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Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Bidex6444(m): 8:41am On Feb 04, 2015
Love is very important in every relationship. If a relationship is based on money then I don't see it as a relationship but business. 99.9% of ladies out there wants money rather than love which means ones there's no money they would go and it shows that they love money and there's no real love in them. According to my own defination of love which says " love is a thing of the heart and it cost nothing than our heart and sincerity" taking a critical look at the defination u will understand that money is nothing but true love is the best.
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Pluslargent(m): 8:42am On Feb 04, 2015
couldn't agree more with you bro...we all agree our parents era had more lasting marriages, but can we say they had more affluence and wealth than we have in this age? I doubt.

also for those who think money is all important then it should be celebrities and the more wealthy having the longest lasting fulfilling marriages, but one look at the tabloids or Linda ikeji's blog and you may need to reassert your money before love belief.
but don't get me wrong, money is MANDATORY in any relationship to be functional, but not necessarily the humongous amounts being coveted by our present age that makes it become get rich or die trying..
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Blakjewelry(m): 8:44am On Feb 04, 2015
Many times I wonder why the world is going crazy but most of the response above just answered my questions.... A generation without love. Now I see why man will kill without thinking twice... Evidence of lack of love
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by willijot(m): 8:46am On Feb 04, 2015
Its love den u need money to make d relationship work, to make d love grow u support wit money

Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Sarimah(f): 8:46am On Feb 04, 2015
Naseeeer:
mehn. Babe ur beauty is legendary
wink
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Nobody:
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Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by DuchessLily(f): 8:54am On Feb 04, 2015
LOVE!
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Liv4beta: 8:57am On Feb 04, 2015
The both r important. There is a song dat says "no moni, no frnd", you can c dat moni can buy true love.
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by nairaman66(m): 9:09am On Feb 04, 2015
ronald4lif:
Wow. The level of moral decadence in Nigeria today leaves more to be desired. One need not look further to understand why relationship/marriages hits the rocks more often than during our parents era. In the past, our parents paid no attention to how much their other half had but more attention in making their marriage work. In a society, where majority of their women attach more importance to wealth than love these will end up making their men barely respecting them. Little wonder why cheating has become more prevalent. Love has become conditional, no more unconditional, too many clauses attached to love. Poor love! I agree money is important in every relationship/marriage but placing it above love bears all the hallmark with what is wrong in the country today. I can tell you no woman will be comfortable having all the riches in the world if her hubby doesn't care nor show her affection and cheats around. No man will equally be good if the woman she loves flirts about town regardless how rich and affluent he is. Yes love is more important than money, money is important but no match for love. Except, ofcourse to anyone who hasn't experience love.
A wonderful piece!
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Movesz(m): 9:11am On Feb 04, 2015
Sarimah:
The both are very important but love comes first before money..

Wat will I gain if I marry a very rich man I have no feelings for and be unhappy for the rest of my life?
[color=#1980BC] oh dear you are so sweet...


I wish people like you exist in real life
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diksucker:
Money is more important

money can buy love

money enhances love

I have heard of relationships that crumbled bcs of lack of money but haven't heard of d one that crumbled bcs of too much money.

a lot of babes would com here & pretend that love is more important

Nobody would chose a broke azzz niga over a rich and very comfortable dude when both r coming simultaneously

lack of money can even make a woman who loves her husband or guy so much to cheat



lol...i bet you are still young..

Money counts tho...

Lol...so if i marry you and i go broke later on, you will fukl my best friend..hmm



farano:
Ok...It's love cool
love and money is like a car and fuel...

