₦airaland Forum

ogtavia:
I slightly disagree with you thorpido...your parents are too controlling which is expected of good and loving parents,are you d only child or d only son...my parents are like dt...always keeping tabs on me,I can't go out without being asked a barrage of questions,dey want to knw wats happening to me at every point in time,I dnt see anything wrong with it but it gets on my nerve each time they put fear into it and try to convince or force me not to do what I want to do,..I am nt d stubborn type or d one who goes out evrytime,I enjoy staying indoors,...each time I go out,my dad tells me nt go beyond 50km/h,my mom tells me where to park ( if she knws where I am goin) and such like,it cud be funny atimes to me but most times,its drives me mad,I just manage to comport myself and nt say or do anything dt I will regret,anytime I travel,by instructn,I am supposed to tell dem where I am...but truth be said,u must show ur parents that u're reliable,wise and can do good on ur own (this is a long shot though,u wnt get this trust from them 100%)...u must learn to be independent,are you d type dt asks for all sort of money even church offering money,d more u ask for money,d more u keep belittling urself,I used to be at dt stage too myself,where I cudnt do anything without asking for money,now I am barely out of school,but I av bin making some little money back in skul,thnx to God Almighty and Architecture...look,endure it for now,its what makes them parents,it will soon be over,just give it to them for now,let them savour it,if dts d little u can do,but for no reason should u ever disrespect or insult them or exchange words with them,don't u ever do dt and dnt do anything that will reduce their trust in you..all d best.

trigar12:
Well, am 21years old and I just finished my ND program. Currently am looking ƒσя company(ies) to observe my one year industrial attachment. I won a phone on a radio station in VI, lagos and am to redeem the my price between monday 5th to friday, I told my dad about it and told him I'll be going to the place tomorrow and I also want to use the opportunity to drop my IT letter in some companies in VI. He called my uncle and told him he dosen't know Wђεяﻉ am going to and that the place am going to might be a ploy ƒσя ritual stuff. I ve been receiving calls from various family members talking to me like a child. Am just angry, they don't even know what I do when am in school or Wђεяﻉ I goto in school, though I don't engage in any bad parole. Am just pissed off .... Don't know what to do. I need advice, cos am tired of being looked at like a 15yr old child.

trigar12:
Well, am 21years old and I just finished my ND program. Currently am looking ƒσя company(ies) to observe my one year industrial attachment. I won a phone on a radio station in VI, lagos and am to redeem the my price between monday 5th to friday, I told my dad about it and told him I'll be going to the place tomorrow and I also want to use the opportunity to drop my IT letter in some companies in VI. He called my uncle and told him he dosen't know Wђεяﻉ am going to and that the place am going to might be a ploy ƒσя ritual stuff. I ve been receiving calls from various family members talking to me like a child. Am just angry, they don't even know what I do when am in school or Wђεяﻉ I goto in school, though I don't engage in any bad parole. Am just pissed off .... Don't know what to do. I need advice, cos am tired of being looked at like a 15yr old child.

gidjah:
You are still a child my dear,your parents wants the best for you,they will never be happy and would be forever sad if something goes wrong with you dear,you will never understand all this untill you become a father,i just came to appreciate every of my fathers 'FOOLISHNESS OF OVER Protection'now vict i am a father!can you take care of your self if you happen to fall into the hands of evil people?if any of your elder will need to accompain there pls accept.if you vict natured mentally and other wise,he will have complained o!pls take it easy.

timilehing:
You don't understand the guy's reason for this post, do you? Some times as a man, you have to take decisions on your own, you plan on your own &create your own path to follow. Some parents are just too overprotective to the extent that their children can't decide anything on their own until they consult their parents (even after marriage). Parents are parents but they can't always control your life. I started making my own decisions when I was 18(it wasn't easy) but today, my parents are proud of who I become. I started by paying for my WAEC resit, pay for my JAMB & I don't eat at home except dinner.While under them, I provide for myself, I work and I depend on my #4500 salary then to survive. Throughout my university days, I only collected school fees from home, all other things-I was working off campus to get them. I hope you understand my little experience