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Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by centjamie(m): 6:16am On Feb 04, 2015

RedBenson:
A typical naija babe would tell you "na love i wan chop, na love go maintain my look etc?" lol. Poverty is not helping us in this part of the world at all.

Funny enough,this thing doesn't only happen in Nigerian.its now money over love any where you go.was suprise to hear from my American online friend about how girls prefer money to love.

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Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by kajoula(m): 6:19am On Feb 04, 2015

Money is the root of all evil

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MONEY ANSWERETH ALL THINGS "ALL THINGS'

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by anitank(f): 6:19am On Feb 04, 2015*

diksucker:
Money is more important

money can buy love

money enhances love

I have heard of relationships that crumbled bcs of lack of money but haven't heard of d one that crumbled bcs of too much money.

a lot of babes would com here & pretend that love is more important

Nobody would chose a broke azzz niga over a rich and very comfortable dude when both r coming simultaneously

lack of money can even make a woman who loves her husband or guy so much to cheat

@ bolded, I have...infact several times.
I used to believe love was more important than money. I'm one of those ladies who believe in starting from the scratch with someone who has potentials and building an empire together. I always thought those rich guys are arrogant and would cheat on you and flaunt it in ur face. Infact seeing a guy as rich was more than enough turn-off for me. Besides I thought what can they get me that I can't get for myself by God's grace. I also had the mindset that those rich guys had that one girl who stood by them when they had nothing, and would most definitely choose them over you when they eventually want to settle down.

By as I grew older, I realised that even those "broke guys with potentials" would still lie and cheat on you. Most of them are always insecure because they believe that because u're a very pretty lady, u'd most likely leave them when some richer guy comes along.

With all that, I drew my conclusions.

@ topic, Love is not enough. Money is the only reason most relationships blossom

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Foxycute(m): 6:19am On Feb 04, 2015

Both r important, u upgrade love wit mony. But moni only impresses broke ass pipo.

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Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by CaptainCodes(m): 6:24am On Feb 04, 2015

I think what most people confuse here is Lust. The woman that you think loves you when you have the money, doesn't love you without the money. Definitely she loves your money. You are A, and Money is B. Both makes AB. She loves A because of B. Take away B from A she flees. Now, that is Lust.

But Love works over all, Over money, Over lust. Whether, B stays or B leaves, Love would always remain.
There are so many rich lovers that crave for love today, they attend counsellors, seminar, love program, just to develop the love, but it can't be bought.

Nevertheless, Money is needed to boost the relationship, but it should never be the basis.

PS: Guys, a girls that loves you when you broke truly loves you, and the one that love you when you are made, check her...

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Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by ideology(m): 6:25am On Feb 04, 2015*

There are things "love" may not be able to do at a time, that liquid money can do.

If you truly love, you will want to give, but If the money is not available, you will not be able to fulfill such. You can lose the love of Your life, if you don't have cash. It doesn't mean she doesn't want you, but …

Well said, love is very vital for a successful relationship, love will survive challenges that money can't. Money can't buy joy and peace but Love will bring it forth. If you find love, you have found money.

Both are needed for a successful relationship.

**** as a man work smart and be rich, i mean very rich so that you can take responsibilities accordingly*****

Love is sweet, money is good, if you have both, awwwwww kiss

(no words to describe the combo) kiss

*****Modified *****
IF YOU FIND LOVE, YOU HAVE FOUND MONEY.

Love is the greatest.

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by 3pleo: 6:28am On Feb 04, 2015

Sarimah:
The both are very important but love comes first before money..

Wat will I gain if I marry a very rich man I have no feelings for and be unhappy for the rest of my life?

U fall in love automatically wen u see money grin

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by victors123: 6:30am On Feb 04, 2015

Both are important but love is the first but now are days is money first another tins follow!!!! That is Nigerians ladies slongan!!!!

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by jane5020(f): 6:30am On Feb 04, 2015

Money and love works together

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by ideology(m): 6:33am On Feb 04, 2015

kajoula:
Money is the root of all evil

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MONEY ANSWERETH ALL THINGS "ALL THINGS

Sister, you have a point but If I should, rephrase the emboldened

''The Love of Money is the Root of all Evil"

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Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by damkin24(m): 6:34am On Feb 04, 2015

Money is more important with so many reasons becos relationship can exist longer without love but cannot without money.

