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MzNelly:
I'm not talking of experiences here; I'm talking of things I've seen.
Many people? Truth be told, the only "first lovers" I've seen get married are my parents and...well, Mrs Rokiatu.
Factors may warrant that "first lovers" who swear heaven and earth in promising not to leave each other still part ways and find, even greater happiness in someone else's arms.

This whole "first love" issue is seriously overrated. And I stand here to say today, that THERE IS NOTHING SPECIAL ABOUT ONE'S FIRST LOVE.

Are you still with yours?

NiceMan4:
Dating is good, it exposes both of you. You know yourselves better, and yes, no one is perfect, but you are aware of each other's imperfections, you work to adjust it.

I know many people will argue that dating helps you to know the right man or woman-there is actually no perfect one, dating only helps us to get familar with each other, along with our good and bad sides. Because of that argument, people continue to jump from one girl/boy to another in search of mr or mrs right, and most times this search is frustrating because non of those you meet seem to be right in your perception, so who then is the right or perfect one? Are you perfect to start with? At the end of the day, we hurt ourselves instead of finding what we desired.

These are the effects of dating who you'll not marry.

You feel guilty of your past deeds. Especially the females, you remember all the rough play you had with some guys back then, and you feel guilty.

You are hurt: As one relationship terminate and the other, there are always tears of heartbreak.

You may develope feelings for your past lovers, and then you may just cheat. This can kill your marriage, you know.

You are likely to love your present spouse less than you normally would.. Because you've loved several men or women before, and it seems love is not even real again.

You may be ashamed of some people you dated before, especially when you attain greatness.

Please, keep to one boy or girl and be faithful to him or her. Let your first love also be your last love. I know what I'm saying. The love and affection you share is unqualifiable.

vhickky:
It's very true....especially the guilt and hurt part....they both sucks,it truly pays to wait than to date around

sekzy99:
u better brush ur teeth n tongue before u quote me

fuckerholic:
Is it a lie ?