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I met this lady some months back and things are really working right with us,but I was just having some kind of conversation with her some days back and I asked her to change her sim,initially she said NO,but I insisted she must change it as this would at least reduce some unnecessary calls and conversation with some of her old friends and sweeties,but she later said,ok she would change it if I can give her my samsung S4,and I said OK..that's just where the conversation ends..please do you think I can ever have a good time relationship with this lady,because I love her so much and really wants to marry her,but how can a lady request for such before she would agree to change her sim,I guess she must be the demanding type..kindly advice me please...

You can never have a good relationship with her because you never trusted her, how in earth will a guy tell me to change my sim just because he wants me. I liv in the USA and my number is on virtually all my datas, it's Better the guy walks away. As for your girlfriend asking for your phone, she's just too cheap, she's changing her sim for S4

Note: changing of sim doesn't guarantee your lady won't cheat, she probably will still have the number of her constant customers in her diary or somewhere

If you give her eh, devil,mami water,obanje, and ogun


Will strike you down

Changing her sim is the only way you can be sure she's not cheating? That's lame.
A girl who wants to cheat will cheat, and demanding for your phone is pure greed. Nawa oo.
You both are acting immature(no insult intended)

You dnt trust her in the first place for telling her to change her sim. Unless she doesn't have a life outside her relationship with you, I c no reason she should change her sim.I know I will not do such a thing-sacrifice my friendship with other pple, throw away my business contacts because na only you b the guy wey dey ds planet. she asked for ur S4 in return and u dey whine.
P.S. dnt give her the phone cos i dnt think she's being honest and dnt tell her to change her sim.

No be only s4 na iphone6. Don't give her!

Bros, she saw through your desperation.
Why would you ask a lady to change her sim, when she's not your wife yet?(even married people don't change their sim anymore). I believe that's going too far, and it reeks of insecurity, too much jealousy and low self esteem. If a lady wants to change her way of life because of you, nothing can stop her(not even the devil), in the same vein if she doesn't want to change, you can't impose it on her. (Years ago, a girl I was seeing told me that her BBM contact is so enormous because she's been using the BB for long, that when she gets a new PIN, it will all change. I got her a new BB on her birthday, and made sure she didn't use her previous BBID, but guess what? Days later the contact list has been replenished. I later discovered that she had given out the new PIN on her Facebook account).
Giving her the phone wouldn't change anything, and she already knows that you can't give her the phone(if you could have, we wouldn't be discussing this right now ).
My Advice: become so great a guy that a lady wouldn't wanna lose you, and you would be shocked at how much change they would go through just to stay with you.
Good luck sire.

U see as life be? U can't let go ur S4 and you want her to let go her sim, the gel sef dey demand cheap instead of asking for that small tin within ur legs....then u knw how far, smart gel u wan give am bad market

incase dis reaches fp

samflexxy:
If you give her eh, devil,mami water,obanje, and ogun


Will strike you down

i support you

Extom:
Bros, she saw through your desperation.
Why would you ask a lady to change her sim, when she's not your wife yet?(even married people don't change their sim anymore). I believe that's going too far, and it reeks of insecurity, too much jealousy and low self esteem. If a lady wants to change her way of life because of you, nothing can stop her(not even the devil), in the same vein if she doesn't want to change, you can't impose it on her. (Years ago, a girl I was seeing told me that her BBM contact is so enormous because she's been using the BB for long, that when she gets a new PIN, it will all change. I got her a new BB on her birthday, and made sure she didn't use her previous BBID, but guess what? Days later the contact list has been replenished. I later discovered that she had given out the new PIN on her Facebook account).
Giving her the phone wouldn't change anything, and she already knows that you can't give her the phone(if you could have, we wouldn't be discussing this right now ).
My Advice: become so great a guy that a lady wouldn't wanna lose you, and you would be shocked at how much change they would go through just to stay with you.
Good luck sire.

another reasonable comment

Romancelanders are making nice comments sice ystd

why will in this world somebody will tell another person to change her sim.
Na you be her papa or abi you don marry her.

The girl mercy for you self na iphone6 she for ask.mtcheew

op just take a mirror effect on yourself and look at yourself very well, don't you see you are the problem here? how can you tell a girl you haven't married to change her sim because of you, oh you want her to loose her friends, and if you guys break up, what will happen. to tell you the truth that is selfishness. you can't just try to change a person because of yourself, its not right.
imagine she was your sister and some dude asked her to do the same, what will you advice her

you are here asking questions, on the contrary she should be the one asking this question

Op,hope you will change your sim too?

Thanks for the comments..but I think she can just tell me NO and stand on it,instead of her demanding for something for what she wants to do,I guess she won't. turn out to start demanding for CAR before she can even allow me f**k her later in future..please guyz,just wanna know if I can spend the rest of my life with her..thanks peeps

if u wanna av a suxsesful relationship u av to take off ur eyes off sum things

lakad4u:
Thanks for the comments..but I think she can just tell me NO and stand on it,instead of her demanding for something for what she wants to do,I guess she won't. turn out to start demanding for CAR before she can even allow me f**k her later in future..please guyz,just wanna know if I can spend the rest of my life with her..thanks peeps

take a very good look at ur own self....where d gal dey now she for don gada all ha friends dey gist dem as u mumu reach. She told u NO earlier n u were still insistent coz of ya selfish reasons...she saw an avenue to be selfish too n u come up here blabbing rubbish about how u might not be able to spend d rest of ya life with her. The question is"can she be able to spend d rest of ha life with u" cunning man die, cunning man bury am

Lol, op u Bleep up sha
she's an adult,and you are not her father.
You can't ask her to change her sim cause your are not comfy with it.its so uncalled for.
And as for your s4,no try give am o,dis 1 wey she specifically point the phone,maybe na the s4 she see for your hand wen she agree date you.
She don dey time am since
oloshi

I'm tired of this sensor shii

lakad4u:
I met this lady some months back and things are really working right with us,but I was just having some kind of conversation with her some days back and I asked her to change her sim,initially she said NO,but I insisted she must change it as this would at least reduce some unnecessary calls and conversation with some of her old friends and sweeties,but she later said,ok she would change it if I can give her my samsung S4,and I said OK..that's just where the conversation ends..please do you think I can ever have a good time relationship with this lady,because I love her so much and really wants to marry her,but how can a lady request for such before she would agree to change her sim,I guess she must be the demanding type..kindly advice me please...

Complaining about ur s4, do you know what it means to change ur line? So she cant have a life becos of u abi?

You are possesive. Pls grow up.

Op u are selfish and immature. I pity this lady. She will suffer in ur hands if she marries u.

samflexxy:
If you give her eh, devil,mami water,obanje, and ogun


Will strike you down

AMEN