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Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 8:32am On Jan 11, 2015 |
@op, although I am the last in my family - I know what you are talking about, and personally I am not planning to have more than 3. There are family planning methods that can be used by the women (even without the consent of the husband). As a woman's age advance, there are higher chances of many problems in pregnancy - Hypertension, During delivery - death from complications of labour from FATIGUE - Deathfrom bleeding etc The Child - Abnormal children - all those down syndrome etc Even if all that one is survived, the country e hard no be small. 4 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 9:02am On Jan 11, 2015 |
RedBenson: I expect adults to know that it imlpies 8 children when you exclude two parents. 6 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by BlackLeopard(m): 9:16am On Jan 11, 2015 |
It's her body, she do what she needs do. I get your concern tho, talk to her about it? Talk to family members that can talk to her if you can't yourself? Or maybe a trusted family friend that can open up a dialog should even that fail? Like first, don't let it be eating up just you, man. I'm sure more people be having the same worries you are having and talkin dem out do good fi all. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by BlackLeopard(m): 9:19am On Jan 11, 2015 |
dhtml18: They not abnormal children tho. They're just babies with different chromosomes than those without it. (Technical note, let's not call the sweethearts that.) |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 10:12am On Jan 11, 2015 |
This one strong oh. How do you tell your Dad to stop ? |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by bukatyne(f): 10:30am On Jan 11, 2015 |
MissMeiya: Nice one MissMeiya OP, please take this advice God will be your strength 3 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Lukmanraji(m): 10:33am On Jan 11, 2015 |
na wa ooo... your papa never make it a dozen nw.. he's just getting started. Anyway, never look at the back side of your family, concentrate on your studies and be a good ambassador of your family. With time, things will change and turn around to good. a word is enough for the wise. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by etomama(f): 12:43pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Nobleval:Well said. You aptly captured my thought on 0P's dillema. Its high time u sit ur mum down and tell her your worries. Family planning is d best option for her after her safe delivery. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Elinob(m): 1:08pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Why must he not be comfortable in his mum's pregnancy 1 Like |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Daresh(f): 1:18pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
You need to take your dad for a vasectomy. 8 kids in this economy is plain ridiculous. Even the rich no dey born like that. 6 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by rolled: 1:49pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Elinob:Are you well? 1 Like |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 2:14pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
virginboy1:Breathe in/out: say it is well and watch it work. Some are actually in worse situations, not wishing you ill. I understand...it's gonna get better |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by kushsy: 2:32pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Ur mum is very fertile but have a talk with her so it won't happen again. Her life is at risk here..dont be troubled God will make ways for you and your siblings,my old man is doing same to us with a second wife but me I told him plainly,he must make sure he stays alive to cater for them...callas |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Missmossy(f): 4:00pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
Eeyah I understand perfectly, all is well. Your mom will have a stressfree pregnancy by His grace. Just make her understand your fears and am sure she would see reasons with you also. Good luck. 3 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 4:24pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
striktlymi: Did you make any significant inclusion of parents in your post? You clearly stated 10 children. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 4:28pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
RedBenson: Don't make me doubt your ability to comprehend. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 4:35pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
The command to multiply and fill the earth has long been fulfilled. Now we are in the era of one woman one child biological or adopted. Enlightened people should help their communities to spread the knowledge of family planning. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 4:35pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
striktlymi: And dont make me think that every post is meant for comprehension. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 4:46pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
RedBenson: Without comprehension, it is impossible to understand written or posted words. I wonder how a "family of ten" is interpreted as "10 children" in your books. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by SUV(f): 5:08pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
@Op: you sounded more selfich than being concerned. its about radsing the children within one's means. i am a good product of a large family raised within the means (scarce resources for that matter), none of my mate is better than me by the grace of God. when some parents build houses and amass wealth for the 10th generation unborn (which is laragely the problem of this country), what will the children do when they grow up? they will not even border to pass WAEC cos they are made already. Abeg, free ur parents joor. and focus on making the best out of your life. have they told you they are having a problem with raising their kids? focus on health challenges biko as that is the only thing that will make sense from your post. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Mekybliss(f): 6:01pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
It's simple. Just get her family planning drugs and tell her it's for vitamin after this very baby. But wait she is 40 !!! Omg you father shaa. Smh |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by SenatorJames(m): 6:14pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
virginboy1:Its less of your problem. You are only their child like any other member of the family, even though its not good enough bearing too much in this present economy, but its their choice. Concerning how it will affect you financially, just manage and graduate, after that support the family with anything you have, bearing in mind you will soon have your own family. Learn from them now!!! |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by diesel86: 7:17pm On Jan 11, 2015 |
DesChyko:Pls leave God out of this, if i were to have my way there would be a law forbidding people not to have more than two children, any more than that would attract heavy tax.... 7 kids haba. 2 Likes |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by MicroBox: 12:05am On Jan 12, 2015 |
why your own ache..na you dey give her the bele abi your dad no still dey alive. who assure you say you go get rich before your sibling... Just tell us you come from lowest class and your dad is not seeing that as an hindrance .. see as he dey complain like say na you create yourself.. Mouth wey God don create must eat *period* |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Simoneblosson(m): 2:25am On Jan 12, 2015 |
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Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by virginboy1(m): 5:26am On Jan 12, 2015 |
[quote author=SUV post=29700344]@Op: you sounded more selfich than being concerned. its about radsing the children within one's means. i am a good product of a large family raised within the means (scarce resources for that matter), none of my mate is better than me by the grace of God. when some parents build houses and amass wealth for the 10th generation unborn (which is laragely the problem of this country), what will the children do when they grow up? they will not even border to pass WAEC cos they are made already. Abeg, free ur parents joor. Selfish how? Please pinpoint the selfishness.Moreover,if you check the first page,FriedPlantain and Nobleval have explicitly expressed my concerns. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by virginboy1(m): 5:36am On Jan 12, 2015 |
Simoneblosson:My brother i wondered how depressed you might have been then,Similar melancholized feelings also hovers over me whenever am in my family house. Just imagine the loss of your precious sibling because of lack of luxury,cause by unwarranted burden. All is well 1 Like |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by virginboy1(m): 5:57am On Jan 12, 2015 |
emusmith:Am not offended Sir,it is a discretion which i either concur with or not. Thanks |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by virginboy1(m): 5:57am On Jan 12, 2015 |
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Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by DesChyko: 9:13am On Jan 12, 2015 |
diesel86: Leaving God out of this is like leaving humans out of existence. Be aware that some people have no kids to speak of. |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by mutter(f): 10:27am On Jan 12, 2015 |
diesel86: Abeg come tax me now! You want to use my tax to take care of the two others have |
Re: He Is Not Comfortable About His Mum's Pregnancy by Nobody: 10:32am On Jan 12, 2015 |
I get how you feel this kind of thing can be very upsetting but don't worry situations like this have a way of sorting itself out. |
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