@ Baauh. ..

Pls don't get it twisted .. . I think U and wife lack effective communication.

You really have to have a heartfelt discussion with wife without accusations and tensed up emotions.

Yeah ! U don't need to send a consent letter BUT IT IMPLIES UR WIFE IS A SINGLE MUM n guess wat UR CHILD AUTOMATICALLY becomes an America GOVERNMENT PROPERTY (whom can't be taken out of d USA)

U will be esstoped by law to later claim paternity because in Law, He who reprobate cannot approbate at the same time.
Pls be guided on Ur decision so U don't loss Ur wife via separation and baby to US government at the same time.

Seriously Mr Baauh U r the first Dad here on NL that ain't impressed wit an Americana baby.

@ Airpure

I wished I had read Ur post earlier before I typed mine..
All d same U had said all der is .. Mr Baauh erroneously thinks a consent letter is a piece of trash okayyy ooo.

He really needs to take charge of His family affairs nothing brings disrespect to a man dan lack of Integrity
and honesty most especially from in - law's.

We understand d situation he is in now but wise members has given him good counsel yet He seems bent on complicating issues.

Hi I don't think the child will become the Property of the US government if he does not give his consent. Where did I get such info?

You can check www.travelstate.gov

fairyprincess:
@ Baauh. ..


Yeah ! U don't need to send a consent letter BUT IT IMPLIES UR WIFE IS A SINGLE MUM n guess wat UR CHILD AUTOMATICALLY becomes an America GOVERNMENT PROPERTY (whom can't be taken out of d USA)

fairyprincess:


I suspect He is a troll

Troll ke. Can a person be dat jobless n NFA oriented

@ Airpure...

Unable to open d link...
Someone told Me to claim spinsterhood so My baby I can benefit from priveledges conferred on Single Mum like a free house with 0-10% Mortgage , Food stamps and allowances but on a condition that I can't travel out of the State with the Child cuz the child is a government baby.
My advice to Mr Baauh was based on dat.

Thankzx for the correction.

@ troll ..Modified

I am not a troll. neither I have that much time to behave like troll. My circumstances make me behaving like this. My in-laws really hurt me.

I have read US passport website that if I don't give consent ( Form 3053). they can still use form DS-5525 to claim that father is not reachable. Is that easy to use DS-5525.
If they are able to use form DS-5525 will she be declared as single mother. Any idea on implications on DS-5525.
http://travel.state.gov/content/passports/english/passports/under-16.html

@ Baauh..
Kk..
I apologise for that....

Is there no way U can communicate with Your wife so U can reach a compromise on how to offset the bills probably by instalment or some other means no matter how small . But going by dis Ur further research on consent forms, it seems U don't want to spend a dime on Ur own blood.
Please forgive Ur In - law's although their actions were unreasonable but they felt they did what was best for their daughter and grandchild..
Cheer Up Mister d birth announcement of a child brings unity from friends n foes alike...
Dis is not a time to draw the sword with In - law's n wifey but ya all should come together to proffer solution on the way forward.

@ Baauh,
Do yourself a little favour; fly to where your family are. Get all the info you need; and if there is any clarification you need, don't hesistate to ask on the thread.

This is baauh's first post in Nov

Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedure? by baauh: 5:11pm On Nov 01, 2014
Hello all,

I am new to this forum. My wife is 8th pregnant and due to be on 10th January. Can anybody recommend good and cheap hospital new New Jersey as we have relatives there.
My maximum budget is around 5k USD."

Ladies, please check out all his posts (go thru his profile) from the beginning and make your deductions

Regards

@bauuh or whatever, enuf of these questions abeg!!!!!!!!!!! Go and sort your family issues out and stop bugging peeps here. I would advise no one answers him again.....too many inconsistencies in the story...mchewwww!

Zozokuzo142:




@dere5
No she wasnt asked if she is pregnant and she will not be traveling for the course she got the visa for.

It could go either way. She can send a mail to the embassy informing them that she wants to use the visa for birthing or she can decide to just go ahead and travel with the visa,if the class of visa covers traveling for health reasons.
What ever option she decides on,she should do her home work very well o i.e have a good reason for not going for the course and should be able to convince them that at poe that her original intention for applying for the visa was for a course and not for birthing ,so it wont be like she planed to use it for birthing from the begining and lied about it, hold enough cash at hand that can cover medical and other expensis, this will convince them at poe that she can pay her bills,have detailed doctor and hospital correspondence stating bill brake down etc

mrsmo:

Madam,na wah for you o,only you with 5 yelow and black nylon bags filled with okazi ,na the whole ndigbo for the city una won feed. Lol,just pulling your legs. Glad to hear you had a successful poe. Wish you safe delivery.