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by searay(m): 6:35am On Feb 04, 2015

Money

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by midephresh1(m): 6:37am On Feb 04, 2015

Nobi 2dae o::Money is good::::90% money,10% love:::I tell you.

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Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:39am On Feb 04, 2015

Lwkmd!

Money is more important. Love can be built but it's only a regular flow of money that could sustain it. But then true love still exists that no amount of money could buy. For me it's all dependent on the female partner. She really holds the key. If she's a greedy woman, then money settles everything for her tongue

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by ioranum(m): 6:40am On Feb 04, 2015

Love is not money but money facilitates shopping.

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by eDoctorr(m): 6:40am On Feb 04, 2015

[b][/b] MY MONEY IS NOT FOR LOVE. SO,, To hell with girls and relationship.

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:40am On Feb 04, 2015

A lot of them lied they're in love but in real sense they're there for the money.
She wouldn't have file a divorce if she knew nothing will come out, I mean the settlement, I learnt she took almost half of what he had, tell me, isn't it obvious that woman is in that relationship because of money, she saw the opportunity and grabbed it, isn't she super rich now, with settlement from the divorce?
My dear money "answereth" all things.

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Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by jcflex(m): 6:41am On Feb 04, 2015

they compliment each other.

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Rapsodee(m): 6:43am On Feb 04, 2015

cybug:
When love enters your house, poverty runs out of the window... only few will understand this.

u make sense

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:44am On Feb 04, 2015

after friendship is money followed by love... (that is to say) money is a midfielder grin

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Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by adiwils(m): 6:46am On Feb 04, 2015

In this computer age Money ni oooo

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:46am On Feb 04, 2015

For me i do believe in love, love make all seem perfect, love births happiness, joy and relatively success.
Ask most successful people, they were loved by devoted women, no wonder they say: behind every successful man there's a woman. Money will surely come, that's for sure, except of course you fall in love with a lazy man/woman

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Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by raziboi(m): 6:47am On Feb 04, 2015

salinakrogh:
Husband and I started tough,with love, we makemoney. Maybe u haven't experienced true love.

aunt abeg true love De exist

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Kingsasian(m): 6:47am On Feb 04, 2015

ronald4lif:
Wow. The level of moral decadence in Nigeria today leaves more to be desired. One need not look further to understand why relationship/marriages hits the rocks more often than during our parents era. In the past, our parents paid no attention to how much their other half had but more attention in making their marriage work. In a society, where majority of their women attach more importance to wealth than love these will end up making their men barely respecting them. Little wonder why cheating has become more prevalent. Love has become conditional, no more unconditional, too many clauses attached to love. Poor love! I agree money is important in every relationship/marriage but placing it above love bears all the hallmark with what is wrong in the country today. I can tell you no woman will be comfortable having all the riches in the world if her hubby doesn't care nor show her affection and cheats around. No man will equally be good if the woman she loves flirts about town regardless how rich and affluent he is. Yes love is more important than money, money is important but no match for love. Except, ofcourse to anyone who hasn't experience love.

God bless u. U are the only one who has given best opinion here

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Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by ThankGodEdeh(m): 6:52am On Feb 04, 2015

I believe in true love but any how you want to look at it, Money Is The Oil That Lubricate Love.

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by ijiini(m): 6:53am On Feb 04, 2015

....nawa.....love is more important....true love can.make u pull thru situations together and make thick money.....money gotten in a such way is better enjoyed self.....though its not easy oh

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Atlantian: 6:54am On Feb 04, 2015

Do we have to re-emphasize that Money is Love ? This is 21st century, and Money rules everything.

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by roufy235(m): 6:56am On Feb 04, 2015

Both are very important but the most important one is money

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by ijiini(m): 6:56am On Feb 04, 2015

3pleo:
U fall in love automatically wen u see money

...and u fall awt of it soon.after u get filled up and dias sometn still missing u yet to find......money can buy love...but onli for a little time.....love needs to be love in order to.be love....money is needed definitely....but love is d greatest!

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by superior494(m): 6:56am On Feb 04, 2015

Love can never be enough. So a little love with much money, is the best in this our time.

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Abumadea: 7:02am On Feb 04, 2015

Both. Women will be frustrated without money. As a married man, I know the importance of money in marriage.

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