeni, I give you

Nope

stag:
Moreeni, I give you

i am very very disappointed in you!!!
why did you stop your thread "saints ,sinners and stag "

I wont cause the day the man finds out, things will most likely never be the same

VICTORCIZA:
i am very very disappointed in you!!!
why did you stop your thread "saints ,sinners and stag "

it will continue soon sir

Meanwhile you can check with my siggy bro