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Most guys are so engulfed in this untrue misconception and
stereotype about girls who are virgins being the best potential WIFE MATERIALS. That's an ancient myth and the earlier we the guys push aside that outdated gist then our name is Sorry.

What has been a virgin got to do with character and attitude? I see most guys saying "I can't marry any girl who has been deflowered" you can imagine! Are you marrying a girl's virginity or the girl herself? Some girls lost theirs not willingly, some were raped, while some faced some unavoidable circumstances and the hymen just had to go.

I'm not in anyway trying to make premarital sex justifiable, though its a good thing for a girl to keep her pride till marriage, but the truth be told you being a virgin doesn't make you any better than a girl who lost hers. Some of this so called virgin girls have the worst characters ever. Some are saucy, rude, lack home training and bloody pretenders. Some can't cook, can't wash, can't even do common home cleaning, all they do is sit and say I'm a virgin, "husband sure for me", eh for where? Not anymore! You go die with that your virginity ooo.

Though to me as a guy once I know a girl is not a virgin its only natural for me to have this feeling that she is not a good girl but that doesn't mean I would start judging her or seeing her as a filthy person. Guys let's just stop this dry stigmatization on non_virgins. Look for a girl who has satisfied the qualities of a virtuous woman and not just a virgin or be prepared for an unhappy marriage then I will just be laughing at you.

kinggenesis:
Though to me as a guy once I know a girl is not a virgin its only natural for me to have this feeling that she is not a good girl but that doesn't mean I would start judging her or seeing her as a filthy person. Guys let's just stop this dry stigmatization on non_virgins. Look for a girl who has satisfied the qualities of a virtuous woman and not just a virgin or be prepared for an unhappy marriage then I will just be laughing at you.

Bro, you already judged her

Priceless24:
Bro, you already judged her

That's why I'm calling for a change of attitude.

, Some gals lost their virginity through rape which is unintentional

This thread reminds me of Ella who announced to me without being asked that she is a virgin but was so damn boring and had a parochial view of marriage. I don't know why some virgins and guys have this distorted perception of virginity but the truth is that virgins are just like any other girl but with 'hymen'. It changes nothing.

I don't even want anything to do with virgins

kinggenesis:
What has been a virgin got to do with character and attitude? I see most guys saying "I can't marry any girl who has been deflowered" you can imagine! Are you marrying a girl's virginity or the girl herself? Some girls lost theirs not willingly, some were raped, while some faced some unavoidable circumstances and the hymen just had to go.. Some of this so called virgin girls have the worst characters ever..

this very lines interest me most, i thought character is what men should look for and not if she's a virgin or not. Beside those marrying a virgin guarantee that you will go to heaven Guys should wiseup o before you marry someone that will make you meet your waterloo.

It's enough already.

Stop using virginity to control & determine women sexuality and their value. I mean can't men be virgins too; why make women the cynosure...

I will look for a virgin lady who has the qualities of a virtuous woman and marry her. = Diamond package

hmmm ds seem to b an attack on the virgin girls. Virgin girls, keep it up o, dnt mind dem.

Op wat re u saying
See most guys dnt like virgins

Priceless24:
Bro, you already judged her

i hope your own is secured?

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