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Re: I Need your Advice by Ewuro4: 10:17pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
pickabeau1: There's nowhere in my posts that supported her actions in any way ( it's beeteeen both of them) .... I only have a problem with his behaviour that all. If You still don't get that that then dont know how else to put that. |
Re: I Need your Advice by raumdeuter: 10:19pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: They both argue. She threatens to leave He helps her to carry out her threat by giving her transport fare Which part do you have a problem with 1 Like |
Re: I Need your Advice by Nobody: 10:19pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Nonso23: No, it's not the same. The light needs billions of years. You only needed to count a few seconds. |
Re: I Need your Advice by Nobody: 10:20pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Nonso23: No, it's not the same. The light needs billions of years. You only needed to count a few seconds. |
Re: I Need your Advice by pickabeau1: 10:20pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Ok The beauty of this thread is that the op herself said she knows she has an acidic mouth Her mouth will cause issues for her Let's start from there 1 Like |
Re: I Need your Advice by Ewuro4: 10:21pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
raumdeuter: So kicking her out is not sucking it up? Hian Yes. He shouldn't suck shait up and shouldn't kick her out neither but It's THEIR HOME. They should sort out their problems however they want. |
Re: I Need your Advice by Nobody: 10:21pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Re: I Need your Advice by Ewuro4: 10:22pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
raumdeuter: Were you there?? |
Re: I Need your Advice by raumdeuter: 10:23pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Where did he kick her out? She was the one that said she wanted to leave. And he provided transport fare and told her to leave the keys with the maiguard when she leaves Do you expect him to lock her in so they can accuse him of holding her hostage against her wish? 3 Likes |
Re: I Need your Advice by raumdeuter: 10:24pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: That was what she narrated |
Re: I Need your Advice by Ewuro4: 10:24pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
raumdeuter: Go reread the post. He gave her Tfare and told her to leave the keys with the guard, what did that indicate to you? |
Re: I Need your Advice by Nobody: 10:26pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Nonso23: No, it is a matter of calculation. |
Re: I Need your Advice by raumdeuter: 10:27pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
cionon: They had a heated argument I also said I wasn't interested in the marriage if he can't accept his fault and make efforts to change. He told me what am i waiting for that I can leave the next day which is today. I said fine I will leave She voluntarily said she would leave and to my suprise, this morning, he gave me transport fare to go back to my parents house. I expected him to beg me and say he will change not give me transport fare. He even took my own keys to the house and gave the security to lock the door after I leave He helped her to achieve her desires of leaving So where did he kick her out or do you want the man to hold her hostage? 2 Likes |
Re: I Need your Advice by Nobody: 10:27pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Even when you told her your wh0res were better than her? 3 Likes |
Re: I Need your Advice by pickabeau1: 10:28pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Lol Did u read d op He just gave her tfare out of the blue? |
Re: I Need your Advice by Nobody: 10:28pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Re: I Need your Advice by raumdeuter: 10:29pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: If someone in your house told you they want to leave, isnt the courteous thing to give them transport fare and give her intructions on how to leave the house? Assuming the man threw her stuff out now without her mentioning her intention to leave then we can say he kicked her out 2 Likes |
Re: I Need your Advice by Ewuro4: 10:30pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
pickabeau1: ofcourse after she lashed out to leave. So next step is to give her Tfare, will you do such if she coowned that house with you? |
Re: I Need your Advice by pickabeau1: 10:31pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: That's why I asked u earlier Do you prefer he left the house for her 1 Like |
Re: I Need your Advice by Nobody: 10:32pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Nonso23: You really need to stop smoking or go back to primary school again. |
Re: I Need your Advice by raumdeuter: 10:36pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Ewuro : I want to eat pickabeau : This is N1000 for food and when you finish leave the plates for Ekaete the housegirl to clean Ewuro Interpretation: Pickabeau is forcing me to be fat by offering me food 1 Like |
Re: I Need your Advice by Ewuro4: 10:37pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
raumdeuter: Courteous ?? You're trolling and sound ridiculous She's his wife and not just anybody nor a tenant. That's what you guys failed to grasp, or this is just what marriage has turned into for you or I'm old school with achaic manners. He doesn't have to literally kick her out before drawing out conclusions from his current action. He has no right to give her Tfare back to her fathers house. It's rude and disrespectful. You get? 2 Likes |
Re: I Need your Advice by Nobody: 10:37pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Re: I Need your Advice by Ewuro4: 10:37pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Re: I Need your Advice by raumdeuter: 10:38pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: If a woman comes to you that her husband is telling her he wants to leave, he cant be in this marriage Would you tell her to lock him indoors and ensure he doesnt leave? ITs a marriage, I believe both are adults, and no room for childish treats, anything you say you mean and be prepared to carry it out When the wife says and insists she wants to leave what should he do? Deny her right of movement? 1 Like |
Re: I Need your Advice by Ewuro4: 10:39pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Answer my Q Ewuro4: |
Re: I Need your Advice by raumdeuter: 10:41pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Then the man would leave the house for her. Abi ? Was she forced to say she wanted to leave? |
Re: I Need your Advice by pickabeau1: 10:41pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Ok....no wahala So am I wrong if I say your indignation about this issue is not about the marriage and reconciliation but the fact that she was encouraged to leave the house If he had left the house and marriage for her..you no get wahala 1 Like |
Re: I Need your Advice by Ewuro4: 10:41pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
raumdeuter: No. I'll advice her to stay calm and give him breathing space to cool off before trashing their problems out TOGETHER. |
Re: I Need your Advice by raumdeuter: 10:43pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: You can only trash something out TOGETHER with someone who is interested in doing so, Not someone who wants to LEAVE. How do you solve an issue TOGETHER when one person wants to LEAVE? And the man didnt throw her out. He didnt give her ultimatum to leave He gave her transport so that any option she chooses she can achieve If she wants to stay fine, If she want to leave, she would have the needed fares 1 Like |
Re: I Need your Advice by pickabeau1: 10:43pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4:No I would not But if her mouth is driving me to High bp levels I will leave the house and move to another house of mine |
Re: I Need your Advice by Ewuro4: 10:44pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
pickabeau1: 1. Damn right .. Couples fight , it's a norm. 2. Take a breather , yes. Leave the marriage? Why would he? |
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