Both is needed...
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by AdeniyiA(m): 9:12am On Feb 04, 2015
True love only exists where godliness dwells.
In the world where the love of God does not dwell in the majority, worldliness and materialism are the order of the day.
Matthew 6:33, says "seek ye first the kingdom God &His righteousness(love), all other things (e. g money) shall be added into thee "
In other words, love should come before or attract money and not d other way round.
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Flawlessangel(m): 9:12am On Feb 04, 2015
bustyhelen:
Money only matters to the point that you need it to survive and get the basics in life however with love you can have very little yet still be happy if you don't have love what good is it to have endless amounts of money? Answer mine?
do u know sometimes lack of money can lead to the end of a relationship / marriage even if they love eachother??.....lack of money would bring constant quarrels and unwanted comparising to other wealthier guys.... There's only so much endurance one cud have b4 the lack of money starts crumbling the home and killing d love.
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Sarimah(f): 9:17am On Feb 04, 2015
[quote author=Movesz post=30412710][color=#1980BC] oh dear you are so sweet...


I wish people like you exist in real life
[/color]they do exist smiley
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Flawlessangel(m): 9:17am On Feb 04, 2015
Sarimah:
The both are very important but love comes first before money..

Wat will I gain if I marry a very rich man I have no feelings for and be unhappy for the rest of my life?
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Flawlessangel(m): 9:17am On Feb 04, 2015
Sarimah:
The both are very important but love comes first before money..

Wat will I gain if I marry a very rich man I have no feelings for and be unhappy for the rest of my life?
what would u gain if u marry 4 love and over the years u and ur husband starts having serious money problems which u and i know would bring about quarrels and unhappiness in d home?.........THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN TO ANYONE IS TO BE IN POVERTY AN STILL LIVE IN AN UNHAPPY HOME...
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Sarimah(f): 9:24am On Feb 04, 2015
Flawlessangel:
what would u gain if u marry 4 love and over the years u and ur husband starts having serious money problems which u and i know would bring about quarrels and unhappiness in d home?.........THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN TO ANYONE IS TO BE IN POVERTY AN STILL LIVE IN AN UNHAPPY HOME...
as far as d love is still there there is no cause for alarm
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Flawlessangel(m): 9:25am On Feb 04, 2015
DuchessLily:
LOVE!
a cute, tall handsome rich dude wants ur hand in marriage and u are dating some poor dude, are u telling me u wud turn him down?
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Movesz(m): 9:26am On Feb 04, 2015
[quote author=Sarimah post=30412855][/quote][size=30]i never met one[/size]
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Flawlessangel(m): 9:27am On Feb 04, 2015
Sarimah:
as far as d love is still there there is no cause for alarm
babe there is cos 4 alarm o.......do u know how many marriages 2day that are dissolved due to lack of money?? D woman married the man initially 4 love but the lack of money was too much cos the kids were suffering and this brought about quarrels which lead to d end of the marriage
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by nairabetguru(m): 9:28am On Feb 04, 2015
Women expect men to prove their love for them by spending money on them.


While men expect women to love dem cuz they hav money

Conclusion is dat money sets love in motion grin
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Flawlessangel(m): 9:30am On Feb 04, 2015
Pluslargent:
couldn't agree more with you bro...we all agree our parents era had more lasting marriages, but can we say they had more affluence and wealth than we have in this age? I doubt.

also for those who think money is all important then it should be celebrities and the more wealthy having the longest lasting fulfilling marriages, but one look at the tabloids or Linda ikeji's blog and you may need to reassert your money before love belief.
but don't get me wrong, money is MANDATORY in any relationship to be functional, but not necessarily the humongous amounts being coveted by our present age that makes it become get rich or die trying..
most of these celebrities marry rich men/women dat are arrogant, such marriage wouldnt last long.......but if a rich man marries a lady 4rm a poor home....am sure she would do everything in her power to make the marriage work
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by amacastel: 9:33am On Feb 04, 2015
Pls ask dabota lawson, mrs shade okoya, annie idibia, bianca ojukwu. They will tell u money cannot be compared with love biko money attaracts love these days every wia I belive kim kardiashian is my witness. Every woman need money unless wen she have then she will tlk love if she don't have the 1st thing is money
Wizkid will tell u how tania welcomes him even wen she saw him cheating,
Money brings u fame ,power and background after God na money
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by yomi007k(m): 9:36am On Feb 04, 2015
misshoree:
Money can buy everything but not happiness and love brings about Happiness.I will choose love over money
Money can buy happiness n love.

