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wordbank:
true true uve got alotta behind
n u come resemble one beta pikin

*rolls n falls from bed* wetin ur eyes find go der ehh!

mimicious:
Sweet heart please tell me! What of the case where d girl stays with d guy when he has nothing, alomg d line things takes a new shape in his live. He lives d girl for a more Behind babe. What will u say about this

Babie i doubt it.. he cnt do dat ..d both strugle nah..i knw he wil surely be with her til enternity..unless if d man only huzle for himself .he can do dat buh since both parties..he cant..lik wise me i respect ladies lik dat..i wil neva hurt any1 ..my conscience tels me..

eyitayojazz:
Babie i doubt it.. he cnt do dat ..d both strugle nah..i knw he wil surely be with her til enternity..unless if d man only huzle for himself .he can do dat buh since both parties..he cant..lik wise me i respect ladies lik dat..i wil neva hurt any1 ..my conscience tels me..

Sweet heart speak for urself!! Human being are un-predictable

mimicious:
Sweet heart speak for urself!! Human being are un-predictable

babie i knw ...huh! can u pm me?

Dammyllionaire:
I must say i'm highly disappointed with most of the comments here, the op never say this attributes are not good for a successful marriage but there are several things Ladies need to consider before stepping into the relationship such as
1. Responsibility,
2. Care
3. God fearing.
4. Rest of mind. Etc.

A man that have all this above listed attribute may not have this necessary xteristics and what's the essence of Money or Big car or Big place of work when your husband is not responsible, he is not caring, he is not God fearing and you dont have a complete day rest of mind.

That's the point he is coming from and some useless entity on this forum decided to rain insult on him for this wonderful piece of advice.

We are of like mind, i wonder why some people think irrationally! This is a very useful piece that any reasonable lady can use as a yardstick when making a choice of marriage partner. Not all that glitter are gold!

Nmeri17:
**mhurdified**
OP I concur with yo numbers 2 and 5!!

a woman will say she wants a man that is strong/muscular and hardworking but will pick a banker over carpenter or mechanic please who works harder between a mechanic and banker?? who gat more muscular looks??

popcykaylah:
these kind chicks are always dreaming of marrying Mr perfect..but if you reach thier papa house ...you go see poverty at its peak,and the worst part is that they are lazy..

I tell u that's what most Naija babe's do now....many of them are home based ashis......I tell u

deparagon:
Many Ladies are known to base their marital decisions on things
that will not
endure a life-time. These have led many of them into wrong
marriages and life time bondage. We need to
identify and deal with them:


1) HEIGHT: Every girl’s dream is to marry a tall, dark guy with a
baritone
voice, I wonder where they got the idea that tall guys are better
in marriage. Hey Girls, tall guys can give
you tall problems; it is not the height that matters but the depth
of the guy
in God and in character.


2) MUSCLE: Muscular and heavy looking guys are also
fortunate, they are
seen to be good suitors, and girls do say “they look manly” “they
look like
real men”. Sorry Girls, muscles do not make a real man,
character and ability
to shoulder responsibility do. A guy with muscle without
character will use
his muscles to deal with you and batter your beautiful face.


3) A WELL SET HOUSE:
A guy with a well set house is the dream of any girl any day.
Many girls will throw caution into the wind to grab a man who
have
a house with King size; beautiful Italian
Setter, micro wave oven, home theater, refrigerator, gas cooker,
Plasma TV,6 by 6 bed, well stuff Kitchen, Dining table, washing
machine, dish washers, split unit air conditioner etc is a dream
catch for
girls any day. Sorry girl, a well set house is good but it may be a
well set
trouble if the guy is not a man of character, manners or
discretion, he will make the house look like a prison yard for you.


4) FAT BANK ACCOUNT: Girls are fond
of trying to know how rich a guy is by checking the guy’s phones
for bank
alerts. They joyfully decide to marry a guy when they discover
the guy is
very rich with fat Bank balance. What a
mistake? They don’t want to know where the money is coming
from; they
don’t even want to know what the guy does for a living. What
concerns them
is the money that is available to be spent. Many girls ended up
finding
themselves entangled for life in this kind of situation, don’t base
your marriage on GREED, it won’t turn to
GREEN.


5) PLACE OF WORK:
Some of our girls are in the habit of making marital decision
base on the place a guy
works. You dare not talk of marriage to them if you are a
Teacher or civil
servant. You dare not propose them if you are working with a
small firm, or one man business. What an error?
Girls note that, that a guy works in ACCESS BANK does not
mean he will
give you ACCESS to his heart or peace
of mind. A guy that works in SHELL may put your life in a SHELL
forever,
you may not be the FIRST in the life of a guy that works in FIRST
BANK, a guy
that work in GUARANTEE TRUST BANK may not GUARANTEE
your future. He
may be working in NESTLE but not SETTLE you at home, So it is
not about
where he is working but about who is
working in Him, God or devil.


6) ROMANCE: A young lady said, “The guy is romantic, hot and
sexy, i will
marry him” Stop girl!!!!, Romance is not enough for marriage.
The truth is,
most so called romantic guys don’t remain like that after
wedding. Marry a
guy base on qualities that will endure, romance don’t last
forever, go and ask
married women.


7) TYPE OF CAR:
A whole lots of girls will be enticed by a guy driving a big
and expensive car. Some will not even go out with a guy that
does not have a
car. If you want to mess yourself as a guy, ride on a bike to go
and propose
to a lady, you will hear the story of your life. Ladies, a guy that
has a CAR
may not CARE for you, life is not about CAR, it is about marrying
somebody
that will CARE for your future.
AND: Most girls will readily marry anybody with US or UK
passports, Lots
of girls have destroyed their lives in the process of looking for
somebody
with a foreign passport to marry.


RICH PARENT: Children of Rich parents are easy target for
many young girls not because they are in
love with them, but they know they will have access to money
and connection. Many of these guys come
from rich are pompous, cocky, proud and will be terrible and
irresponsible
husbands and fathers tomorrow but girls will not care about
that, Most of
these girls do live to regret their wrong decision.
Don’t marry anybody just because the parents are rich, marry
the person for
who he is and the love you share together.

http://totalfamilylife.com/2014/10/12-wrong-things-girls-check-before-marrying-a-guy/

MY EXACT CHOICE OF A MAN HEHEHEHE

So what should they now look out for in a guy? I don't entirely subscribe to your points. Its like asking me not to chose either Samsung, Lumia, Iphone, Blackberry, LG etc when considering my choice of phone. what kind of phone are my supposed to go for when all these have been marked out as a No-go area?

Abeg tell them o