Na wa o. My beloved thread has turned into a thread where disjointed story/family issues are resolved.

You guys have overflogged this issue enough abeg. No new and interesting post since yesterday.

The dude sounds like someone who is not even married sef. Abi am I the only one who observed the immaturity in his posts? Ewwww

I thought I was reading novels or watching film. Pls Baauh, go and settle your family dispute at home. Accept solutions that experienced and learned nairalanders have proffered and if you think is difficult. all the best

baauh:
Please I don't want to ruin this valuable thread by my bad experience. I am very worried that's why asking all possibilities

My in laws did delivery in very expensive hospital of New York.
Me and my wife were not on good terms. My father in law
forced me to let her go for delivery. They kept me ignorant. however I always asked them to pay by cash. Which they didn't I just come across the situation now when they asked for the consent and in return I asked for the receipts.

Please advise me properly how I can get rid of situation where I don't ruin my future chances of visa. shouldn't I write to American embassy here and tell all the wrong stuff did by my in laws and cancel my visa.

Hello,

are you still Elpaso bound first week in April?

isysleek:
Hello house, please has anyone stayed in His Grace lodge in Elpaso? Pls how was the experience? Thank you.

baauh:
@Kizluv
how can she still get passport without my consent.
If suppose my child is not able to get passport, he can still get later on from the consulate if all issues are resolved later on.
Sorry for keeping thread flooded with my queries.

JEEZ, baauh!!!! can you stop already, your wife can obtain a US passport without you, take it or leave it. so you want to resolve the issue b4 giving consent, why not give consent first, and stop thinking of if you can re-enter the US, isnt the baby yours? now you want her to wait and wait and over stay her 6 months. don't apologies for flooding the thread,stop flooding it. HABA

MY two hands are up.
hope is not too late.

isysleek:
Hello house, still no response about His Grace Lodge in El Paso. So no one has stayed there before? May mums travelling in April and using El Paso, holla. Let's plan togeda.

Hi,

Have you decided whether you are heading to El-Paso. If yes, please signify by replying

Dammiehar:


I am also yet to decide between El Paso and MIHS too. I am leaving first week in April too.

Pls anyone with contact in Nigeria embassy newyork, I want to get baby's visa pls help oo, if I may add had a baby girl last week, and didn't pay a dime extra on baby's blood work and tests even the over hyped hearing test, and even got birth control ring at no cost. It is a testimony

IyawoToBe:
Na wa o. My beloved thread has turned into a thread where disjointed story/family issues are resolved.

You guys have overflogged this issue enough abeg. No new and interesting post since yesterday.

The dude sounds like someone who is not even married sef. Abi am I the only one who observed the immaturity in his posts? Ewwww

I don tell una b4 dis guy sounds like a scammer! Seeking 4 attention. @Buah Wats all dis? Only one person 3pages! Abeg create anoda thread 2 direct ur family issues. Ur story is inconsistent yet pple hv given u deir advise. If u want 2 divource ur wife becos of gbese no wahala. U initially said 5k den u later claimed u gave her 10k. Y dn't u stylishly ask someone dat wrks in US embassy let dem tell u straight up wat u r 2 do. We've over flogged dis issue. No man on dis thread has spoken lk u. C oda guys, tvegas, saved 2 serve, bj2012golf etc... pls tk a cue frm dem. Mtshewwwwww!

I must admit this forum has been so informational.I have a little situation and need some advise.
I obtained my US visa in Nigeria almost five years ago while I was working there and was a resident.I later moved to Ghana and have been using the visa since.by the way am Ghanaian and hold a Ghana passport.
My question is,do I need to consult the embassy and tell them about my change of travel purpose or just leave it as it is and use the visa for birthing.I sent them a general email without identification just to know their response..
I off course intend to pay all bills but don't want any whahala when I have to renew my visa.
Thanks and I will be awaiting response..
God bless

You can decide to email the embassy or not,it all depends on you,but whatever you decide just read this thread very well and make adequate preperations for poe.. The american embassy will still know that you had a child in america when you go for renewal of your visa,so keep your receipts and your letter of zero balance because they will ask for it.