Ofcos u wud chase love because u can't tell a dude that ur after his money,u wud tell him ur after his love just not to seem desperate.
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Toeyean1507(f): 9:41am On Feb 04, 2015
Why do we keep deceiving ourselves weneva opinions concerning dis consecutive phenomenom are sought. Love and Money are like Sequence and series in Mathematics. U cant talk about one widaout making ref to d oda. Wats love widaout money and wats money widaout love? if i love him enof,i'll stick with him wen he's financially unstable and wen he's way above average,moneywise, he still needs my love to remain stable. Love dont cost a thing yet its very expensive to maintain. #my1cent
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by loomer: 9:57am On Feb 04, 2015
POOR MAN DE LOVE?
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by machi25(f): 10:45am On Feb 04, 2015
I don't think I can be happily in love without money neither can I be happy in a relationship without genuine love....for me d both are equally important.
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by DuchessLily(f): 10:45am On Feb 04, 2015
Flawlessangel:
a cute, tall handsome rich dude wants ur hand in marriage and u are dating some poor dude, are u telling me u wud turn him down?
absolutely! if I love d poor dude, ofcos I will turn d rich dude down. I'm an independent person. My problem is I dnt knw how to ask and disturb someone 4 money/material things. I beliv in working (decent work) for what I have (friends call it pride, some say I'm mumu) but dats me. Nobody can entice me wt money or gifts. I love LOVE
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Flawlessangel(m): 10:48am On Feb 04, 2015
DuchessLily:
absolutely! if I love d poor dude, ofcos I will turn d rich dude down. I'm an independent person. My problem is I dnt knw how to ask and disturb someone 4 money/material things. I beliv in working (decent work) for what I have (friends call it pride, some say I'm mumu) but dats me. Nobody can entice me wt money or gifts. I love LOVE
even if u are not very sure the poor dude wud get married to u @ d end of the day....and this rich, i mean veryyyyy rich dude loves u like crazy
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Juliesexy(f): 10:50am On Feb 04, 2015
JoeCutie:
Neither of them is IMPORTANT! undecided
True! So true!
God! Why do we reason alike? I get your point perfectly well.

Love & money are of course, important in relationships, but they are not the only important things. For instance, money in a relationship, is over hyped. We see it as if money is the ONLY thing.

A girl should first of all, never forget that her boyfriend is not her father. Don't put pressure & so much responsibility on him. Ask your parents for money! They are your parents, and they are the ones who are biologically, customarily, legally & affectionately responsible for you.

A girl (and the boy too) should know that just love is not enough. It's not enough to say, "I love you" all the time. You have to try & prove it, but not by splashing money. It can never be the true measure of love. Do things different: play around, get crazy & even maybe, naughty, sometimes, take a walk, go out - it must not be to the eateries, you can go out & visit your both friends together. Watch your backs, and be there for each other.

And...dear ladies, if you can, give it to him from time to time. I'm sure he'd be happy. wink smiley

Just Money or Love is not enough; therefore, neither of them is IMPORTANT. #MyOpinion. smiley
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by DuchessLily(f): 10:50am On Feb 04, 2015
Flawlessangel:
even if u are not very sure the poor dude wud get married to u @ d end of the day....and this rich, i mean veryyyyy rich dude loves u like crazy
few weeks into any relationship, I make sure I knw my stand wt d guy, whoever he is
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by Flawlessangel(m): 10:57am On Feb 04, 2015
DuchessLily:
few weeks into any relationship, I make sure I knw my stand wt d guy, whoever he is
he says yes he wants to marry u but isnt making any move to propose 2 u
Re: Money Or Love: Which Is More Important In A Relationship? by DuchessLily(f): 11:02am On Feb 04, 2015
Flawlessangel:
he says yes he wants to marry u but isnt making any move to propose 2 u
I'm not blind, my sixth sense will make me knw what's up. I love LOVE, but I dnt fall blindly in love. I grow in love. So nothing shakes my love since I grow in love
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