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Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by AnnieBeyonce(f): 11:26pm On Jan 26, 2015
What do u think about a guy dat is always doubting u..he always wana kwn abt ur way about, even wen u tell him d truth he kep askin.." ar u sure" "hmmm".. and always tinkin u are dating anoda guy...is it dat he dosnt love u at all?
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by oluwakekz(m): 11:27pm On Jan 26, 2015
Maybe they are not meant to be together. #notrust #nolove

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Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by siegfried99(m): 11:28pm On Jan 26, 2015
No.. it's might be a case of u not been straightforward with him at times and always creating reasons for him to doubt u

Or u have let him down once.

Or its not meant to be.. bcuz, there is no point been in a relationship without trust.

Or maybe he is actually the one cheating grin
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by farano(f): 11:29pm On Jan 26, 2015
I can't date that kind of man.
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by oluwakekz(m): 11:31pm On Jan 26, 2015
farano:
I can't date that kind of man.
Yinmu
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by farano(f): 11:33pm On Jan 26, 2015
oluwakekz:

Yinmu
See one of them tongue
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by AnnieBeyonce(f): 11:33pm On Jan 26, 2015
Hmmm..but he is actually ur first love...and u love him so much
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by elantraceey(f): 11:34pm On Jan 26, 2015
I can't be in a relationship without trust , it's just a waste of time.
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by Allureoftheseas(m): 11:38pm On Jan 26, 2015
Cnt trust non of this nigerian whores. Bitches aint Loyal#

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Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by alberto2k(m): 11:39pm On Jan 26, 2015
elantraceey:
I can't be in a relationship without trust , it's just a waste of time.
La verdad wink
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by AnnieBeyonce(f): 11:43pm On Jan 26, 2015
So...watch'u. gana do to make him trust u.
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by Enegod(m): 11:44pm On Jan 26, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
What do u think about a guy dat is always doubting u..he always wana kwn abt ur way about, even wen u tell him d truth he kep askin.." ar u sure" "hmmm".. and always tinkin u are dating anoda guy...is it dat he dosnt love u at all?
Trust is earned.undecided
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by Enegod(m): 11:51pm On Jan 26, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
So...watch'u. gana do to make him trust u.
Always be honest i mean always, don't have secrets and always communicate with him.
Talk about his past, there must be a time
or few times that he got hurt or when he
was a kid and know he can't trust nobody,
find that dark spot and clean it.
Also remind him that you had got hurt and you don't wish that pain to nobody.
Be open and always talk and give
attention to any details and make sure he
does the same.
Give him time to trust you, do not force
him and make sure to remind him that
you want him to be more open and that
he should not be afraid of trusting you in
specific, make sure to not go to the
extreme of it because we are all human
and are not perfect and if in a future you
fail him by a small details he will make a
huge deal of it and you will lose his trust
again.
Make sure to explain that we are not
perfect and the system is very harsh and
make us fail and that you want to win his
trust and want him to be open with you. undecided
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by Mprex(f): 11:54pm On Jan 26, 2015
that guy is insecure, jealous and a . . . .

































CHEATER!
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by illicit(m): 12:25am On Jan 27, 2015
Anniebeyonce, trust is earned. Do u trust him too? If yes, can u tell me why?
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by Richiy(f): 3:00am On Jan 27, 2015
Something must have happened to him in the past. It is left for you to prove that it can be corrected. Don't leave like that.
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by Nobody: 3:33am On Jan 27, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
Hmmm..but he is actually ur first love...and u love him so much

Or perhaps you have given him enough reason to doubt you
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by MrCork: 3:57am On Jan 27, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
What do u think about a guy dat is always doubting u..he always wana kwn abt ur way about, even wen u tell him d truth he kep askin.." ar u sure" "hmmm".. and always tinkin u are dating anoda guy...is it dat he dosnt love u at all?


^^^^ thise is exactly y I keep writin book to stay away from our black women....she was to date a guy she cheat even though she keeps cheating and askin him: BLACK WOMEN!!! angry

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Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by emperorchedda(m): 6:56am On Jan 27, 2015
siegfried99:
No.. it's might be a case of u not been straightforward with him at times and always creating reasons for him to doubt u

Or u have let him down once.

Or its not meant to be.. bcuz, there is no point been in a relationship without trust.

Or maybe he is actually the one cheating grin
Yeah when a lady isn't straightforward her man will never trust her especially if she has an antecedent of lying and being caught. You don't expect a man to trust when he has caught you cheating before

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Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by emperorchedda(m): 6:57am On Jan 27, 2015
elantraceey:
I can't be in a relationship without trust , it's just a waste of time.
yet most of you sleep around and still expect trust

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Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by elantraceey(f): 7:37am On Jan 27, 2015
emperorchedda:
yet most of you sleep around and still expect trust


Direct that to people guilty of that not me.
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by oluwakekz(m): 8:05am On Jan 27, 2015
farano:
See one of them tongue
Honey pls wake up. See my signature
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by passionate88: 8:17am On Jan 27, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
What do u think about a guy dat is always doubting u..he always wana kwn abt ur way about, even wen u tell him d truth he kep askin.." ar u sure" "hmmm".. and always tinkin u are dating anoda guy...is it dat he dosnt love u at all?
No trust... Maybe you've done something before or he heard something about you
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by vizkiz: 8:18am On Jan 27, 2015
farano:
I can't date that kind of man.

there are some thing you might have done that could make that "gentle man" become the "doubting man"
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by Maamin(m): 8:23am On Jan 27, 2015
These ladies ain't loyal..once beating twice shy grin

They'll be the one cheating on you and still be the first to accuse the guys for cheating. #sighs!
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by passionate88: 8:25am On Jan 27, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
So...watch'u. gana do to make him trust u.
Nothing... Know your self worth
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by rully2: 10:17am On Jan 27, 2015
I don't believe in having to have done something for a guy not to trust you. My sister was in a relationship like this. We stayed together and I can bet with my life that she was totally faithful to this ingrate of a guy. But what does she get in return? The same way the poster described her guy..with responses like.. "are you sure".. "Hmm".."If I find out you are lying?"..my sis was not happy, I see it in her eyes each time she responds to his calls. But she kept hanging on, thinking with time, it will be different.

But NO! It never got different, she left him eventually. My dear trust and insecurity eats deep into a relationship more that you know. If you can live with it, good for you. But if you cant then maybe move on and let him know the exact reason why you are leaving.
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by AnnieBeyonce(f): 12:00am On Jan 29, 2015
Hmmm..diz is serious..i dont jst knw wat to do...he keeps telling me how beautiful i am evry second n wil always say " i wonder how many guys dat ar cmin afta u, am scared oo"...
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by illicit(m): 5:30am On Feb 01, 2015
^ Either ur bf is fugly and insecured or u just exaggerating.
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by AnnieBeyonce(f): 3:53pm On Feb 02, 2015
illicit:
^ Either ur bf is fugly and insecured or u just exaggerating.
not true
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by illicit(m): 4:14pm On Feb 02, 2015
AnnieBeyonce:
not true
ok, whats true
Re: Lack Of Trust In A Relationship by AnnieBeyonce(f): 10:33am On Dec 15, 2015
passionate88:
No trust... Maybe you've done something before or he heard something about you
have done nothing wrong!

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