Seriously I don't understand why people are all over this discussion. Guy deal with your issues abeg. Leave this thread for more serious talk abeg. Preggy mamas who are ready to pay bills need attention here. No time for your inlaw and family talk.

baauh:
I am not a troll. neither I have that much time to behave like troll. My circumstances make me behaving like this. My in-laws really hurt me.

I have read US passport website that if I don't give consent ( Form 3053). they can still use form DS-5525 to claim that father is not reachable. Is that easy to use DS-5525.
If they are able to use form DS-5525 will she be declared as single mother. Any idea on implications on DS-5525.
http://travel.state.gov/content/passports/english/passports/under-16.html

It is very annoying. I just wonder how he got all the responses he did. The guy is prolly laffing as he types and sees the responses

IyawoToBe:
Na wa o. My beloved thread has turned into a thread where disjointed story/family issues are resolved.

You guys have overflogged this issue enough abeg. No new and interesting post since yesterday.

The dude sounds like someone who is not even married sef. Abi am I the only one who observed the immaturity in his posts? Ewwww

Heliano:
Pls anyone with contact in Nigeria embassy newyork, I want to get baby's visa pls help oo, if I may add had a baby girl last week, and didn't pay a dime extra on baby's blood work and tests even the over hyped hearing test, and even got birth control ring at no cost. It is a testimony

Congratulations on the birth of ur little one. May God continue to bless your entire household.
Pls kindly update d house on your final bill payments. Some of us need that information.
Thanks a bunch.

Hello House,

I want to know if I can rent a bed or 2 bed house for short stay, I found some around Richmond that are affordable, so my question is can I rent it and use it as reservation for visa application?

Thanks.

Hello People, great forum here! Been following this thread for about 2 weeks and my brain is saturated with all kinds of info (very relevant though). I have gotten answers to a lot of questions just by going thru this thread but I still need more clarification on some issues.
Now 2 my questions... I have a valid US Visa which I obtained in November, was a few weeks pregnant at the time which I was unaware of (suspected though). VO asked if I was and my response was 'not to my knowledge".
Our intention (hubby n i) was to go on vacation in November but I had a terrible early preggy experience so I couldn't make it.
We have now decided that I have d baby in the states and I understand from my reading this forum that I can send a letter to the embassy and state my change in travel plans (ie using the visa for birthing purposes).
I have read here abt people that have similar issues and have written to the embassy and gotten the standard response.
Now my husband for some reason does not buy the idea as he claims he knows of about 2 people that got thier visa cancelled after notifying the embassy, he is of the opinion that if we have all d necessary correspondence from d hospital and with strong financial evidence/burden of proof that we can foot our medical bills then we should be fine when we get to any POE.
I've tried persuading him but he is really sceptical about sending the letter..
Abeg my good people advise me.... do I have any other options?

Hello good people.... Can someone pls recommend a doctor for north side in Atlanta?
Gracias

Rama24:
Hello good people.... Can someone pls recommend a doctor for north side in Atlanta?
Gracias

Dr. Coleen Cherry of North Atlanta Obgyn. Callthem and ask for a Dr. Or call Northside/Northpointe Obgyn. Google all of them, call and get a quote.

Hello everyone. Any July mums in the house planning to use Oak bend & Dr. Fagbohun? Please lets plan together. Can anyone suggest an accommodation that is fair and close to the hospital?
Thanks.

lala4sure:
Hello to July mommas travelling in may or june Just want to know who is headed to MIHS or Elpaso i am still indecisive

Hi, I tried sending you a PM but i don't know how it works. Am a July mom and would be heading for Elpaso in May. Would be glad if we can plan together.

sunshine21:
Hello everyone. Any July mums in the house planning to use Oak bend & Dr. Fagbohun? Please lets plan together. Can anyone suggest an accommodation that is fair and close to the hospital?
Thanks.

Am a June mom, using Dr. Fagbohun and oakbend. Heading out in may. Bought my ticket last month bt no accommodation yet

Hi mamas pls need a favor o.
All i can think of is garri and peppersoup. Anyone coming in or already here that has garri and peppersoup spices to spare pls package to me. Am in pennsylvania.